so i used to literally go to the store to get honey, but you know the funny thing is the part i enjoyed the most (aside from the professional blowjobs) was the cuddling and talking afterward. crazy people make life more interesting. as long as they’re not negative or toxic, its ok. i dunno i guess i’m just crazy too. i want to settle down and start a family.
Its not even about trying hard. I mean, not to come off mad cocky…but, honestly, i dont need to try. If i see a bad broad…im going to approach her. Simple stuff. As for the the subway, i mean i wouldnt talk to a broad on there to begin with…id atleast wait until she got off…and even then she would have to be amazing and we’d would have to have the same stop.
Fact is, most broads are not going to approach you as a male…so you have to be on the offense most of the time anyway. Its like playing Madden…if your offense aint right…forget about it
As for the Beyonce line…well i was mostly trolling. That said…im not complaining if more broads looked and carried themselves more like B…but thats just me
Once you dudes stop caring about what these broads think or about what they possibly think of you…then your coochie intake is going to increase. Guys spend too much time second guessing themselves and not taking the initiative bc they want to approach at a specific time and date. Nah, fuck that…thats when guys like me come in and steal your prey right from under you bc you was trying to be too correct.
^well if shes taken then…thats that. Im not going to waste my time unless shes entertaining it (which a lot of “taken” broads do anyway) at the very least i can make a new friend/connect who just happens to be fine as hell. Win/win.
If shes merely not interested…well, hey…it happens. Shes probably a dyke…or her loss. On to the next one. Wheres the issue??
The issue is a large number of men think a woman saying “thank you” to a compliment means she is interested. an equally as large a number of men wont leave a woman alone after she says she is taken or not interested. Typically we aren’t interested in being friends knowing you hit on us.
If you do not fit this description then there is no problem.
however Ep not all dudes have the same level of confidence as you, getting shutdown kind of messes with them for awhile while others will go in full force…there to worry about what the significant other will say and that will discourage them from making a move…bitch made mindset but it happens
Which is why the whole thing is understandable. If 1 out of ten women can be bothered you end up wasting 9 minutes which is insignificant.
On the Beyonce subject it irritates me in the sense that the women who quote shit like ‘‘A diva is a female version of a hustler’’ or ‘‘If you like it you should have put a ring on it’’ are hypocritical. I don’t exactly care about people behaving a certain way, people have their wants in life that is their prerogative.
What annoys me is when women try their hand at being a diva/hustler but cry when the person they tried playing was one step ahead. Or when they complain about how their man doesn’t put them first and in the same breath demand a wedding ring in exchange for them doing something as simple as making a cup of tea.
Problem stems from women idolising her as her music is inconsistent and the advice contradictory.
So. We were discussing how women have the upper hand when it comes to a man approaching her/getting to know her, and the complaint was stated by some of us men that women don’t have to make an effort if they find someone attractive.
A coworker and I decided to set up a troll dating account as a woman on a website. And as you would have it, by posting a picture, filling out random junk in the profile information and not searching for a single soul, 12 dudes sent messages within 18 hours of the profile being up. Amazing.
^exactly!
My point is this, it appears to be that sheer numbers dictate a successful dating life when it comes to men…women have to take into account dude like the one in that picture thinking he is a great catch.
Should I be flattered if this guy hit on me?
Funny thing is, yes. We went out of our way to find what we both considered an mildly attractive average looking blond chick. She’s not super hot and she’s not ugly either. She’s somewhere in the middle. Could be considered to be middle to low tier if you have higher standards and date 8’s and 9’s all the time.
So in a sense to us, it’s just a girl who’s standing in the corner trying to look pretty and she doesn’t do anything special to attract men, and certainly doesn’t make a move on them.