That sucks man. Her sex drive is HELLA wack. I can turn my breezy on almost instantly. I know a couple that lives together and they only have sex like once a week. I guess some people aren’t that horny? I find that hard to believe though. Something else must be going on.
lol, please talk down to me some more because you know so much.
Why do I have the feeling you don’t have a very marvelous life?
First calm down, this thread is being direct… minus the ‘scrub’ label… he is basically giving you truths. Just take comments an mold them into your own. Everyone is allowed to give their opinion on a situation you gave man. Don’t take everything to heart. Someone else may come with a different outlook.
You really don’t have to work hella hard to keep a hot girl. That mentality in itself is putting her on a pedestal. I dated a chick once who was drop dead FINE, like, I wasn’t even sure that I had really pulled it off and I slipped up and tried to impress her/prove my worth all the time. Needless to say, I’m not with her anymore because she could smell the urgency and desperation. I’ve since realized that you should value yourself on an equal level no matter how hot the girl is, because that shows that you truly know how much your love is worth.
Sheeeit, my current girl and I were on our way to Alice In Wonderland this weekend and she started asking me questions like,“Do you get mad when other guys hit on me?” She asked with that little grin on her face, like she was trying to get a reaction out of me, but I stuck to my guns and responded with a stern,“Nope.” She looked perplexed as hell and asked me why I wasn’t jealous, to which I replied,“I’m not jealous, because I have options”. If I could have captured the change in her demeanor after that…man, it was like night and day. Instead of you thinking “I hope she doesn’t leave me”, you should have her thinking “I hope he doesn’t leave me”.
Put value in yourselves, peeps. It goes a long way in life because if you believe in yourself, others will believe in you too (Especially women, no matter how hot they are).
This is definitely something to keep in mind. Good shit.
I gotta agree with Epidemic on this one (He nose the truth). You do not need to spend more time, money, and effort. Why should you? If you have to change your routine and your lifestyle just to be with her, there is no point. A relationship is about doing things you want to do with each other and compromising on other things. It is not a war effort or trying to outdo some other guy.
The type of girl you talk about sounds like one who just wants the attention of everyone and all of the benefits too. Sure, the “prettier” ones will get hit on more, that makes sense. But you shouldn’t have to put yourself through all of that noise. Having to drop all that guap just to gain her attention and continuing to do all of that is wack. If she likes you for who you are, none of that should matter.
Whenever I go out to lunch with my friends, I totally make sure they know I’m not trying to fuck them in the ass and say “no homo” about every five minutes.
Seriously though, asking someone out to lunch just means asking someone out to lunch. It doesn’t mean you’re interested in them.
Um so how do you get it to come out “thicker” ?? Instead of transparent looking. Im no porn star, I dont know all the tricks…
my fault. I come from an environment where people show respect and expect respect. Even my professors (who are VERY rich doctors) don’t speak to us in a condescending manner like that guy.
And I think SRKev actually really gets what I’m saying. You gotta have some game to get the really hot girls. And my mentality was very similar to his a couple of years ago. I understand that once you put a girl over yourself, or lose confidence in yourself, or stop being a challenge, it’s over. But just from my own experience and watching my friends, I see that maybe this is not even enough, if the girl is very hot. So I’m wondering, is there a better answer?
Wtf…No you don’t. That is HS shit.
I wasn’t being condescending either, I was being real…don’t be so damn sensitive.
Oh and In my “environment” respect is something you earn…not something you expect. But I dont care if you respect me…this is srk. Either smarten up or keep spending money and getting milked by these “fine” broads.
Edit: nvm.
Maybe you shouldn’t worry so much about that. Wouldn’t want your fear of losing the girl to be a self-fulfilling prophecy or anything, y’know? If you had to use “games” to acquire a GF, she may not have been worth your time in the first place. Like Epi said, its best to just be yourself. You don’t nothing but stress yourself out more worrying so much about whether or not someone will leave you.
^^^^lolwut?
Son…sooooooooooooooooooooooooon. SMH. If you think niggas in here is being harsh or condescending about your situation then you ain’t ready to be posting in this thread. Imma leave it at that.
