She destroyed his entire life. America is so anti-men, divorce will destroy him if he takes the option. He needs to do anything possible to make sure she does not give birth to a kid. She got him trapped.
Marriage is built on trust. If you don’t have trust, you have nothing. She was just a whore and ruined this man’s life. She probably targeted him because he was rich and because he was a virgin she knew she could get him on lock.
I for one am APPALLED by the misogyny expressed in this thread! Her husband should be completely okay with her deception! It’s how many women get married! You men bathing in your misogyny never try to understand women!
Prenup doesn’t mean anything in America. The chick can just claim she was forced to do it and get one of her friends as a witness and then they can circle jerk about how the man is such a terrible and abusive person who forced her to marry him and that she and her child need to get as far away as possible from him for their safety. Now they can get free rent basically (section 8) and milk him for all the $$$ he got for years and years.
The dude who sent the video is a hero. Realised it wasnt right for him to have that video of a married woman on his piece, took responsibility and sent it back to the dude who does have the right to watch it. Now a marriage is ruined? Husband is a total bitch.
it’s really weird to me that people are taking her at her word. she lied to the guy she married, you think she won’t lie on the internet? her entire story sounds like she’s retold her life in a way where she’s blameless, every guy she knew in college was a douchebag, and her husband is just insecure. perfectly written to protect her own reputation. sounds like someone unwilling to take responsibility for her own decisions.
“they pressured me to have sex with them” okay lol
She’s shitty because she lied, but wasn’t he happy with her before he knew this? Isn’t she still the same person? I think it’s his beliefs that fuck this up for him, imo.
He was happy before, but after that video found its way to him, it became a case of getting married under false pretenses. It’s a fucked up situation, and his perception of her is totally different now. I couldn’t fault him for being distraught.
It is his beliefs that fucked it up for him. Otherwise his loaded ass wouldn’t have sat around as a virgin for his entire 20s when he could have been out fucking other women. Instead he did what his culture told him to do, because he thought there were women who were following the rules just like him, and they’d both get together and live a fairy tale life in marital bliss.
You and I know that isn’t realistic. Not in America. But he was raised in a child like state. Can you imagine not having sex at all in your 20s? Your very prime? And never getting a blowjob even after you’re married only to find out your wife was whoring it up and blowing other guys, just you weren’t good enough for that? That would be rough, I would not take it very well if I was in that position.
Heck I don’t take relationships very well at all even now.
It’s kind of funny, in all honesty, I’ve really struggled with relationships. Most women are only interested in me sexually. And quite a few have told me it’s better for me that way and they don’t want to hurt me. For awhile it did bother me in terms of self worth. Like what is wrong with me that girls only want to have sex with me and not a relationship? I’m not the guy these women introduce to their parents, or go out on dates with in public. I’m just the guy they have sex with and sometimes ignore me if they’re in a group and see me.
This guy, lol, shit what does he have? The only woman he’s known is not even sexually attracted to him obviously, just wanted to use him for status and money. I see what happened to this guy and I think these girls I’ve been with did actually do me a favor. This dude is doooooone. How does he recover? He’s missed the best years of his life and looks like a total chump. She’s obviously leaving out parts that make her look bad, and it looks bad even then! Haha how can you take this guy seriously? Come on, deep down we’re all laughing at him. Well, I am laughing openly and admitting I’m a bad person. But everyone is laughing at him, even the women supporting her still laugh at him.
I get where he’s coming from, but it’s also an awful world view to have. Virginity means nothing and does not measure a person’s worth. I would be upset about the lie, sure, but I don’t understand him and his culture putting so much worth on such a trivial matter.
You’re looking at it wrong. It’s not her virginity, it’s his. He doesn’t measure up as a man because he was a virgin. He’s a complete tool and he knows it, he’s been shown how far below he falls in comparison to everyone else. This would have been avoided if he had actually had sex before. If he had just dated before marriage he wouldn’t have been in that position. Instead he acted like a total dork treating her with inexperience and now he knows she was laughing at him the entire time. Dude is crushed I tell you, crushed! I bet he offs himself.
It’s not even dating. His culture/religion/etc trapped him in an isolated reality. Marrying the person she pretended to be did not violate the rules of his reality. Now his reality was shattered and virginity taken. He can no longer have the virgin fairy tale wedding. His only choice within the confinement of his own reality is to remain with her. If he divorces her, his life is basically destroyed.
No offense to anyone, but these types of events will continue as long as humans will continue to shelter themselves from reality.
Serpent how can you hate on a guy for his beliefs? He was betrayed and now he is royally pissed its understandable. I dont think he probably even cared about sex, if he is loaded then am sure some bitches out there would sleep with him if he put some effort in.
Cannot excuse the crying over having a small piece though, nigga shoulda bought a penis pump or something, seriously wtf.