Word, you got someone who supposedly worked at Hooters, who took advantage of her femininity coming on this site when they don’t even play these kind of games for what reason. Why the fuck would you even be on a site devoted to fighting games, which in itself is mostly male orientated due to the content, and then expect everyone to act differently just for you. You want people to patronize you then take your sorry ass back to Hooters and shake your tits for tips. Fake ass feminazi self serving bullshit rhetoric.
Because they are low tier in the current hierarchy of women (based on beauty) and are not talented and hardworking enough to make it far in the men tier list (based on money-power-fame) so they cry for a balance patch.
Lots of beta men in the gaming industry. I don’t even think these feminists know they are doing it but they pick their enemies wisely… I think they, as a movement, are attracted to a male dominated scene they have realistic chances of rustling up. I don’t think much will change though cause nerds/geeks are neurotic about what they like.
This argument assumes that the two sides are on equitable footing, but men and women have very different precedents of power and influence throughout history. What are men going to complain about? Being kept in a long-standing position of implicit privilege?
To paraphrase Louis CK, it isn’t that men don’t get to complain. It’s just that women get to complain more.
It’s easy to “suck it up” when whatever it is that you’re sucking up has never had any real consequence to your life. There are still many walks of life in which women are simply told they’re not welcome, and you could make a good case based on threads like this one that the video game community is one of them. “They’re trying to take away everything that’s ours!” and all that.
Flash fact: being a hypocrite has nothing to do with whether your argument is right or wrong. Skepticism 101.
As terrible as it sounds, that’s often how it works out with feminists. Society has been made into such a way now, that if you attempt to call out the double standard, and the sexism of the majority feminist mindset itself, that you’re only doing that “because you hate women”. You can hate the majority of the Feminist without hating women or equal rights for them, in the same way hating Chauvinism doesn’t mean you think men should have less rights than women or that you have to hate men.
I “get” that in some places women don’t have equal rights, and are seen as almost “inferior”, but having people from countries where that isn’t the case being the ones to speak the most about it, lessens the effect. And really, in no way shape or form is making it an “us vs them” or “either you’re with us or you’re against us” mindset going to make people feel more inclined to sympathize with you, as chances are more likely they’ll roll their eyes and say “Oh for fuck’s sake, not this shit again”.
Am I correct in thinking that there is a broad sentiment in this thread that people from outside the hardcore gaming realm have no real right to criticize it? Because that’s absurd. Cultural criticism isn’t limited to criticizing cultural venues that one is a part of. If that were the case, there would be no right for anyone to have an opinion on anything they have no immediate relation to. It’s like telling someone their opinion on the sanitation system is invalid because they aren’t sanitation workers. Cultural media affects everyone in that it is the expression of society, fostering certain attitudes and altering the zeitgeist (the rise of a historically specific form of American nationalism within the onset of neoliberalism for example).
On the topic at hand, I’m all for calling out irrationality and blind hatred regardless of topic but I’m also all for addressing a reasonable woman or man’s concern over the objectification of women in cultural media overall. To say it’s nonexistent or that men don’t complain when they get objectified, is to completely miss the point of the topic which is not static or limited to a particular woman’s experience but encompasses an entire history of subjugation and socially and culturally instituted hierarchies. Throughout all the man rage, the rational points of some particular aspects or branches of ‘feminist’ criticism gets obfuscated and written off in the fuss.
I decided to research the whole Dragon’s Crown and Kotaku crap.
After 5 minutes I had gotten so frustrated that I think it gave me cancer.
Honestly the whole argument is:
“She has big boobs therefore it’s sexist!!!111!!!”
Honestly why is ‘feminism’ so pathetic? All they do is judge and whine and bitch then cry when they realise it hasn’t gotten them anywhere then start the whole cycle again…I feel a time consuming rant coming on so I’m gonna stop now, but leave this image to simply sum up my views on modern day ‘feminism’ and why I struggle to respect it at times: (it’s pretty off-topic so I’ll spoiler it)
Men can’t win. If you like girls with make-up you’re gonna get bitched at by a ‘feminist’ if you don’t guess what? You’re gonna get bitched at by a ‘feminist’[/details]
The only thing worse are ‘feminist’, friendzoned beta-males who write some of these bullshit articles.
