You’re saying that the woman is objectified in cases of female on male rape? Are you fucking serious? How about whatever experiences/backlash befalls the male victim being completely ignored while dumbasses focus on whether the chick’s hot or not?(and condoning the sexual abuse of boys in the process, yet when those same kids grow up and molest some girl or whatever, then people want to get their lynching ropes out).
Maybe I didn’t make it clear. If you re-read my post, I said that the objectification of the woman is the first thing that occurs to the individual with the typical response, disregarding the actual rape.
You can try to read that again, and also unflag my post. Your reading comprehension is not my issue.
Since men are more likely to get raped than women, I think men should be working harder to appropriate rape culture.
We all need to stand up and embrace homosexual rape as an innate part of our culture. Law can only exist with violence, and the violence we use against criminals and to instill fear in people is rape.
Without rape, jail would have no teeth. It would just be sitting around.
So don’t let women walk around waving rape in your face. Say it loud and say it proud “I am the victim, I am the rapist”
No, I believe he’s saying that even in those cases, the woman is still seen as an object instead of a person. I don’t believe he is saying the victim objectified the woman, but the natural response from people is to reduce the woman to an object. Using a woman’s external beauty is objectification, even if she’s a rapist. In this case, the victim’s trauma is reduced because “Hey, she’s hot!” - which is literally no different than saying “Hey, she was all slutty, she clearly wanted it…”
For me, however, this points out to some of you how rape culture works. When you say to a victim of rape (or about a victim of rape) “But she is hot, I’d hit it, you are lucky!” - you have just excused (or reduced the impact of) the act of rape because of something not related to the rape AT ALL. Excusing rape because of some external thing IS rape culture, no matter what sex the victim or rapist is. When that comment becomes part of the cultural (NOT legal) aspect of rape, that is rape culture. I’ll make a money bet that every article about a man being raped by a woman is followed bgy some men saying “Fuck that,. I’d let her rape me!” - rape culture.
The rapist is now the victim
bad parenting is to blame
It’s a good thing we have advocates out there protecting the rights of a person who rapes a 14 year old girl while she is unable to properly give consent. That’s the culture I want to raise a daughter in.
This. The drunk/frat/hazing mentality today is that it’s okay to do whatever you want to people passed out, whether it is dicks drawn on your face or full blown rape.
Add a dash of tribalism and some biased naivety (“MY kids would never do that!”) and you get the perfect recipe for football bro rape parties.
Except the world in general doesn’t condone rape, so I wouldn’t say we have a rape culture, we have pockets of assholes who don’t give a fuck about anyone else.