The Relationship/Dating Thread: We rough up our significant other and they love it!

That’s not picky. That’s just down right annoying. And in this case “bitch” would be the proper term. :rofl:

It really just depends on the girl. A lot of times, pretty girls get put up on some kind of weird pedestal - so if you’re just real with them and treat them like regular girls, they’re extra appreciative of it. If you get a girl with ego - she knows she’s attractive, and if you don’t like how she does things, tough luck - she knows there are 10 guys lining up to take your place - this type of girl is hard to deal with, but the better question is why would you want to?

My first ex was kind of a head-turner (with makeup…), and I think part of the reason I stayed with her for as long as I did was because she was attractive and I wasn’t sure I could do better. I’m really ashamed by that way of thinking now.

Holy crap that avatar is awesome.

its like god placed a curse on me and its my job to understand the craziest of the crazy bitches. whats weird i do…but it never benefits me…it benefits my friends. cuz i give them advice on women all the time because of my crazy experiences. and i literally predict shit years in advance to them…i have one specific group of friends who discuss me and go “why didnt we listen to gabe…he warned us a long time ago”

they get legit mad at how accurate i am when i tell them to stay away from certain girls. i can see sharigan eyes…but my niggas get trapped in that genjutsu.

I feel ya. I try to give my guy friends a heads up when they come to me about their female problems. I normally peg 'em right. Just listening to them and knowing how certain girls act, they’re generally predictable. But after awhile, you start noticing patterns with friends. Like, “Why the hell do you keep falling for this psycho tricks? Are you that blind?” But a lot of times, it’s just becomes preferable habits. And we know that shit is no good. Especially if you keep attracting the lamers.

But, then again, it also reflects what the person is letting off to other people too. :coffee:

i feel like the crazies are just so comfortable. we humans are people of habit and crazy bitches are def creature of habits wit spurts of randomness. but that random spurts of crazyness are the bad parts. i warned one of my friends that some girl we met at the bar was giving me bad vibes…my spider senses were going off. but i couldnt exactly pin point why…i knew she was crazy thats all i knew for sure by meeting her…a few days later i see a status update on his facebook that reads “gabe is always right.” i’m thinking ya i am…wait…wut for…so i txt him and we meet up. Turns out they had sex the night before and after she decides to tell him she had herpes…not before sex but after. I WAS LIKE GAWD DAMN!

Oh man, you too? I get those from people. Some certain people don’t sit well with you and you try to avoid them. Which is why I avoid most people on campus. The guys that try to talk to me just come off as “No Thx”. Like, even if I was single, it’d still be no thanks.

i wanna scientifically prove this but i feel like its a human defense mechanism. things like esp or the bunch are just a weird defense mechanism…from experiences we’ve had. its like a statistical possibility of the future.

so based on all my bad experiences in life…when i meet someone who meets the critera shart of a crazy person my spider senses go off. orrr if im in a house party…and its getting progressively bigger, in such a small place…spider senses tell me to get the fuck out…because sumtin is gonna pop off…which in most cases it does for me.

I hope for your sake this is a real I-attract-crazy-bitches curse and not a Silentness I-keep-doing-the-same-stupid-shit-and-wondering-why-I-keep-getting-fucked-up-results curse.

i’m in the friend zone with the girl i fancy, it is shameful

nah i confirm their crazyness by my friends. i question myself if im the crazy one and nope…not anywhere close to the crazy of the women i did end up being with.

its really sad cuz ive never had a relationship go past 4-5 months. It makes me seem like im not some immature cat who cant handle a real relationship with a woman…when i really can. im just now biding my time for that one real female who i can be with and not worry when the fuck is the other shoe gonna drop. when is she gonna drop that crazy bomb on me.

the last girl i truly thought i could have a relationship wit…dropped the mother of crazy bombs. she was in an open relationship wit a dude that was away at iraq. haha…yeah…tell me im the crazy one. :rofl:

Haha. Thanks.