The issue that most seem to be skirting is it’s not a matter of criticizing or not, which ever stance you chose to take is no matter to me.
But the sudden entitled demands made with no plausible or noteworthy examples other then artistic direction and the blanketed “Objectified” term being thrown.
My main issues with these arguments aside from the absurdity is that like many push’s that attempt to climb on the equal rights crucifix they are not seeking true balanced rights but rather a reversal of the perceived dicadomy.
The proverbial passive aggressive “you are on top now it’s my turn”.
Looooool, not buying into the horseshit that is ‘inequality’ in the gaming industry makes you a deluded nerd? Take a look at any community with hostile people in it, it isn’t just limited to women. To use Call of Duty as an example, you’re likely to get the fuck flamed out of you if you say ANYTHING unless you’ve lucked out and found the nice lobby out of a million or play strictly in party chat. Am I crying that because I’m a white man, I’m being racially attacked every time somebody abuses me for nothing? Or that because I have a dick, these guys and girls smell blood in the water and want to attack me? No, because I’m not a deluded fucking child that, instead of taking slight measures to remove the problem, complains about the big scawwy teenage bois!!! and cries myself to sleep knowing the scary patriarchy hates me!
People need to stop enabling this bitch behavior and give people a slap to let them know how goddamn stupid they are. Abuse is nothing new, especially in competitive games, so why the fuck should it be different for women? Sure, it’s not the greatest thing to load up a game and hear FAGGGGGGGGGGGOT, FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGOOOOTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT, FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAG over the microphone, but these chicks act like it’s unavoidable or that it’s some life changing abuse. Removing all forms of abuse from ANYTHING is completely unrealistic and impossible, so the main message should be educating these new women on things to do, of which they are many:
Don’t call attention to your gender, that doesn’t mean don’t talk, it just means don’t go HEY GUYS, YEAH I’M A GIRL THAT PLAYS GAMES, FUNNY HUH? or have a massive paragraph in your bio/steamprofile going on about yeh im a gamer girl XP pretty cool rite?? because you’re just making yourself a target by presenting your gender as the most important facet of your online personality.
If that doesn’t work, which it usually does, then talk to one of the admins or moderators on the server or if you’re on consoles, just leave and find a new lobby. Or you could do the logical thing which is…
… fucking MUTE them. Don’t pay heed to the abuse and stop retaliating unless you want a goddamn argument. Obviously a keen eyed feminazi would swing that as OH SO I’M JUST SUPPOSED TO LET BAD THINGS HAPPEN? DATS MISOGYNY! but guess what? Bad things WILL happen in nearly ANY fucking community, so suck it up and take measures to PREVENT IT. Stop calling on white knights on the internet to defend your honor and defend it yourself, goddamn.
If you don’t have the stomach to play by yourself and front abuse in any game that somehow doesn’t employ servers, a mute function, a separate voice chat system like Parties or any PC game, then TURN OFF VOICE COMMUNICATIONS. Chances are that if there is an abusive member of your team, then you’re not going to accomplish anything with your microphone, regardless of your gender or race. It’s not rocket science.
So with all those options that are available for basically any videogame, how are women being constantly subjugated to abuse? Sure, you might have to front 5 seconds of potential abuse from a little kid or a manchild, but after you’ve taken them out of the picture what’s the problem? Are you saying that girls are so fragile that 5 seconds of a stranger DARING to say anything negative towards them is going to shatter their composure and turn them into a blubbering mess? If that’s the case then I’ve got one giant tip for you: don’t look forward to growing up, because you’ve got plenty of time to get abused by loud, obnoxious bitches in real life with no mute button or server switching options at your disposal.