Anyway, at the end of the day all it comes down to is if you are both feeling each other. And if you are then there should be no problems. Do you need some “game” to get hot girls? Yes, Hell you need some game to get anyone. Game is really just how you present yourself and the aura that’s around you. You need to project confidence and women will pick up on that. But once you get the person talking to you, that’s when you just need to be…you. And if they can’t handle that or don’t like that, why are you talking to them? Do you really want to be a different person or act a different kinda way to be with someone?
If you need to shower her with all this stuff( attention, money, etc.) to keep her, then it’s not you she is interested in. She’s merely interested in what you can do for her and how you pump up her ego. And you don’t need to be talking to anyone like that.
OK Ok ok k! Question:
Would you smush with a lesbian/ convert a lesbian to straightism…with the only catch being she’s ugly? (skinny and ugly, not fat ugly if that makes a difference.)
Well I come from a environment of professionals… an then i also come from a environment of killas, thugs, gangbangers, and hutlers. I know how to deal with both and I know how to deal with folks that will be direct…or in a case like myself BE very blunt. Epidemic simply told u like it was and simply stated that if you DO your a scrub. You would say the same thing if someone told you a setup that would get you ocv’d in marvel…correct?? you would not hesitate to call the response scrub like. Take it for what it is man. I will intervene if it get disrespectful but in this thread folks will make sure you understand and will not sugercoat nor beat around the bush. Epidemic can say thats scrub shyt while Neesa will say dont be a fool. Simple as that. Take the responses an mold then to your liking. We are not in the professional world where responses are given in a template style format… this is online… similar to street/barbershop talk …your gonna get called out on something if its ‘not of norm’. So welcome to the thread playa… don’t trip we all here to give our opinions and advise on situations.
First up no. Next up a real lesbian kills any notion of that. The confused chicks will …an you need to watch out with them.
Unless you’re packin a 5000 mile trouser snake, don’t do it.
In all serialness, no intimacy, no face-time, just random phone conversations - it’s too difficult to stay close. Once says turn to months it gets worse. The guy who accidentally bumped into your girl on the bus just gave her more personal time than you have in half a year. Then casual flirting happens on both ends. Rationally, you’d rather date the chick you can see, talk to and touch but you’re technically in a relationship with someone on the opposite coast. If that’s the end point, then might as well not draw it out.
Long distance relationships can work. People who say they can’t are dealing with sample small sample sizes, and most of them aren’t with the one they want to be with long term anyway, so the failure of the long distance thing isn’t any different from their situations.
That said, they require an incredible amount of trust, confidence, communication, and just plain work to succeed. You’ll both have to endure the temptations of There is absolutely no point to a long term relationship that you aren’t serious and dedicated to. Also, long distance is something to endure until such time as that can change. At some point you need to break that physical separation. That’s just how it is. I don’t like it when people say that a long distance relationship can’t work, because it’s really not accurate – but the fact of the matter is that most people who get into them aren’t really prepared for what it takes to make it work, even more so than other relationships.
Okay I peeped that other thread and emblemlord was kinda wilding with that shit. My situation is that we dated for a few months before I moved, and just recently we got back into contact with each other and I seen her recently when I visited minnesota. I live in chicago, it’s long distance but its not like I can’t get on a plane and be there in a couple hours if i want to, and ideally it’d be a two way street. I just tired of fucking with these bird brained bitches in the chi, I know its some good girls out there but in my general area its nothing but nicki minaj wannabes and shit.
dont fucking work. ive done it a few times and always fucking failed. i had one for a girl only a few towns away and had one who was in cali…both epically failed. but to be fair…they were both crazy…it may work if your girl is truly normal. but i dont think normal people do long distances relationships.
depends on how desperate i am…i dont fuck anything lower than a 6. but damn ive always wanted to pull a chasing amy(term i came up wit for converting a lesbian to bein straight). really tempting…damn id have to see how ugly she is.
I had a long distance relationship for a little over 2 years dude. It’s as warp said. Unless youre really dedicated it just ends up in headaches, heartaches, and alot of frustration.