The Relationship/Dating Thread: We rough up our significant other and they love it!

Good, I got you to laugh…
Pokemon? People still play that?!?!?!

She downloaded Snap for her Wii.

Go buy a lottery ticket. You’re as likely to win that as your girl getting preggers.

LMFAO, Thanks… You just loosened up my tension headache

Lmao, oh you know you shouldn’t be driving alone in Newark period…lol. Imma lil older than you and most of all my fam moved out of newark. I grew up there and in Irvington, where you at around there? Weequahic section? It was funny one of my cousins is about to move to elizabeth and I came thru, this around littleton nxt to the hospital and I watched this light skin chick pull a gun out on a dude broad day…The dude backed down and bounced I asked my cuz did they have beef and he was like nah fam dude was just trying to holla I damn near choked I was laughing so hard but basically he said the same thing you just said about light skin chicks…Im just like damn glad me and fam moved back in the day…lol.


My list is pretty simple what I look for.

  1. Confidence (especially with her body)
  2. honesty/Loyality(Imma Leo so that trust is big)
  3. attractive
  4. sense of humor ( Im witty so I can’t be explaining my jokes all the time…lol)
  5. Open-minded

Thats pretty much it everything else I can compromise

It pretty funny when I see women with those crazy chilli list Im like hell yea Usher had to be out, maintaining all those things=a deuces ez.

Well, technically, I moved out of Newark when I was 17 and I live in South Jersey. Suburban as hell bro. Loudest noise you’ll hear are crickets. But, I stay up here with my grandparents for college and work. I’d never pull out a gun on anyone, since I don’t own one and I’m too whitewashed for that. Not cause some guy was tryin’ to talk. Though, if looks could kill, I’d be a murderer. Dudes thirsty for some light meat. Haha.

And, I’m not over there. Vailsburg section… It’s not all that great anymore. I’m like… in Blood territory. So, when I have to walk around to get to a bus stop, I powerwalk. :rofl:

Inspite of what Neesa thinks, us old bats can be useful :wink:

I’m not that far behind you sir.

Cause some people say that looks don’t matter. Personality does. Uh. No. I need both. You don’t need to be some, drop-dead gorgeous dude… But if when I roll over and you still look like something I ran over… hell-to-da-naw. I want someone that is attractive to me. Might not be attractive to the next girl, but that’s my personal preference.

I would say I want someone that is into the art and music that I’m into as well… But, I enjoy exposing them to things that I like and vice versa. My boyfriend has grown to like the music and art that I like (by dat exposure method) and he has introduced me to a lot of games I’ve grown to love.

Uh… Only idiot females (AND guys) do that… That’s definitely on some passive-aggressive shit. I don’t bring up shit from 2 weeks ago because that’s fuckin’ petty and immature. I might not come out and say it right then and there (especially if I’m pissed to avoid being on hyper bitch mode), but it’s said that day and squashed that day. None of this carry over mess.

Ahahahahaha. I said I have nothing against people that want to be with older guys, it’s more of a personal preference. Like, if the age gap is like… 10 years, the first thing I think about is, “Damn, when they were 10, I was just born…” :rofl:

I have a few questions for any women on this forum.

  1. Who do women feel about celibate men. I would assume this differs form girl to girl but Its still nice to get a few women’s opinions on the topic.

  2. Why do girls always give me a strange look when I pay them a complement. I normally don’t even have any attraction to these girls and just feel like making them feel good about them selves, expecly when they look like their having a bad day.

I know :slight_smile:

I’m also so-so on dating too far out of my bracket. But that has more to do with the fact that I started my career at 22 and after 8 years I’m a company man, so it sometimes gets difficult when you’re dating someone in their early 20s not sure of what they want to do in life.

Sounds like my boyfriend. Got his masters at 22 and has some salary job. I’m still going through college, but I finally settled on what i wanted to do after c hange majors a bajillion times. It’s hard to settle on an art career that actually has a market for you.

Hm… More power to you. That’s pretty much all I can say. Sex isn’t the end all to be all, but it’s nice to do (if done correctly).

Perhaps the way you say it might raise an eyebrow or two… I really don’t know what else to about this. Rofl.

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[]Obviously we can’t “feel” anything…I kid I kid…but seriously it depends on the guy. I have a friend from HS who has NEVER had sex (he is 33). He creeps people out for other factors outside of being a virgin. If a guy I was interested in wanted to date me but was celibate, it wouldn’t bother me. I have gone 2 plus years without sex. Wouldn’t make or break him in my eyes. I have never dealt with that situation before though…have dated some one for a long time and hardly had sex. (currently not he case)
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]I HATE when I am trying to look like I don’t want to be bothered and someone talks to me…LOL that is what us women do when we don’t want to pull out a gun on dudes …hilarious story
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fellow leo here (yes I am subscribing to the belief we are vain by taking the time out to make this post about me)
When is your birthday?

Maybe. I tend to just say things like. “I like your hair” or “Nice shoes” or what ever.

Fair enough . TBH I tend to not say any thing to girls when they seem sad unless I know it will really help them because I kinda(and I emphasis on the kinda) know how girls thing as I mostly hang out with girls and like to let them talk about their issues to me so I some what understand where their coming form, at the same time it can seem like I’m trying to get them on the rebound or something like that. But IDK I’m in High School atm and maybe girls(or myself) will change when I get to college.

umm if she is on the rebound, she won’t see it that way.
Have you listened to a Beyonce song? lmao
(that last part was a joke…never take a song “writer” seriously if they quote Buzz Lightyear.)

Sorry I don’t pop, I’m a folk/and jazz major. And how will she see it, I’m always up to learn and understand women more

Don’t use her to learn women please…

Sorry I guess"learn" was the wrong thing to say, but I do want to be more understanding of women and how they feel.

that is very diffcult