I get these vibes from randoms at arcades sometimes. :lol:

Yeah I understand it depends on the girl, but I know the pretty girls get hit on all the time. How do you compete with this? Lets say you love this pretty girl and would like to marry her, how do you go about keeping her interested for the rest of your life? And is it possible when you don’t have a lot of time? Money? Is game really enough?

Dude, if she likes you enough to want to get married to you, everything you’re already doing now is working. Really though, game is for picking girls up. You don’t need game for a committed relationship.

unless you is fucking up bad…i agree with this. the girl see’s the real you…not the you, you portray to get that girl. you cant try and use game once ur in a relationship…she knows ur tricks, she’s beyond that. shes in love wit the person…not the game they spit.

Game = For girls at the club, bars, etc.

Being you = for finding a long term relationship.

imo.

This.

And this.

You shouldn’t be worrying about your game if you’re in a committed, long term relationship. Being you is the way to go if you’re in a relationship like that; can’t stay in game mode forever. If the girl loves you, she’ll stay if you. If she leaves you, it just wasn’t met to be.

i don’t think it takes that much energy to get a cute/hot chick at all. the key to getting women is to be in places where women are, whether that be a bar/club, gym, mall or w/e if you’re around women a lot you’ll inevitably end up chatting to a few and more than likely hooking up with one.

as far as keeping a chick goes, i think dudes get caught up giving broads compliments and gassing their heads for no reason. hot girls know that they’re hot, you telling consistently telling them hot and acting like you’re lucky to be in their presence isn’t the shit to be doing, but it’s EXACTLY what mad dudes do and then they wonder why chicks be acting super extra towards them. also realize that if you have a hot gf, other niggas will try and holla at her and if you can’t handle then you need to either not go out with her or just get a less attractive broad. beyond those 2 things though, i don’t really see what’s harder about keeping a hot chick than a lesser attractive one.

  1. You have to come to terms with the fact that other guys are going to be hitting on your girlfriend all the time, like if shes out and not around you just assume shes getting hit on, and you have to be cool with that.
  2. Don’t try to compete with other guys for your own girlfriend, slacking off and competing are two different things and you shouldn’t be a bad boyfriend, but seriously, hot girls get offers from all types of dudes all the time, if you try to keep up with that you’ll either go broke or crazy. If there wasn’t something she liked about you then she’d be with someone else and not you right now.
  3. Trust - which kind of goes with 1 and 2 but people seem to overlook it. If you’re with a girl thats getting hit on all the time and you don’t trust her you shouldn’t be in a relationship with her.
    What boggles my mind is when guys try to steal another guy’s hot girlfriend, where the hell is the win in that situation? if you succeed all you have done is proven that the beautiful woman you are now with is okay with cheating on her boyfriend. Run that back with rule 1 and see how bad that screws with you knowing shes getting 10-20 offers a day when you’re not around, and that she might actually say YES to one of them.

Yea… “beautiful” broads are usually even more insecure than average ones. I don’t think they are harder to get at all. Same effort imo. Also the idea of “game” is still pretty funny to me. Someone posted that “game” is for the club/bar/longe etc and “being yourself” is for finding someone long-term. But really, “being you” should be used in every situation to get a broad. Whether you just want to hit or you want to wife her…its all the same.

But anyway, yes, when you have a fine girl…dudes will try to snatch your shit. Hell, even lesbos will try to snatch your shit. You can’t control it. If shes going to fuck a another dude…shes going to do it. So don’t waste your time trying to switch up your style or get her gifts just because you’re shook that she might go elsewhere. Competing with a random nigga/broad for your girl dumb. I won’t even get mad unless they feel big enough to try and snatch right in front of me. Or If I go to the bathroom and come back and see a dude trying to ninja my girl. You do have to check dudes that do that though IMO.

I don’t understand the logic of sweating the fact that a chick is pretty after you already got her. What is that all about?