Some don’t; I literally don’t understand why some girls go to clubs it’s usually the popular friend dragging out her dorky friends. So one of them is sociable the others are just stood in a corner sulking.
I respect that and all, but if I see a girl I like and she’s dancing with her friends or something I should still go in right? I don’t want to be like 90% of the other niggas around that just creepily try and start grinding her without her noticing haha. Its not really a situation where I can talk to them straight up when theyre dancing so I was just curious.
Wow, I hope you don’t think you’re going anywhere but the friend zone with a lame move like that
Better to be friends than to creep someone out with a gift that’s tooo personal?
Always get / do something fun at first (depends on how long you knew her prior). But getting something too personal can be creepy, yes.
Whats everyones take on being persistent with a busy, guarded girl? This girl I knew in high school and fooled around with reconnected with me a few months back when I moved back to minnesota. It never was too intense in hs since I was a cocky ass honestly. I joined the coast guard and that grew me the fuck up fast. She noticed the change and I know she feels me but her last boyfriend was her “first true love” and that nigga seriously fucked up shit for everyone who comes after. She constantly likes to say things like, there is no love, I have no heart, blah blah emo stuff. Yet when shes with me her demeanor is like a 180. Now this this shit is all fine to me since I’m pretty sure she just needs to have someone she can have real trust in. I just moved here so I have a shitload of time on my hands right now, and she works a lot. I usually hit her up every two days or something like that, but her job has insane hours. I feel blown off sometimes but gotta make that paper.
I’m not really a clingy person or can’t pull girls, but this is the first time I’ve really had to deal with someone so shielded. I just want to know if persistence is the key right here, for someone so hurt. To show you are actually for real you know? Under all the pseudo emoness shes a very sweet girl and not nearly as vapid as most girls around my age so I want to make this work.
We’ve known each other for maybe 4-5 months now, but I wouldn’t say we’re dating even though we hang out and talk once a week or so. I wouldnt call us close either, but good friends for now. Just trying to build that “friendship” stronger so maybe in the future something between us will happen, maybe get serious. I dont wanna try and rush it and be all serious now and creep her out. 
Yeah they want you to show them that you care and shit. I’ll give you a word of caution, they will expect the same level of persistence throughout the relationship, it is similar to how a baby thinking their mum has gone for good when they leave the room, they will jump to the conclusion that you don’t care for them if you don’t respond to text/calls as quickly as used too or you don’t meet up with them as frequently, basically things along those lines.
To be honest I always felt that individuals who come right after a bad break up get the raw end of the stick in that their purpose is to help the girl get a grip of reality.
Which is why I never get involved with that type. Why put so much effort into someone if they’re not going to do the same for you?
good point, i’mma see how this goes but I’ll keep my bullshit tolerance low.
This might sound sort of corny but I like to compare the mentality of the club scene to the same mentality you might have had when you were a kid who just hit puberty trying to pick up girls your age at a roller skating rink, or when you’ve just turned 18 and all the kids step it up to hookah lounges/shooting pool. Girls go there with the mentality to have fun and hopefully meet someone. If a girl wants to get dicked they get drunk so they can play the clueless girl role the next day. There’s a reason that most break ups happen on friday’s and around spring break. 
Girls who text all the time really bother me, I usually just ignore them. I like a nice simple, old fashioned, quiet girl. No loud mouthing, gossipy, needy girls. They’re too dramatic for me.
what is it with chicks and having to party all the damn time? Why cant they just chill
clubs are cool, i prefer bars for actually meeting broads though and clubs when i’m trying to seal the deal with said chicks. if a chick is interested in you, taking her to the club, getting a few drinks in and dancing is almost always instant pussy.
They want everyone to know that they are “in demand”. That and being drunk is a good excuse for them when they accidentally blow somebody :woot:
Not trying to put you on notice, rugi, but it looks like you’re trying to win now. Good shit! :tup:
Last time I mentioned broads to you, you were singing a different tune.
Too bad the Turtle over at CP is done. Would have come down to show/discuss with you the little that I know that helps me in that kind of situation.
I hate clubs, I feel like im back in high school with a bunch of fake people who think their cool. Oh ya and ive never met a cool chick to hang out with at a club ever
jersey shore dudes just go to clubs every episode n pull ass there but that might be cuz theyre jersey shore dudes lol
In NY women loooooooove guidos, some to the point where that’s the only type they’ll give the time of day:bluu:
Clubs are fun. But going to them to pick up girls is a very BAD IDEA. I have much better luck at a low key cocktail bar or a decent bar that you can understand people at room voice level. And to add to my .02 cents, the dumbest girls in the world, besides the ones that work in the adult video industry, are the ones that go to clubs. They get dolled up, and walk into the clubs putting their own vagina’s on pedestals. But again the clubs can be fun if you bring a girl there or have no thoughts on picking up girls and just want to get shit faced and dance.