It’s wrong that she lied, but to say that she deserves pain and suffering for this is entirely disproportionate. And the guy is an idiot if he thinks any chick going to college didn’t get nailed at least once in her day. She didn’t cheat on him, she didn’t get knocked up by another guy, she didn’t do anything that I would consider royally fucked up (that we know of). She lied about being a virgin.
Having said that, the fact that the chick chose to hang out with people who would dump her out on the side of the road at night if she didn’t offer up a blow job does speak to the kind of people she was hanging out with at that time. But even then, that is still a personal choice and doesn’t necessarily effect whether her marriage is happy in the moment. She even admits she tried her best to cut those people out of her life. Honestly, can anyone say with 100% honesty that that kind of thing couldn’t have happened to the run-of-the-mill, average woman?
so you’d forgive your wife if she told you wide eyed that she is pure but then you got sent a link of her sucking loads of dicks on pornhub? after you respected her wishes of not asking her to do it to you? her husband? for years?
I’d be angry, sure. When it happens to you, your perception can become clouded by an emotional response, but then again, I’m not this guy and it’s unlikely that I would react the way he did. The guy does have the right to be angry to an extent, but to say that he hopes she kills herself and miscarries? How the fuck can anyone say that that is a proportional response?
To act as if this is entirely unforgivable is bullshit. Again: did she cheat on him? Is she carrying another man’s kid? Did she lie about something so big that it justifies this guy saying the fucked up things he has said to her? No, it doesn’t.
And whether or not there is video evidence of the act doesn’t really change anything in the long term. If a guy fucks a girl, whether or not there is a video of it happening doesn’t change the fact that it happened.
I don’t see how the guy can really get faulted for anything in this situation. You’re allowed to have whatever deal-breakers you want in a relationship; he had his, she lied about her past, and now he’s understandably salty. Sure, hoping that she has a miscarriage is a little extreme, and it’s a situation that can be recovered from, but he has every right to be angry and hurt.
the film that that scene came from tells a good tale of get true or get the fuck out. you guys keep talking as if every action we make is always a conscious conclusion when its actually a little bit of the actions we make is a concious conclusion
this is why raz0r and serpents shit happens life is a constant theme in their consciousness, its because they reject the bulk of their psyche.
The issue Is you could never trust her again, its clear she has no problem lying to you. How could you ever keep a marriage after that? The worst part is she’s pregnant and now he’s tied to her for life through their kid, she’s lied her way through life and is going to come out on top… Or at least decent. This dude has lost any shred of trust and normalcy in life and is fucked. We need to pitch in, find this guy, and get him a blowjob stat
Seems like everyone is at fault. His for not understanding that despite his culture in America things are different. Her fault for not being fully honest and having self control in college. The parents of both of them for forcing their own children to believe in archaic cultural standards and imposing that on them.
Nothing was imposed on her. She wasn’t able to push around guys that she was dating because they saw through her, so she went to her parents and asked to be setup. They talked her up and looked around, and then when she saw a dude she wanted she went after him. She fooled the guy, and they got married.
And she probably would have gotten away with it if not for those meddling kids!
She refused to suck his dick though. She said it was too small and gross. She likes the big white man cocks only. haha that still cracks me up. That convo as it happened:
him: hey baby, can you go down on me? I’ve heard married couples in healthy relationships do that type of stuff
her: No, I’ve never done anything like that, it sounds icky!
him: Ah okay. I don’t want to make you do anything you’re not comfortable with
(they have regular sex)
him: was it as good for you as it was for me?
her: Eh. your cock is kinda small
him: huh?
her: uh, not that I would know. I was a virgin before I met you, teehee. Also, get your dick away from my mouth, it’s disgusting.
him: ah…
husband gets message, watches video
WTF WHY IS SHE SUCKING THOSE COCKS BUT NOT MINE? AND WHY ARE THEY SOO MUCH BIIIGGER?!?!?
LOLOLOLOL this cracks me up every time. I can just imagine the guy’s whole world come crashing down.