this is a pretty entertaining thread, 5% relationship/dating discussion, 95% sexual discussion
chicks do vindictive shit like that all the time.
word. i have heard of girls crying rape multiple times when they just regret some shit they did while drunk. i even knew a guy who got locked up over it, until the girl finally told the truth a couple months later… shaaaaaady shit.
now, i am very sensitive and sympathetic to real rape and sexual abuse victims, as i have known and dated a lot of girls that have those traumas in their past. the amount of skepticism and bullshit they have to go through because of scandalous ass ho’s is really fucked up. not everybody is trained to recognize the signs of real abuse, and some people are reallyl good liars.
Gifts are kinda lame. But here’s an idea. In Japan, for Valentine’s Day, girls give chocolates to guys they like. It’s sort of a passive way of confessing feelings. Then on White Day, March 14th, the guys can give chocolates back to the girls, or give to a girl that he had his eye on.
So, why not buy her a nice set of chocolates, and tell her its for White Day? That should give her the hint that you like her, and it shows you at least know a little bit about her culture.
Or you can just say “Hey, let’s go out”, take her somewhere, get her alone and then go for some light touching leading into a kiss. That works too.
You’ve been in Japan too long. That shit is mad suspect. You might as well give her a Cloud doll and ask her to be your “waifu.”
EDIT: Depends on how FOB she is. If she Americanized at all, I wouldn’t do what Az said, but if she is completely FOB’d out then the advice is probably solid. If you are white though, it probably doesn’t even matter.
imo.
i think az is on point, that’s how asian girls (in asia) get down.
Lol so that why I see that shit in MMORPGS.
I kinda feel bad for this chick since if she was from overseas she was probably was hoping to not have to deal with creepy otaku ass dudes stalking her and then we have this shit right here. Rufies in the chocolate ftw my dude, don’t forget those pics.
LOL @ you getting blanket advice that probably won’t even fit your situation because you are too much of a fucking coward to go into detail. Of course YOU are the same guy that has to use objects to express your feelings instead of your mouth. I can make fun of you all day, call you a condescending, self deluded jerk off, who gives a shit. What really matters to you is how you accomplish your goal in the end right? So man the fuck up or pack your bags.
Why is it that if you start dating someone that is your friend, you find everything that annoys you from normal people is magnified ten times with the person you’re dating?
cuz it always annoyed you as their friend but you ignored it cuz they were your friend. now its like built up meter…its constantly at super.
pretty much what maxx said. it’s the same thing when you room/dorm with a friend. little shit that they always did all of a sudden becomes dealbreaking bcuz of the increased contact and importance of the relationship.
Oh, shit that’s exactly how I felt with my ex. Whenever we were broken up I didn’t give a damn about any of her annoying habits nor did she bother me about mine. Then whenever we would pick up where we left off we just get on each others nerves so much with different little habits. I think it’s because you expect perfection out of your partner at the very least hold them to a higher standard, but that’s just unrealistic as well as unfair.
What ex you talkin’ bout? That dude on here?
Haha. That’s cute. I take no offense as I know you could not resist, but may I ask that you let this go since you don’t know the full details anyway? Thanks. And no, sir my ex gf that I mentioned way back maybe less then half a year ago that I was off and on with for about 4 years.
Yeah, I think holding the situation over his head isn’t gonna change what happened.
O.T: Yeah, I think that’s what sucks about dating your friend because you just assume, “Oh that’s just how so-and-so is. Hahaha.” But when that shit’s on a relationship level, you don’t like how so-and-so is. Everything becomes magnified because you “know” the person so well. If it’s a random person, you learn as you go along. If it’s that big of a bother, you just drop and roll. But it’s harder just to let bygones be bygones when you got history with the person you’re with, i.e. your friend.
This maybe the wrong site to ask this, but those of you that have or have had a fairly attractive to beautiful girl, would you agree that it takes A LOT of work getting one and keeping one. If you’re on here to brag and lie about your experiences, then I’m not interested in hearing what you have to say. But for those that have confidence and a decent game, would you still agree that it takes alot of time and energy getting one? I have only been with one girl i consider very pretty, and for me it took forever getting her and I just realized it took too much energy keeping her. So I let her go. Now I’ve read all the David Deangelo stuff, and I know there’s much truth in what he teaches, but I also know there’s the idealistic part and the real part to dating, and especially dating a beautiful girl. So tell me your thoughts, especially if you’re knowledgable on the subject.
Glad I’m not the only one who felt that way (in regards to my earlier post). I hate people that are picky about their food, and my ex was pretty much pretty picky about food. Like, she wouldn’t eat a lot of green type of foods, and she wouldn’t eat them if they were steamed because they were too “watery”. Wtf? Being part Asian, steamed vegetables are pretty much part of every kind of Asian meal, so it kind of bugged me more since I was dating her. Regardless of her being a friend, I doubt I could date someone that is picky about food. :lol:
I’m picky about food. Haha. Certain textures, looks and smells make me wanna heave. I remember my mom forcing me to eat cooked cabbage as a kid. The smell and taste/texture literally made me hurl all the time. But, yeah, I’m picky. My boyfriend doesn’t have a problem with it though. He just laughs and orders what he wants. Then we call it a day.
i had a picky food eating ex too. it drove me insane…i remember one time me, this karate instructor and her all went out to eat. this bitch had us going up and down this strip of road where there were literally 20 places to eat for a good 15-20 min. this bitch couldnt pick one place, so we finally ended up at the olive garden and she got mad cuz she didnt know what to eat…the bitch picked the place damnit. and then she finally got her food and of course she got passively angry. i gave her my food and i ate hers.
shes one of the reasons im super picky about girls now. i have madd crazy bitches who are attracted to me…i dont allow myself to fall for that shit. my crazy ex’s have sharigan eyes…your constantly trapped in genjutu. its been really tough cuz their have been some girls i might have really fallen for but i just know already how it will end…horribly. so i prefer to not even deal with the crazies…but im like fucking hot butter to them cuz they do work hard to get into my pants. ive seen illegal immigrants sending food back to their family at home work less hard than these girls do to get/keep me.