If she’s ugly, I’m not seeing an upside here. Your question is basically asking if I would have sex with an ugly girl if I could.
yeah I feel you, if both are not fully into it might as well dead it.
Definitely. But after awhile, I believe that someone has to take that big step to bridge the gap. After awhile, traveling gets costly. The distance starts eating away at both people… It can be a disaster if not handled correctly.
no you dont. man why as men do we put hot girls on this impossible pedastool as if their greek gods of beauty. i think srk needs to write a book on the real dating world and not the fantasy people make in their heads. Look i have no super game i spit…and ive managed to pull a few 9’s or 10’s in my life. for me personally its been about listening to cues, you gotta pay attention and latch on to certain things u find in common. Its not what you spit to them…its what you offer. What do u got thats so different from what all these other niggas who spit game to them got. For me…and this is the honest to gods truth…i can dance and im a fucking hilarious sarcastic asshole. I make girls piss their pants laughing…these are my two skills that have gotten me far as fuck wit girls. i aiignt saying this is for everyone. but you truly have to look in the mirror some day and say whats unique to me…and exploit the shit out of it.
some dudes arent great game spitters…some are just there at the right time to swoop in. like some dudes you see with a hot girl…were just there when she needed someone. this subject can go in a million directions but honestly you dont need great game to get a hot girl.
lol pretty much, what makes you think a lesbian would be a good fuck? i mean, shit i don’t even see what’s so hot about girls kissing anymore.
Yeah, I don’t see the point of having sex with a lesbian that’s probably never even touched a penis before, especially an ugly one. It’s like, “Hey I know how to have sex without all the parts involving your penis, but I can put my fingers in your butt if you want!” It’d be like training a virgin all over again but not as fun cus they’re already tainted.
Yeah, no. All “game” really is is tricking the girl into liking you, by making her think that you are strong, confident guy. Because strength and confidence are the qualities that attract women, and if you don’t attract her a relationship isn’t going to happen.
But if you are already a strong, confident guy…you don’t need game. These guys are called “naturals”, but whatever - you should be a strong confident guy anyway regardless of women.
If you listen to David D - not just the introductory stuff he teaches to try and suck you in and get you to buy his stuff - but his core lessons, he spends a lot of time talking about inner game. This is what he’s getting at. Make sure you are happy and comfortable and confident with yourself. If you have that, then the rest comes naturally. And if you want to exploit that to pick up chicks, fine whatever, do your thing.
First, ALL relationships take work. Doesn’t matter if the girl is a super-model, the girl next door, or bottom tier scrapings. They ALL take work.
It should be mutual though. If you are thinking “I need to do something to keep this hottie interested in me” you have already lost. You’re admitting you have nothing to offer, and even if you don’t say that directly, women pick up on it. They’re good at that. And if you send that vibe and she picks up on it - why would she stick around?
I think you missed what Kev was saying. He turned the tables on her - he basically told her that she was the one who had to work to keep him. There’s that strong confidence that women like.
In general, most women like it when you show a little strength/assertiveness. It’s difficult/impossible to cater to a woman’s needs because they waffle. A LOT. If you’ve ever tried to ask a girl out on a date and have been like “Well, what do you want to do?” usually this is the worst idea ever because it never goes anywhere. As the guy, you take charge, be assertive, make the plans, and she can either get on board, or if she is absolutely against it then she can speak up. I’m married, but this still holds true after several years with the same woman - she likes me much better when I’m all about taking charge and being assertive, versus “Well honey, how do you feel about this?” or “What do you think we should do?”
long distance relationships totally work as long as you are cool with the other person fucking other ppl and vice versa
sup homeys. i’m terrible with the ladies,so i have 2 questions
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if i’m in the FZ, is there any possibility of getting out? any?
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whats the best way to get a bitch out of your mind? i’m crazy about this chick and can’t figure out a way to unhitch. >______<
Good post. I think our definition of “game” is different. I’m not referring to game as being fake or as an act to get into a girls pants, but understanding women, and having the skill and strength to handle the mind games they throw at us. And understanding the traits in men that women find irresistible and need, and thus enhancing these things in our own personality.
But yeah, your post had a lot of good basics I seem to have forgotten.
Good shit guys, keep the advice coming, even Epidemic! Need to also learn internet posting skills.
This girl from my school is supposed to be coming over tomorrow. My plan is to increase the sexual tension even more than I have been lately by teasing and flirting more, and making very strong eye contact. I can tell by her body language that she likes it.
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Barely any, unless you save her from a burning building you’re pretty much out of luck.
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Imagine her pooping.
Proceeds to save a bitch from burning building FZ sucks.
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Be clear with what you want as in tell her what you want, if you’re not on the same level you can walk away.
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Realise that you have a life, aspirations and that she is one of a billion.
In all honesty I think it’s a bad habit ‘‘falling in love’’ for a girl you haven’t even dated yet, I think it’s a subconscious block people put up to explain why they don’t have a girlfriend or why they don’t go after other women.
i’m pretty sure i know what you mean by “game”, that said devoting time to perfecting your game in talking to broads is a waste of time. like i said before the chicks you get is a direct function of the places that you frequent.
hahahaha great answers simple solutions but i think they’ll help alot
EDIT: I think one of the reasons it’s so hard to let go is that I know her so well. I’ve come up with all these things to like about her that I think, at the best of times, are pretty irrational. It’s just, at first you grow to think “Hey this chick is pretty cool,” about a few certain things and then after a while you pick up on all this other shit that you don’t REALLY like but that you just create because you want to find something to like about them. I’m pretty sure even because I’m saying this it’s obvious that it wouldn’t work out. But regardless she’s still a great girl, and I would love to give it a try, because even though I know her, I don’t know her EXTREMELY well. there could always be more things to discover that I actually do like. I know she doesn’t feel the same way about me (I’ve actually dropped that bomb before >____<), but the optimist in me thinks “Nothing’s impossible bro!! Just keep on trying!!” At times, I’m like “Man I’m being such a bitch about this.” But then I think… “She’s just so great!” Obviously I Should listen to the former and just forget about it, and move the fuck on. I think chicks are actually DIGGING me these days, I’m just so bad at picking up on that shit. So damn shy. This thread rules, I don’t know why but I feel way more comfortable asking people from SRK about this sort of thing than randoms on other weird-ass sites… Thanks again bros.
Friend zone? More like dead zone, am I right? Imagine the friend zone as a black hole: you’ll never escape it. Unless she’s always had some sort of interest in you from the start, you’re boned.
yeah i don’t think that’s the case. IDK man.
You can make it out, but yeah not unless she’s had sum attraction for you at one point or another.
theirs actually another option…if shes never ever even thought of you two hooking up. im one of the rare males to get myself out of the friendzone…and actually put myself back in by choice. my friend had nooooo idea i had a crush on her from 7th-sophmore in college. its amazing…i didnt think i was that good at hiding it. but looking back i really didnt give her any cues outside of normal teen flirting. but yeah at first i def wanted her but she scared me about not being friends if it didnt work out. so we didnt end up together. but at the time she was looking good…she was one of top lacross goalies in the nation…THE FUCKING NATION. yeah…and i let that go for the sake of friendship…excuse me while i go masturbate while crying.
^ shit man. Nothing more to say there. /pat
Well maybe if the attraction thing is true, she’ll be vain enough to start thinking differently about me if I continue to work out. Wishful thinking? Maybe not.