…If I have my headphones on, a highlighter in my hand and a text book open on the train, that means that I want to be approached? Nah bro, it means, I’m trying to fuckin’ cram for a test… Not hear some corny bullshit. 
Like these girls said, they don’t appreciate being bothered by a leg-humper. I don’t get this mentality that lots of dudes have about going out of their way for random girls. Oh, you ain’t doing it just becuase; you figure that hey, at least once in a blue moon an approach COULD lead to more. I mean, I’m a dude, and when I see guys doing this, I think “he’s trying waaay too hard, and that girl is probably like GTFO”, so I can only imagine what the girl being “assaulted” thinks.
Girls do have some reverse-scramble psychology, but sometimes when they look like they dont want to be bothered, that’s exactly what it is.
And taking notes from Beyonce would leave EVEN more single ladies sad, lonely, jaded and depressed. Like I said, those who take notes from her, can’t make demands; you have to be worth something.
lmao, nice so I have my gameplan now–ask for directions to get the one ear plug out then parlay that into what your studying–with can i help. Now i just gotta carry index cards on me in case you need to remember certain terms for class. Gotta step it up to survive the curves women throw in jersey…lol.
I tell people all the time if you can drive in jersey and if you can hold a chicks attention in a conversation in jersey you can survive any place on the planet. Now that one chick I saw pull a gun my only counter would be to give her my wallet Kanye Shrug
Rod: So yea i was just saying you got a man ok he treat you right?
Chick: Pulls gun
Rod: Oh shitt hey you can have my wallet just let me take my drivers license out lines at the dmv are too long my bad ma no disrespect.
And Beyonce she had/has chicks mad confused one minute she need a soldier the nxt minute to the left the nxt minute she independant.
Exactly. 9/10… we really don’t wanna be bothered.
Shit… I gave myself away. Ugh.
But, good luck. I’ll give you one hint: Vauge.
LMFAO!! damn guess you really don’t want to be bothered…smh guess i just give a compliment and keep it moving.
The curves damn Roy Halladay on the mound.
1 out of every five women that I see around here looks like Lil Wayne or Kayne West. Wut up wit dat nuckas?
Ahahahaha! Yeah. I at least say thank you. Not that inconsiderate.
Where is this at? that’s a problem we gotta start a pay pal link or something so you can move fam. Couldn’t imagine seeing a female wayne or ye…
Oh ok cause I’ve been there…give a compliment no thrist invloved and get the silent weird face. Im like damn maybe if I said it with my tongue out 92 jordan style i’d get feed back.
Thats good to know that I can at least get a thank you.
Texas, and I suspect America in general. Ya’ll can pay for me to move to Germany or Poland or somewhere with a bunch of big titted white beetches.
LOL Once you said germany I was laughing–you should be good in texas that state big as all hell. You just gotta drive around where the colleges are at on the flip if you seeing female wayne there then yea we gotta get you to germany b4 2012.
That’s the style now. And it seems every other breezie is on some dyke shit today. Couple that with all these metrosexual cats running around and pretty soon I won’t be able to tell the difference anymore. Gonna have to carry around a portable gene detector to check chromosomes…
But yeah, I need me one of them badass black girls from Germany. My homeboy got one but she is young and stupid, plus she fucked him so I ain’t touching her but she is fine as all hell and has an attractive and nonabrasive personality.
Yeah Austin has some especially prime females. Or at least it did last time I was down there. Texas is so big, that you’re bound to run into some fine specimens at some point. Of course, I still think the best looking women in the US are in Cali or New York, honestly…
I agree…seeing a woman being bi just for show, attention or a “phase” has really turned me off lately. I’m up to the point where I don’t date bi girls anymore. I’m not hating on them btw it’s just a huge turn-off now.
Bro. I’m tryng to tell you. Don’t even do THAT much. Move it along, no compliment, no NOTHING unless you have a CLEAR, non-telepathic, non-encrypted sign. You get the silent weird face for a reason.
Read this over:
She is saying she accepts the compliment for the purpose of not being mean about it. And that is someone who’s not being a bitch about it.
I have to tell a buddy of mine all the time. The girl does not care, and you are NOT the white knight thats going to brighten her “bad day”. Infact you probably made her day worse trying to be cute.
Like Neesa said 9/10. You MIGHT run across that ONE girl that thinks it’s cute, and might give a damn about your efforts, but other than that, you might as well get used to them looking at you thinking “ugh”, “leg-humper”, “creep”, “stalker”, “weirdo” or “GTFO”. This is old-times chivalry, but they don’t make due today.
Quite true. I get random guys that tell me how pretty/beautiful I look and I just say, “Thank you” and keep it moving. But I do it while trying to avoid eye contact or having to say something that would either get me raped or killed or the combo of both.
Times are quite different, so I definitely agree with Face. I accept more compliments if I’ve actually gotten to know them more than just some dude at the bus stop with me.
I met a girl soon after I dumped my ex in August and we hit it off until she told me she lived with her kids dad. She said they’re not together he just takes care of the kids while she works and goes to school and I understand her situation but that was a deal breaker for me so we stopped talking after a week or so. Since then she occasionally texts and calls and we’d talk for a minute or two. Last night on my way home from work she called and I thought why the hell not some friendly conversation will entertain me till I get home and to my surprise we had so much fun talking the conversation lasted 2 hours so it was like we were meeting for the first time. At some point this summer we made plans to hang out at the Jersey Shore and go to 6flags.
She reminds me of Alex from Up in the Air. We’re interested in each other as more then friends yet prefer to keep it at the fwb level. I hope she doesn’t catch feelings like the last one because a tomboy who likes sports yet still dresses to impress would be quite a loss.
Not going to work…sorry.
You will be back here telling us how she flipped out over something stupid or her BD started a fight with you.
Hahaha. For real. People that already have kids is a deal breaker for me cause they’re bring a lot of baggage to a relationship before it really goes anywhere…*** And*** she’s living with him? Yeah. I’m good. FWB never stay that way because one always seems to catch feelings and wants it to escalate more because… You’re damn near doing the shit that a couple does, but without all the legalistic of said exclusive relationship.
Semantics.
I was slightly joking about when I was younger but Bro I totally agree Jersey has schooled me to keep it moving. I knew prolly around 15 that chivalry was done. I held a door for a chick cause she wasn’t looking and i swear it would have hit her dead in the mouth. I grab the door at the least 2nd and she was just on some …excuse me… my boy was just like Prime you should’ve let that bitch get hit…lol and this was at 15!!
So now that I’ve been grown my compliments have no agenda they are based on observation. If I do give a compliment Im not expecting a response…lol. Also I’ve seen more reaction from the creep, stalker mode, than from the non thirst mode.