lol:
Poor bastard. But I guess that’s what you get for believing a woman has been through college and never had sex.
Oh what a tangled web you will weave
If in life you do deceive…
Sounds like she keeps pretty shitty company, honestly (or rather, kept). Still doesn’t excuse messing with someone’s private life like that.
Dude is ruined. Imagine staying a virgin your entire life, going through all your culture’s proper channels, meeting the woman that you think is perfect for you, marrying her and then supporting her with your big paycheck for 4 years, getting her pregnant, and throughout all that time she refuses to suck your dick even once. And then BOOM she’s sucking dicks left and right, big, floppy donkey boners!
Haha. I know I am a bad person but I can’t stop laughing at this guy. I even feel bad to laugh at him but it’s just funny to me.
I loled about the small penis bit.
At first I was like:
Then when I saw it was a Reddit link I was like:
And as a fellow desi when I think of the husband and wife’s lives in the next few days I be all like:
Would you be able to shed light on the culture? I found a lot of it rather surprising, and think a lot of it is hamster speak.
Like why couldn’t she find another Indian dude that didn’t care?
My take is this dude was higher tier than her, because she mentions he has a great job, and that’s what she was going for.
Her parents set her up with the dude. I have several Indian friends that got married and “their parents set them up” is closer to an arranged marriage than the typical American idea of being set up by your parents.
Let’s see that video!
Move on…
Well I’m bengali not indian, but same shit to most people lol, anyways I get what you’re saying about the husband being naive, but he isn’t professor X how is he supposed to know when she’s lying? I’ve been cheated on by a lot of girls mostly during high school and most of them didn’t give off any red flags in retrospect, never underestimate the ability of a female to hide her flaws or really anything, if it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck then it’s not your fault for not knowing it’s actually a female dog. I just finished reading a good chunk of the Reddit comments and not surprisingly most of the comments seem to be defending the woman, painting her as the victim in this situation by saying that she was raped/sexually abused and that everyone makes mistakes so in short everyone is getting their white knight on lol while completely ignoring or excusing the fact that this woman built a marriage and a soon to be family on a big fat lie LOL.
Here is what I posted on reddit and since I’m not dick sucking the female gender I’m sure it will be downvoted or deleted eventually:
You have to understand whether it’s on the internet or real life there will always be a lot of white knights who excuse and/or deflect any negative behavior women commit for whatever reasons. So you shouldn’t be surprised to find most people here completely ignore the part where she lied to her husband’s face about an obvious deal breaker and built a marriage on that huge lie. I do feel sorry for this woman and empathize with her college experience if she was actually sexually coerced but all we have is her word so we don’t really know if she was or if she was just a slut so I won’t comment on that either way beyond encouraging her to get legal counsel as others suggested. Apart from that this woman stopped deserving any empathy and respect the moment she made the decision to lie to her future husband, she clearly didn’t care about him or respect him when she lied so why should any of us care or respect her now that her lie was revealed? I feel bad for the husband finding out your marriage is based on a lie is probably tough. And to anyone using the invalid excuse of “We all make mistakes” please note that their is a world of difference between a mistake and outright not respecting and trusting your significant other enough to tell them about your past. If you can’t confide in your significant other than who can you tell? Are we supposed to accept that our significant others shouldn’t be honest with us at all times? The moral backflips people are doing here just to portray this woman in a not so negative light is just funny to me. All that being said I do hope she and the husband can somehow move on with their life and come to some kind of agreement that is in the best interest of the unborn child so that he/she can grow up in a healthy environment.
As for the cultural angle I completely understand where she is coming from I’m sure @"Dangerous J" does too, the strict and demanding parenting style and cultural peers really socially engineer you down a routine and well defined path in life and any deviation from it will be met with complete social condescension and rejection from some friends and definitely family. That being said no amount of peer pressure will ever make it okay to fucking lie to someone you supposedly say you want to spend your life with especially when it’s about something that you know would be a big deal to that significant other.
And to answer your question I can’t speak for someone else obviously, but my best guess is she either wanted a guy who was a financially successful virgin or more likely felt pressured by her family to get married to a guy like that, because a guy who doesn’t care if his future wife is a virgin or not most likely is a guy who will not be accepted by that wife’s tradional parents.
This right here is the reason I REFUSE to get married. One of my greatest fears. She fucked him to the bone. She better separate herself from him immediately. As of now, he’ll either kill her (and his unborn child), kill himself, or go the murder-suicide route. The coldest part is if he has the will to go on, he’ll despise his child, because all he’ll see when he looks at him/her, is the woman who ruined his life.
LOL, I laughed, and then I felt bad for the dude.
Your girl never gives you a blow job, and now this “white” dude with a bigger dick is getting one from your woman?
Laugh out fucking loud, you where just mentally broken. Poof
She shouldn’t have lied, she should have been honest about it, in fact she should have been honest about it, because she could say she was manipiluated into being a putita. Then again, she choose to be one, and she should have fucking owned up to the fact that she choose to be a putita.
It’s not like this marriage would have lasted any way. She has trust issues, and wasn’t forthcoming to her husband. She didn’t trust himself or herself enough to clear this shit from day one and build off that.
Indian American and Asian American women that primarily associate within their ethnic/cultural cliques are the biggest gold digging whores
> “Then on I tried traditional American dating for a couple more years, and things didn’t pan out”
Yea maybe because normal guys saw you as a undesirable fob whore… and probably hairy, too
I actually knew an Indian girl who was very, very reticent, only to see her a few months later desperately trying to weave herself in convos with groups of white dudes, and wearing a ton of make up. Laughing to their jokes awkwardly and such.
If the story is true (and it sounds quite plausible) I actually feel sorry for her; she made some stupid mistakes in her younger days, due to having low self-esteem and no one to turn to (she can’t talk to her strict parents for any real advice) and trying to display chasteness in order to meet her culture’s standards.
Her need for deception comes from her insecurity, due to a very repressed culture. Still, as a grown woman, she could’ve at least been up front about not just marrying some dude because he’s safe or successful and family approved, and just dealt with the consequences then and there.
Starting a relationship on a complete lie nearly always spells doom.
So I was kind of pissed when I started reading the reddit and seeing the all the white knights but amidst all of the white knighting there were actually some good posts. I really enjoyed the ones that came from Indian people that really broke it down and did not take her sob story and focus on it. They instead told her how incredibly wrong she was for lying to him about it when she knows just how important it is in that culture. Also was interesting to find out that the ones who are really conservative like that are the families with money.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with any woman doing any sexual thing with anyone however there is a major problem with leading your future partner to believe that you are something you are clearly not when you know it will be a deal breaker. It is incredibly selfish.
Oh and fuck never getting a blowie. What kind of life…
i think the really sad part of all this is how you admitted to going to reddit
lol I don’t know anything about Reddit, but a few times people have linked me there. I know they call their subforums “subreddits” and that one seemed to be the funniest one so I was just reading stuff off of it. And when I found this I thought I should share it with SRK.
But why would going to reddit be sad? It’s like just some sort of forum site right?
If it has lots of people…maybe I can troll them???