Lol too bad im taken, I fit your list perfectly (not to be self centered :P)
Lol. As am I. But, you’re younger than me. Must be 21+ to ride this ride.
Ill stick with the merry-go-rounds untill im ready for the big kid stuff
do age actually make a difference ? my dad iz 8 years younger then my mom he been together for like EVER!!! and my mom look like she 33
Yo, I feel you on the whole “I can’t win” thing when it comes to sending signals and whatnot…which is exactly why I don’t deal with women who depend on signal transmission. last time I checked I wasn’t a Highlander, which means I’m gonna die someday. And I’ll be damned if I’m gonna waste my limited time on earth trying to figure out what the my girlfriend really means when she could simply open her mouth like a grown person and say it. If you want to hint and such, feel free, but don’t get mad at me when I didn’t get the picture you could have just as easily painted with five words.
Nope, maturity is all that matters.
The ability to tune into your partner matters as well (which comes with maturity).
Signal transmission should ONLY be the invite…not the vehicle.
So if she/he says no, you should K.I.M and not say but you flirted with me". Some people would think running over your cat is flirting…
The younger you are, the more of a difference it makes.
Age to me makes a difference. I do a 5 year difference… because I think about “How old was I when they were, such and such years old.” Like, if a dude is in their 30s or 40s, ew no. Some guy hit on me on the train and he was like… 30 something and I straight up told him, “You’re old enough to be my dad if you had me at 18.” He wasn’t expecting that.
See, stuff like the bolded I wouldn’t even put on a list if I were trying to break down what I look for in a mate. Should I really have to say I want a woman who is trustworthy? Who the hell wants an untrustworthy woman? Is anybody out there looking specifically for somebody they can’t trust? “Yo, I want a bitch where I don’t know what the fuck she gon’ do. Fuck all them honest bitches.” Nah, son. That never happens. To me it’s so obvious it’s not even worth mentioning. It’d be like putting “doesn’t poop herself in public” or “is not a giraffe” on a list. Why bother?
Functionally, age isn’t important, but there are some important things that tend to correlate with age ranges. Maturity tends to correlate with being older, though it’s certainly no 1:1 ratio. I have an ideal age range I look for personally, but I’m not about to let a good opportunity slip by over an arbitrary limit. Also, some people have silly preoccupations with age and stuff.
I suppose, but couldn’t age fall under the pretenses of personal preferences? Like, I couldn’t see myself dating someone as old as my dad or grandfather. Regardless of the facts that they have experienced more than I have and are probably more stable than some 20 something out of high school. But on that note, I’d like to be able to experience new things on my own and quite possibly the person I’m with. I don’t knock anyone that are into MILFs or DILFs, but, it’s not me… So, if that means I miss out on a mate that’s for me, that’s a risk I’m willing to take out of personal comfort.
So I take it you let Peaches go…no Karin? The pimp life must be wearin on you playa… may wanna switch up the hats? New strip?
You are just never gonna let that go, huh? :lol:
reporting in
been shitty
Lots of girls I talk to end up being 17 or 16
Im like… awwwwwwwww, way to not be a good women and take 1 for the team!
Made bitches round here look way older than they should…
Older women around here acting like they aren’t reaching metapause and still playing that hard to get
i dunno where the cougars are… dayumm.
Had a weird day today … Can someone explain this to me if it makes sense. Not that I’m interested in these girls anymore or even want to give it a shot now but here the situation.
-Few years bak, flirted with girl a and girl b from college, two separate situations and occasions…
-wit girl a and b I ask them out a few times, they kept cancelling or giving excuse why they couldn’t, all seemed legit, I waited a week before asking again and at certain times, they even initiated the date and cancelled.
-At times when I asked them for a specific day, they replied, not sure if working that day or I’ll let u kno … and I wait for reply and never got any on day we suppose to meet, I wasn’t gonna bring it up or whine … simply wait a week and ask to go out for other stuff …
Eventually after a month of asking girl a out and 2 months asking girl b out to no success I just moved on…. Coz obviously they weren’t interested and we’re politely declining the clueless me …
Fastforward 2-3 years later, I bump into them today, not at the same time but still funny coincidence, they admitted they actually did like me and talked as it was my fault, they said I was giving mixed signals (I told them 4pm in front of this place near campus … can u get more specific then that?) or didn’t call them the day to confirm shit ( when they told me that THEY would let me know if they free after I set up time and place) … I had a wtf face and was tempted to say bitch please … they still single, asked if I wanted to go out and grab a bite to eat and I just told them, I’ll check my schedule and let u kno :rolleyes:…
I’m hitting things off with another girl now anyways who actually shows up lol but I’m just in awe at how those pretty girls make it seem like they were the victim … like if I was suppose to beg for their attention and approval to get a date and chase them … I just, don’t …… understand this train of thought… they aren’t bad or stupid people at all but wtf I don’t get it, if ur interested u go out -_- …
**this just a note to those guys who think a girl likes them and keeps cancelling on them … if the girl is this flaky now, I wouldn’t want to kno how she is when u actually date … move on asap and not waste a month or two like I did in the past … **
@ two pump chump. You said you would take out the obvious things like honest and then included attractive because clearly people prefer to date ugly people:rofl:
Thurst is probably interested in mine.
- Dorky, random, crazy, weird, goofy, etc
- I talk a lot because I’m extremely opinionated and passionate about many things so I need someone who can keep up and have lengthy conversations regularly
- Sarcastic/dry wit/an appreciation for both. Women who need a JK at the end need not apply
- Open minded
- Wants to fuck fairly often
- Attentive AKA will occasionally bring me lunch at work, give me head without me asking, paint her fingernails neon green because it’s my favorite color, etc
- Recognizes and appreciates the art and science of film
- Likes video games/has at least a casual interest in technology
- Somewhat religious
- Athletic/works out/has at least a casual interest in playing and/or watching basketball or football
Oh word, you’re not psychic? Sucks to be you stay fray. It’s sad how many if not most girls expect men to know what’s on their mind without giving more then a subtle, vague hint especially when something’s bothering them. The fucked up part is how these girls actually believe they’re unfair expectation is justified and that the guy is the one doing wrong for not being attentive enough to just “know” what the problem is.
GF looks away from bf and avoids eye contact during conversation
BF: Are you okay?
GF: I’m fine
BF: Are you sure? you’re kind of distant today
GF: I said I’m fine stop asking
2 hours later
GF: How can you just sit there and watch tv while your gf is laying in bed depressed about not getting the job?
BF: You told me about that 2 weeks ago and said you were over it how was I supposed to know it still bothered you?
GF: You don’t care about me a real man would sense why I’m upset I’m leaving.
BF:0_o
Whats sad is you may be joking, but she did tell you what was bothering her in that scenario. Just because time passes that doesn’t mean the situation has.
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Honestly, if a broad is bad as fuck…then there are no unrealistic expectations. Cant really hate on it
So remember yesterday, I made a post about the condom breaking and my g/f took the PlanB pill?
How do we both calm down and not be nervous for the next few weeks until she gets her period?
More sex?
J/K (kinda), sorry, I think you guys need to go to your respective vices in order to calm down (you = video games, her = Oprah?)
Yeah, I played like 4 hours of MvC2 yesterday.
For her, I suppose it’s either Pokemon, Big Bang Theory, Glee, Wii, or reading…
Oprah? LMAO