*Surprised this hasn’t been mentioned yet, but shouldn’t Rumble be considering freezing joint accounts and changing passwords on his devices/accounts? Hopefully someone with experience like @Manx can chime in here.
Though I suppose that might be best left to after he consult his lawyer about it. *
Once this gets rolling, your mom shouldn’t have any contact with her either. It’s warfare, man. You have to get into that mentality. Forget being nice and all that shit. That’s how I fucked up. if I had just got my kids and jetted with them, I’d be golden right now. But since I tried to be nice, I got fucked.
If you really plan on divorcing this woman, then you need to make sure that you never see her again in person outside of a court room. That’s the reality of it. You don’t have children with her, so there’s absolutely no reason to do so at this point either.
Seek legal advice from a professional licensed in your state (lawyer).
Divorce right after child? Sounds like you got played.
This big tit Asian stalker is super desperate. I don’t try to love her because she is crazy and doesn’t understand what a relationship is but she sometimes wins because she is too persistent.
When she mentions marriage when I don’t even consider her girlfriend status I’m like:
Put that shit to the test. If it’s not your kid and if this chick is trying to ruin your life, bury here. Make sure all of your family and friends know what a horrible person she is. Go to the cops and get a restraining order and tell them she’s stalking and harassing you and make sure you have and retain all evidence and if she is creating lies and causing you damages you could probably sue her for defamation.
You have been here six years and still don’t know when to parry? If she doesn’t stop then you will need to unleash your meter on her. Seek a lawyer for advice on which super is best.
Prenup doesn’t mean shit. My friends had it and got divorced and lost everything and they all had a prenup. Then again, New York legal system hates men, other states are not as bad.
Some good shit here. Though OP sounding so bitch-made that he’s prosecuting himself.
Better hope your ex doesn’t tell your wife your SRK account, shit like this can be used against you.
This dumbass OP basically admitting he owes her 30k right here. SMH at this dude.
You should minimize spending as much as possible and don’t have unprotected sex and don’t get her pregnant, even for a full year after marriage, as most gold-digging whores don’t have that much patience and have a one year deadline.
Be careful what you say to your friends. Since this chick is your ex, chances are, she knows your friends and anything you tell your friends can be used against you. I know a lot of chicks that back-stabbed their husbands and I knew the dudes as well, you can’t imagine to what lengths females will go through to bury a dude.
Word, OP sounds like a troll or is just really really dumb.
My big tit Asian stalker doesn’t get offended when other chicks flirt with me and when she feels jealous or curious she asks me and actually listens and she isn’t even my girlfriend.
Very suspicious how this chick OP is talking about is his wife but when some random chick hits them up saying she has his kid, his wife instantly wants a divorce and for OP to pay for damages and therapy.
Define tried to come back into your life and hung out with her. If you never told her it does not necessarily mean that you lied to her. Again, you’re accusing yourself of doing things which you may not have actually done.
If you didn’t try to hide it and if you didn’t have sex with her then you should have just told your wife the truth. If she can’t accept it then you should never speak to her again in your life and be the one to divorce her first. How can you have a relationship, or even be close friends, with someone who does not even trust you at all? Do you often lie and have a reputation for it?
I know a ton of dudes that went through this shit, most dudes are just too young to know that this shit happens and it’s more a question of when than a question of if, but I usually don’t ask for the details and don’t want to know.
I tried hide hanging with her and my wife fee. ls everything out of my mouth is lies. I didn’t tell her fast enough cause well, I’ve never been in this situation. Now I’m paying for it.
You’re in some shit that could ruin your life and you’re worried about a single day of school?
Here is a lesson in real life, because apparently after 32 years you still have not learned this: Learn to assess risks and to prioritize your time.
This chick is with your mom? She is probably getting info to use against you. A nice person would not ask for divorce and damages for therapy based on the information you have provided thus far.
Dude, I’m a grad student getting my masters in International Business. My job is paying for this shit. Which this will up my salary. So yeah I go to school one day a week for 8 hours.
Believe me homie, no way I’m a man child, just not into breaking a chicks heart and now I’m getting ready for war.
Man, I had some friends that I went to university with and some chicks that were out of state and didn’t have a place so my friends decided to help out and thought that it was a good idea.
These dudes got played so hard and didn’t even see it coming.
I have seen some of them more recently, it’s like their soul is broken beyond repair.
It’s so bad I didn’t even bother to tell them “I told you so.”
You can take one day off from work/school, you need to learn to prioritize. You are greatly underestimating the situation you are in to the point of ignorance.
Posters here aren’t telling you to go to war, they’re telling you to:
GET A LAWYER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
Cut the “feeling sorry bs” and protect yourself
Be paranoid, be prepared for anything
Stop being a bitch, she’s asking for damages for therapy because her wallet is broke, not her heart, if she really cared about you she would have:
edit:
The whole story doesn’t add up.
I really want to know the side of the story of the wife and the ex.
Also, if the ex’s kid is really yours and you dumped her for no good reason and if you really did cheat on your current wife and treat her like shit then you deserve everything that’s coming to you.