The dude already had it in his mind to kill his family regardless of the setting. Like he REALLY gave a fuck that it was a public setting and his kids birthday. You think for ONE second that if he cared about his daughter at all that he would have shot her? I don’t get how anyone can assign blame to the victim in this case for trying to behave like a civil human being. She could have just told the nigga that shit over a phone and not invite him to the party. And I doubt she had divorce papers at the damn Cracker Barrel.
I could see a dude killing his old lady like when that bitch killed all the kids and dude went nuts and murked her. But this other guy could have just left after he got this apparent bombshell. But instead he made up his mind to go thru with his murderous plans for his whole family regardless of witnesses.
I am literally mindblown that people are trying to blame the victim here
Sure it was not the most tactful thing to do but she had every right to do it wherever and whenever she wanted without getting killed for it. She could have broken it off on their anniversary while fucking some black dude and it would still not be remotely her fault that.
I guess most SRKers have some godlike deductive ability where they can reasonably anticipate that breaking off a relationship on someone’s birthday in a PUBLIC place with YOUR children around is likely to get you killed. I can only hope to aspire to become such a fine SRK member one day.
Wait why does everyone assume the mother set up this situation to tell the husband she was leaving on the girl’s birthday? I figured they likely got into an escalating argument and it came out. That at least seems like a more likely scenario than her specifically setting out to tell him during a kid’s birthday dinner.
The fact that the only person whose shoes they can put themselves in is the killers shows that they have serious issues that need to be addressed and kept in check with a regiment of medication.
I’m literally mindblown that people can’t fucking read. No one is blaming her for his actions. I’m saying it’s shitty timing to leave someone on their daughter’s birthday. Furthermore Kromo your reply doesn’t make any sense because if the mother knew she was going to get shot she’d have chosen to do everything differently anyway. What does how I see birthdays have to do with anything for all? What matters is how an 11 year old girl will view it in retrospect. My point is that for the sake of her daughter’s association of their divorce with her birthday she should’ve chosen a different time.
What you are doing is minimizing the crime by accusing the victim of doing some sort of mistake that led up to the whole situation. You know, the whole you won’t get raped if you don’t dress slutty argument that people like to use. You are smarter than this man, wtf?
Yeah she was being weak for choosing to tell dude in that setting. But people tend to be weak when they have to deal with potentially violent individuals. It is not in most people’s natures to put themselves in dangerous situations. That’s why she as a human being chose a public setting.
It’s just too bad for her that this pile of trash decided that nothing was going to stop him from having his way.
And when Psycho Dad found and murdered them ya’ll would have been “Well that bitch DID just take the kids an run, she didn’t even have the decency to tell him to his face, fucking coward!”
There is no way this doesn’t become her fault to people who have an apparent issue with women in general.
Nobody is condoning it at all, quit making shit up. What the guy did isn’t excusable and was wrong. However, even if he didn’t go on a rampage, ending your marriage at your daughters birthday is fucked up on all levels. It’s not about the dude, it’s about the kids.
It makes perfect sense, you say people are being emotional about the killing, I’m saying your being emotional about the value of birthdays.
Besides what could she have done differently? According to the video, she had already left the house and was staying with a friend. If she did suspect violence, why would she go back home? Its not inconceivable that a public place, with all the family present would be the best place to make such an announcement.
Its stupid to rag on the mother for ruining her daughters future birthdays when the father KILLED his daughter ON HER BIRTHDAY. Ok, maybe she is a crazy, manipulative bitch who only thinks of herself and not her daughters well being. He KILLED HIS DAUGHTER, clearly he didn’t have her well being in mind either.
You must be one of them idiots that just selectively skims over shit to make himself feel better. Seriously, its, about the kids? Really? The kids that were shot by their father? Who gives a flying fuck about what his excuse to flip out was you fucking monkey fuck, he still committed murder and trying to cite a reason why he committed this act is the at the very least trying to displace the blame from him. Explain how talking to your husband face to face about a divorce is any more or less fucked up because you are at a fucking birthday party? I must be arguing with children because these are not the concerns of rational adults I tell you what. lol
No rightly go fuck off.
Edit: Thank you Kromo, dudes acting like they didn’t read about how they were already seperated. If anything, she is wrong for trying to be human and let this man see his own children.
Normally I hate the old “lern 2 reed” cliche, but it really does apply here. Your comprehension on this is appallingly off the mark. It isn’t comparable to the “don’t dress slutty don’t get raped” argument. Why? Because I never said that he wouldn’t have snapped if she handled things differently. I’m commenting on her fucked up timing which has nothing to do with his reaction which, in turn, if she’d have chosen a better time may have had the unforseen effect of saving her daughter. Do you see the difference now? It’s really not hard.