Asking a female Co-Worker to lunch: how do I go about it?
:smh:
hey im going to lunch…wanna grab sumtin?
lol nah, just as friends. Not a hit or wifey.
I like how you added that extra detail, like it changed anything at all.
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seriously? nigga read the sentence…its universal. nothing bout it screams drop them panties now.
Ahahaha. Yeah. A simple, “Wanna get something to eat?” =! “How bout we you let me dip my dick in?”
WTF? THAT was too forward for you. how do you ususally ask anyone if they want to get something to eat.
I have a friend who just moved to atl recently and he told me that all the women look good in atl or was that gwinnett county
The severity dropped. I felt it.
I’m trying sooooo hard. But yeah, I might as well. She’s cool and all.
hahhahahahaha awww dang.
- but in all seriousness. She could be my superior, but her accent is ripping me apart. Not a fan of personal conduct, so yeah. How do I do this?
Okay, I quit.
wtf is going on? I don’t get it. Just ask her to lunch. Hey, you wanna get some lunch?
or am i missing something?
u missed nothing at all.
- yeah, I’m overthinking it. Maybe her accent and style was just so much the turn-on
Man, I read your post and thought of this:
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If you’re just asking as a friend, why overthink it? Just ask.
You seem to be scared of both coming on too hard, and not coming on at all.
You need to cover all the bases. Walk up to her with:
What do you say if we go out on a date? Have some chicken, maybe some sex… You know, see what happens.
Champ dat ho.
so what is srk’s views on long distance relationships?
Yeah i like your advice and agree with it the most. Some of these other guys on here I wonder if they’ve ever been in a relationship where they knew what they were doing. And even average looking girls get offers all the time. My first gf was average to pretty looking depending on the day and the amount of effort she put into it, and she would get hit on at least once a week. I understand that I have to accept it.
But from my experiences recently, I find that with a really pretty girl, you have to spend a lot of time, money, and effort to get her and keep her. I notice that all the guys that have one are doing this, no matter how tall or good looking they are. I personally don’t think this is worth it, no matter how pretty the girl is, even if I weren’t in medical school right now.
So what I’m basically asking is it possible to to not be tall, handsome, and rich, and not spend a massive amount of time on a beautiful girl and get her and keep her? Is having that attractive masculine personality that David D. teaches enough? I want real answers, not b.s.
Read the last couple of pages in the old relationship thread. That’s SRK’s view on long distance relationships.
I went and talked to my gf about the issue. She really don’t want sex all that much, she just wants to cuddle and shit. When she wants sex she just wants it.
Thats what she basically said last night. I’m trying to figure out if I’m getting a raw deal, causes she on that “I before we/you” kick. And it’s gettin me pretty mad. She wonders why I get a lil grouchy. She sighs when I get like that but does nothing to remedy the situation.
Hades: Dude, my advice…unless you have time…money…and patience. This current relationship I’m in started off long distance. It gets to be a burden, especially if the person is in a different state. Different cities is alot better. If you’re gonna get into one, make sure its something you’re gonna stick with. Don’t cut off all your social options though, and don’t be in a rush to get there and shit. Take your time and take it slow, set your shit up so that if it goes down the gutter you don’t end up a wreck.
No you don’t. If you do then you don’t have anything going for yourself and the relationship isn’t equal as far as who is giving what. If you truly believe what you just wrote down then you still have a lot to learn about women. “Pretty” girls as you put deal with the same shit other girls do…and are just as insecure if not more so bc the pressures they go through with “image”
If you find yourself needing to spend more moeny, workout and take trips overseas to secure a woman then you are a scrub. That simple.