It sounds like the latter but until given more details we don’t know for sure. Changing yourself for someone else is stupid however, making small adjustments is always appreciated that being said is becoming more physically expressive for someone like misogi the former or latter?
Also rereading his post, it’s interesting she said although she would like him to be more expressive she doesn’t want it badly enough to want to force him to change however, if it really wasn’t that important to her why would she even care if some other guy liked her or not let alone as much as she did?
Well, I’m not a bitch 24/7… I gotta sleep some time, y’know? And I dunno man… My boyfriend does whatever he can to keep me. Pretty tough competition… And not to brag, but I got a buncha guys that have been waiting for me to be single. When I changed my Facebook status from “In a relationship” to “single” when my BF and I broke up for like, 4 days… Niggas were coming out the wood work. Shit was nuts! /not conceited, I swear.
But seriously, if I’m out and about, there are very rare occasions I don’t have my headphones on because dudes in Newark are thirsty for light skinned chicks. I swears the other light skinned chicks are in hiding… cause when I come out, holy shit, bro. Rofl. I mainly blast my music when I see guys around and they’re looking at me hella hard. So, I gotta put on my “white people” music to deter them away. Sad, but true. It generally works 98% of the time. There’s been that try to talk to me or get my attention by asking for directions and shit. And me, being the non-bitch I am, take my headphones off. That’s when I screw up.
But the whole “be your friend” thing is more annoying than anything… Simply cause I know what that means. According to one guy that gave me that corny ass line, he told me that my boyfriend would never know. I didn’t really know what that meant (when I was a bit younger and sheltered), but as I grew older, my response goes to, “Nah. I’m good” and exit stage right.
/Jersey girl, all day.
I agree. I don’t mind changing myself for the betterment of my relationship… Like, not being so self-centered, greedy, selfish, willing to compromise, etc. Y’know gaining all the good qualities one needs in order to have intimate and outside relationships. That’s fine. But, I’m not gonna change myself so much that I don’t even remember who I really am. That shit is a no-go.
Also, I have no idea why she would bring it up… Besides attention. Scratch that more attention. Bringing up silly nonsense like that is just a cry for attention. I wouldn’t go around to my boyfriend telling him shit like that unless I was making fun of some joker trying. At this point, it just seems like she’s yapping at the mouth… Or on that passive-aggressive tip. I know that really well.
^That would be the first time I’d tell anybody to go fuck themselves irl…
I’m usually not that rude, but seriously get the fuck out of here with that bullshit… millionaire…
I’ll probably never see a million dollars in my lifetime… again that’s why I was so eager to get jizzed on for that 96 million that that random girl got(eh… no homo?)…
Those females’ list are unrealistic… Seriously? The lady with the list of 43 things… Wow. She’s gonna be foreveralone.jpg… So, what are on your guys’ list?
I cant watch this shit for more than 5 mins. God damn its like being a kid again and all the time my mom watching Oprah, Maury, Jerry Springer, Cops, Cheaters… UGH
WOW and I thought men were bad(Not all of them) and there shouldnt be a list a few things you look for in a guy
1- Stable Mind
2- Good Heart
3-Trustworthy
4-Cute lol
5-Decent Size lol
Dont really have a list but these are just somethings I look for in a man
Alright, if I took out the obvious things like, respectful, trustworthy, loyal… I think my top 10 would be:
Attractive (I prefer light skinned to white guys)
Good sense of humor
Sarcastic/Can handle sarcasm
Not some two pump chump (in bed)
Attentive
Playful
Open-minded
Plays video games/likes electronics
Likes to watch football
Willing to stick up for me (not necessarily physical/fights)
Figured to be more open than specific… Hell, I know I don’t need super high standards, but I’m not gonna settle for Joe Shomoe with no job and 4 baby mama’s. Nah, I’m good.
Oh damn… How long ago was that. Rofl. I have garnered more respect from some of the posters on SRK by just being myself and having thick skin. The internet, much less SRK, is not a place for the weak or faint of heart. So females that come on here better take that weak shit on Lifetime or to someone who gives a fuck. You either put up or shut up.
Yeah. I game. My dad bred me to be a tomboy and now he regrets it. But, it’s how I’m able to connect (somewhat) with other people… Generally guys cause I tend to play games that are male dominated genres. Sorry, I don’t do the Sims. Lol.
Sims for the Super Nintendo is straight fire… I got it on Wii, don’t hate…
Anyway… my list…
Entertaining(man this one seems difficult as hell as for women, no offense and all, but yall expect us to be funny but bitch what about you?, some have the most boring ass personalities in the world, like I’d seriously have more fun talking to a rock with a face drawn on it…)
Beyond that anything goes… because it really depends from person to person… there really is no cut and dry list for anyone, where if they don’t have something on it I’m crossing them off…
Women do indeed had unrealistic expectations. I blame tv and romance novels for that BS.
Hell Neesa’s list is basically what i got with the girl i’m with now.
Rofl. Dat Sims. I just thought of a rage comic and the girl said she was a gamer and all her games were the Sims. (I can’t find it for shit…Dammit) S’all g, Bull.
But, I always keep my boyfriend and other people I talk entertained. I totally agree that it shouldn’t be one way. I don’t know too many funny/entertaining females. Then again, I don’t know a lot of females cause… I prefer not to. Catty bitches. No thanks.
Uh… I was playing SSF4 and MVC3 for awhile… But then I put down my 360 and started more PC gaming. But when I did, I played like… Borderlands, Red Dead Redemption, Bayonetta, Street Fighter Alpha 2, Dead Rising 2, L4D1/2, Bulletstorm, Team Fortress 2 (my current crack), some Fallout (3/NV), some of the Final Fantasy games, (7 and 10), etc etc etc. I’ve played some Halo 3 and Reach but… Meh. I hate playing on live with Bungie fanboys. I’ll stick to Steam. Love me some TF2.
And I’m glad you guys approve of my list. I don’t want some knight in shining armor… I just want a guy who can be my best friend and my lover… Someone I can play video games with and talk trash when I kick his ass. Someone that I can just get Taco Bell with at 12am and watch the Daily Show on the DVR. He respects me for me. Who I can be myself around. Who I can fart and belch around and we laugh about it. Gives me the world and more.
right now we building classic game arcades but so far i stopping i think the halo franchise going down since the remake of the halo Ce im Killing bayonetta and a lil Dead rising but kicking butt in BULLET Storm
And I dunno man… My boyfriend does whatever he can to keep me. Pretty tough competition… And not to brag, but I got a buncha guys that have been waiting for me to be single. When I changed my Facebook status from “In a relationship” to “single” when my BF and I broke up for like, 4 days… Niggas were coming out the wood work. Shit was nuts! /not conceited, I swear.