Oh shoot so instead of going to spain later on this year i need to hit up germany fam? Imma have to get my ninjas invloved sound like i need to do some reconnaissance in germany.
Yea if a chick lives with the baby daddy its a wrap. You really want no part of that situation at all. No matter what she saying she is still doing wifey stuff with him. even the fwb you might not want–with her.
Glad to see Koop and Qrazy still condensing the nonsense.
Keep it real.
“you have beautiful eyes”
I had a dream my GF cheated on me. We’ve had a thing for a few months, but have officially been together for a little over a month. She hasn’t done anything to make me distrust her.
Does this mean anything? Should I tell her about my dream?
Some times the best move is to do nothing at all … don’t even bring it up … it could be ur own insecurity talking or a movie u watched that made u dream that … all i kno is that if u bring that up to ur girl …she’ll make it about her in some way or form … i don’t see anything good coming out of it and now she’ll be thinking about why u even brought that up and other useless things that is not worth it
I’mma hafta agree with Magnetic. It’s just a dream. That is definitely not something to bring up. It’ll almost come off as you’re questioning her trust. No point starting shit over the unconscious/subconscious.
How do I “relate” to a 1% possibly pregnant girlfriend?
Man, the whole “thirst” thing has gotten so out of hand, to the point where a lot of the times you can’t win. After living in Philly for 2 years, I can understand why a decent amount of chicks like to keep it moving. Shit,* I* keep it moving. Sometimes, if someone wants to pay you a compliment it is exactly that, just a compliment. It’s got nothing to do with chivalry or wanting to bend you over the rail on the spot.
Like, if someone somehow manages to land their eyes on you, and they see you looking at them, and they say hi…why give an attitude? It’s called being polite. I actually got called out before, because I didn’t say anything to some girl, when she had the “don’t come near me on this busy ass train face”.
I’ll agree, a lot of people don’t know how to handle themselves when it comes to approaching people (philly…), but some of the excessive stuff isn’t even warranted.
lol I found my presentation notes in college for my “Alternatives for women” class I took as an elective … thought I’d share it … take as much or as little as u want from it but I think its good (obvious bias lol)
What ? Women Want?
Guide to understanding women : You just don’t and never will but here are 4 protips …
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1) You should just do something because you want to. Don’t care or focus about result whether its good or bad or nothing… that’s how u pass women’s shit tests … and a general good motto in life because how many of us get into an activity and say I want a bad result ? don’t try to change urself and don’t try to change the girl … if ur compatible great if not, move on …
2)Unless ur looking for a quick lay, guys shud just stop chasing after women. Think about it, “chasing” implies ur target is running away. Hint Hint ! Besides convincing a girl to sleep with u is not as good as her wanting to coz she wants it and wants to … like they say in sports, u can buy the player’s service but u can’t buy the heart/passion
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just go about ur business and when an opportunity presents itself, take advantage of it… it will all work out and remember to stay natural … if a girl is into u, pro tip, she’ll make it easy for and guide u, just pay attention … unless the girl has some issues with herself, which in this case forget her anyways …
If u force the situation, it won’t work, it’ll feel unnatural, u will feel it and she will … -
a normal girl who has high interest in u, she will look passed any bad moves u make and she will have consistent behavior … if she’s inconsistent, she has low or no interest … figure out if it’s worth the trouble or not but I say just get the eff out … plenty of fish in the sea …of course every girl is case by case, sometimes a nut case but these are just general tips …
Common mistake I see guys make:
They minding own business, then they somehow start hitting thing up with this girl … then after 2-3 weeks … it’s like girl is different … when in truth, initially girl was attracted to u for ur natural self and how u were (joking with friends and chillaxin) , whereas when u consciously took notice of the girl and consciously hung out, guys try to act in a way they think the girl wants them to instead of just continuing to be urself which she was initially attracted to… guys are left dumbfounded but the girls are as well thinking “what happen to this guy that seem so chillax but now that we hang out he’s so serious” …
LMFAO so Im saying ma ya man in the game but can he ball like me??
This definitely varies amongst from females due to their geographical locations and experiences. I try to avoid eye contact as much as possible to avoid having to put on my “nigga, I wish you would” face. But, maybe they had way too many bad experiences with random dudes trying to say hi or whatever to them. Maybe they’re not use to someone being polite to them and all they’re use to is dudes trying to “holla” at them. Or, maybe they’re just that big of a bitch that she wouldn’t know a compliment if it smacked her in the back of her weaveified head.
I, for one, (at least) try to say hi back, but it stops at the greetings. Even when I was single, I was doing that. I just have no interest for the guys that are around where I live. If they can’t form a damn proper sentence without “knaymean?” or something… I’m good. I don’t mind slang, but if I need fuckin’ Urbandictionary.com to know what the hell you’re saying, then we’re not on the same level. I want conversation, not engage in cryptography.
So, it’s best to just keep it at “hi”.
If a guy came up to me talking with that face:
Hit 'em back with my “…oh please.”
Man fuck giving women compliments. Let them give you a compliment every now and then.
I find the easiest way to do this is to walk around with a constant hard on.
Ps: I got that Viagra hook up my nickels.
I think a guy with a raging hard-on is gonna get more than a compliment… 
nice!
StrongStyle all day!
I’m just bumping this post up.
lmao @ weavefied head.
I feel you. It’s all in the approach, I guess. Some get so use to the bad attempts that all attempts at communication get shutdown, solely off the strength of the “usual”. That doesn’t excuse some of the chicks with dynamite in their vagina’s though…
I get plenty of compliments. lol. Some from folks that I really wouldn’t…want them from.
Also, skinny jeans are good for that. I had a cougar slam walk up and grab me, smile, and keep walking like that shit was a hello.
Thats why you don’t even talk to black girls or women that look like they want to be “urban”
Just stick with nerdy, preppy, or conservative looking girls and you are good. The more expensive yet less tacky looking the outfit, usually the better it is for you. Also avoid people that wear sunglass at night or snow boots in the summer.
Fixed that for you. Saying you shouldn’t talk to black women because of the minority of hood boogas overshadow the rest of us normal, civilized black females. Yeah, I might just be 1/2… But that’s all I need.
Uh… You gotta watch out for those chicks too… They might look like they’re decent to deal with but you find out that bitch is crazy as hell. Looks aren’t everything. They’re SOME thing… But not everything. Like, I wouldn’t talk to a guy with his pants sagging by the hair of his balls, but, if he can at least hold a decent conversation and be intelligent, I don’t see a problem. Same goes for females that like that “urban” look.
Oh I am just talking about making contact in the begining. Over a long enough period of time most men will find that every woman they have ever met is crazy as hell. Just talking on the ones that you can get in and get out with the typical least amount of drama and headache. Kinda like the difference between going to the store to buy honey and going into a beehive for some. Why go thru all the hastle for the same shit? I just want a taste anyways, not trying to make a meal out of it. More important things in life than satisfying a sweet tooth to spend that much time doing it.