Seems too many people break up these days with texting. I feel like texting is just an escape for people to use when they cant do the right thing and say it face to face, or over the phone. Hopefully I never have to worry about this since I choose to block text messages completely.
Dont worry man, there’s always a better girl that catches your eye. Right before Christmas is harsh, but like all wounds, with time they heal. I had a girl break up with me on valentines day, I thought everything was going fine between us, and we had been long distance for many months now, then after sending her a gift, she lets me know that she’s seeing 3 other guys…Talk about getting hurt then! I was wrecked for nearly a whole year, but now I’m back in the game and trying to get this girl to dig me!
@ thurst
You dont have to be mean to chicks but you cant be to nice to them either. If your to nice they think you instantly like them and its not a challenge almost like your begging to get with them. If your mean they think ur an ass. Just play with them its fun!!!
Ive posted this before and ill do it again.
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Man, I feel you. It’s fucked up to just leave something like this as a text message, especially considering all I’ve done for this girl. I’m pretty down, but it’s not as bad as I would have imagined only because I know that I don’t regret a thing I’ve done or said in this relationship. I know I was a good man and I did her right. Knowing that takes the edge off the pain.
But yeah, guess B. Pin’s back in the game, much wiser than before.
that’s not really true at all. i’m talking about “nice” as in being polite, and as i said i’m not trying to befriend these heaux. there are few chicks that i talk to like i do other men and that’s not a situation that’s going to change.
if a chick ever breaksup with you via a text… dont you ever part your lips, reply to a text or answer a call from her EVER in your life… if she call from a different number an you answer an its her
Someone I messed with recently told me she has a bf.
Am I the only one who doesn’t put much stock in the PUA stuff? A lot of it IMO is common sense most guys already do on an unconscious level and the rest breaks it down in an unnecessarily technical way when following your gut would usually have similar if not better results.
Some females can make friends with 'em easy. But I dunno… It can be difficult for me. I’m into “girl” things, but not as much. So I can connect with guys easier. They’re just easier to talk to, that’s all.
To be honest, I wouldn’t be surprised. But, they had enough respect for me to never overstep that boundary.
i’m generally suspicious of any advice that isn’t more intimately suited with your situation and personal strengths/weaknesses imo. in regards to websites and such
I agree with your assessment several medical problems such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol or high blood sugar (diabetes) can cause erectile dysfunction. Typically when a male suddenly has problems getting erections it can be a tell tale sign that something is wrong with them physically. Of course, mental health issues like depression or high levels of stress (Cortisol) can also be to blame. But I agree that the best course of action is to see a doctor. Honestly this is happening more and more in our society and happening to males younger and younger. Most doctors (especially those who specialize in male patients) will understand and be discreet about the situation.
I remember the first and only time I was friendzoned and turned to the internet for help in the form of browsing the sosuave.com message boards. It was pathetic.
While some of the PUA stuff can be helpful the vast majority of it reminds me of hard core fighting game fans breaking down frame data. It’s just way too much thought being put into something that should be fun and natural (talking to another fucking human being)
That guy “Mystery” (what a gay name) I heard was some WOW nerd so my guess is he tried to come up with an approach to women thesame way he approaches games making the recipe for success transparent. However, the problem with that unlike video games socializing with people in real life takes on so many variables and draws so much more on intangibles like chemistry that it can’t be spelled out as cleanly and with as much success as a ssf4 gamefaqs guide.
So the girl I was talking about earlier who I’ve got my eyes on, she’s always talking about eating at Chipotle since it’s such a fresh and healthy place (she’s a vegetarian and big on eating healthy, I dont mind since i eat healthy too) I got her a $25 gift card for the place.
And since it’s way too late to try and mail something to get to her door, I decided to just drop it off in her mail box myself with a little Merry Christmas “to, from” note inside the envelope. Hope she enjoys it! I thought about getting her shoes or something since she always has some new pair on everytime I see her, but I figured that would be a iffy gift since she might not like the design, size, etc, so I decided a gift card to her favorite restaraunt would be the best and safest option =)
I’m inclined to agree, when you follow a script you lose your charm, it is hard to be charming when you have lost your charm.
The only time I think it is useful is for people who can’t kick themselves up the ass and get on with it. I’m pretty sure a lot of people second guess the obvious points such as ‘‘introduce yourself with a hello’’ some then convince themselves that it isn’t right and walk away
Question. I’ve been hitting up alot of bars lately talking to girls and all that good shit, but I hear that clubs have pretty good ratios of girl:guys, moreso than bars. However, I don’t really dance so I’m not sure how I’m supposed to step to girls in a club where the focus is on dancing. Need some pointers on how to run the club scene lol.
