Cheating is not a deal breaker.
If the penis never has been inserted in a vagina then that’s being a virgin
Glad I wasn’t the only one to remember this scene. LOL
So when in doubt, DP them?
When in doubt, use Ralf cr. C. That way you can cunt punch them.
Im really depressed reading some of these comments and people blaming the chick. It really isnt a big deal. People need to chill out. Sucks that it ruined their relationship but i feel far worse for the women who is being shamed for her sexuality for no reason, then her loser husband who cant deal with the fact she had sex before and has a tiny penis. Give me a break. It seems fake to me but I dont know lol
Women have always been attacked for their sexuality, for example it’s okay if a man sleeps around because that makes him an Alpha or cool or a “legend” but if a woman does that she’s a slut or a whore.
She needed to lie to get him to marry her, but HE’S the loser. Right lol.
Cheating is a deal breaker because lying is a deal breaker. If you can’t be honest with a person don’t be in a relationship then.
She doesn’t really care for him and only married to him for financial security.
This guy needed Tom Leykis in his life.
www.youtube.com/watch?v=nCLWMHjut2Y
There is an argument to this. For a man to get laid a lot he has to be strong,intelligent,rich, charming, funny, good looking or any combination of those things or at the very least have the illusion of these things. For a woman to get laid she just has to well, be around.
No one is blaming her for sucking dick.
Everybody is shutting on her for a breach of trust and bring a fucking cowardly liar. She should have embraced and accepted the fact that she sucked dick, and not lie to somebody like that. But omg mus soggy knee everywhere
You know why? Because this.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9u0-o0fNORg&list=UUpIWvG2UNX493gY3kKrKwKQ
A key that can open any lock is called a master key; A lock that can be opened by any key is simply useless.
That sounds like some virgin speak im sorry but it makes no sense. Getting lied to sucks and for sure can be a deal breaker. But the issue at hand itself is not a big deal at all. And she didn’t lie to him so he would be with her, she was pre arranged because her parents matched her with him. It was Indian Culture and that happens constantly even in this day and age. And from that standpoint that issue is not accepted in their culture.
Whats so hard to understand. If you hooked up with a bunch of chicks and you were from that culture would you guys tell your parents if they were going to match you with your dream girl? Should you be ashamed for it?
Also, the fact of the matter is, as a guy its not that hard to be with women. Social standards make certain things lot more difficult then they need to be but the whole master key argument is stupid. All you’re doing is putting women on a double standard pedestal.
I am a banana
(Just repeat this mantra people: “Not getting baited. Not getting baited. Not getting baited.”)
For the record, don’t repeat that aloud though. Anyone walking by will likely think you’re talking about a different type of 'bate, the perverts.
I guess all people who have been involved exclusively in same-sex relationships and thus never “dabbled” in coitus are virgins then no matter what type of sexual contact, no matter how hard-core, they might have engaged in or will engage in and no matter how much of said “engaging” they do or do not do.
Good to know.
Also good to know fucking a vagina-shaped Fleshlight for a man or a dildo for a woman counts as a loss of virginity by your loose–snicker–definition since you never said either had to be the “real” thing. No one on the Internet is a virgin then. Hurray!
LOL she asked for the arranged marriage. How else would she get access to this high net worth beta Indian male? She wanted the status of the high net worth virgin male from a good family. She could have had any number of low worth Indian non-virgin men that wouldn’t give a damn about her sexual history, but they wouldn’t have $$$$ which her used up vagina felt she was entitled to.
And how is it slut shaming when you guys turn around and virgin shame the guy? Is sex shameful or not? Because it sure seems like you guys are busy mocking the dude for his lack of sex. To me it looks like you are valuing having sex. Well in that case your viewpoint is different than this guy’s, apparently he was looking for a “low value” woman and he got a “high value” woman in your eyes. And she lied about it. Since he’s so low value he figured a low value female would be best for him. He wanted to drive a Hyundai, that’s the power he was comfortable with and what he could afford for upkeep. Instead he was sold a Ferrari, and has to pay the upkeep costs for that but it still performs like a Hyundai and won’t suck him off.
Honestly though, and I’ve basically said this before, it’s funny because he was so stupid. It’s obvious he was naive and doesn’t understand women one bit. His culture is simply incompatible with Western culture. I don’t get these people from other cultures that come to the US and then get surprised that their women assimilate. Women have always been more culturally sensitive and so feel a need to assimilate and do so easier than men as well. While a man might come to the West and follow his old cultural rules, it’s extremely unlikely a woman would do that. If you want a traditional Indian woman, then, you’d have to get one from India. But then if you brought her to the US she’d still absorb the culture anyway.
If you want to defend this woman, then you have to do it from that angle. Not the garbage you guys are trying indirectly.
I miss that SRK.
What’s this? Shaming language based on double standards that it’s not ok for a guy to be a virgin?
Being lied to= Disrespect.
Not doing specific sexual things with your husband who does his part and pays the bills but then he finds out that you did with various random people at parties= Disrespect.
The husband has every right to be angry once he realized his wife sees him as a loser who can be stomped on. If YOU would keep a woman like this, have fun but don’t expect others to have the same standards.
Their culture may be archaic in your eyes but these are the rules of the game, which she chose to play. She didn’t have to marry an Indian from a traditional family but that’s what she chose.
This is not a Muslim country where if you disobey the religious rules you get executed. It’s a free country and nothing was forced upon her. Obviously that “oppressive” Indian tradition couldn’t stop her from partying, hanging with shit people, and sleeping around so why suddenly it’s a thing after she started hearing the biological clock ticking?
She is not a child but an adult and adults need to take responsibility for their actions.
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What’s this? Shaming language based on double standards that it’s not ok for a guy to be a virgin?
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Firstly, that’s fair. People are allowed to make choices in life. You’re absolutely right, thats my bad.
But what I’m saying is what does she need to take responsibility for? I know she lied to him but from the sounds of things, prior to this, they were very happily in love and had a good relationship on its way to a positive marriage. Does her being sexually involved change her as a person? If you make a mistake and you want to change your life are you not allowed to based on your previous experiences in life?
Based on that everyone that went to jail should just be locked away forever or executed because they clearly cannot participate in normalized society (I know this is VERY extreme lol, so take that at face value ahaha).
I do like the Hyundai vs Ferrari point alot and I guess he wanted a wholesome girl and to an extent that is his choice and what he was looking for based on culture. And yes, her lying to him was disrespectful. I did miss the part where she apparently wouldn’t do things with him that she had done with other guys? He was sold one package and got the other and he has a reason to be upset, I never said he didnt. But I guess I just dont see why its the end of the world for this guy. Prior to this things sound like they were fine with the relationship. He had no clue she had this type of past and was happy with their current relationship. So how come her past is now coming to affect the present relationship. Is the Ferrari really that bad if it has the Hyundai interiors that it had prior to him finding out it was a ferrari?
(I also realize from a car standpoint thats absolute blasphemy)