Hell no, fuck that bitch.
Friendzone.
A word someone made up that sounded pretty neat since it combines endzone and friend.
Friendzone.
Reading the thread of the tittle reminded me how much do i liked “The Dead Zone” 
Friendzone is the biggestshit ever made up 1st world problem.
I once was in the friend zone. Then I grew a pair, told that bitch that was either rolling with me or I was gonna go fuck other bitches.
So…now its been 6 years, were married, she’s gainfully employed and my ass is sitting at home posting this on SRK.
Conclusion: Be a fucking man and grow a damn pair. 
I think whether the ‘friend zone’ exists or not depends on how you define it.
However, I do think that whenever people create relationships some want more or less out of it than others. Some people want to keep a platonic relationship platonic, some want to turn platonic relationships into intimate ones.
Most of the time though a girl knows pretty quickly if she’s open to having an intimate relationship with someone. It’s not like the movies and she has a sudden change of heart. I mean…yeah it’s possible, but not very likely.
So if you’re in a platonic relationship that you want to be intimate and the other person doesn’t share that sentiment, you need to figure out if it’s best for you to move on or hold onto what you have.
Personally, I’ve been in situations where someone wanted an intimate relationship and nothing else. IMO, that makes you look like a bit of a selfish asshole. It’s like “Relationship or GTFO”.
On the other hand, it’s much more ideal to have intentions laid out bare so there’s no misconstruing. If you’d rather have someone be a lingering oaf and be friends with you when they only wanted an actual relationship, then that makes you look like a bit of a selfish asshole.
I agree that good communication is key. And I don’t think it’s right to string someone along and use their feelings for your own ends.
However, the attitude that someone has to be intimate with you to remain in your life is a pretty big turn off. That’s like saying “You’re not worth having in my life if we’re not being intimate”.
I’m not sure how one “hides behind” the term “friendzone” especially when being in the friendzone is very undesirable. Friendzone isn’t an excuse, it’s something that is or is not. If I say I’m wearing a blue shirt, am I hiding behind the term “blue”?
If someone is obsessed with a girl that only wants to be platonic friends, then that is the friendzone. You guys must have a completely different (wrong) definition of what the friendzone is if you think it’s an excuse to hide behind.
But that’s just how guys are, it’s hardwired into our brain from conception. For the most part, guys don’t want to be friends with chicks because we have nothing in common, and the female friends we do have are friends by proxy (friend of friend, girlfriend of friend) or circumstance (classmate, work mate) and are very casual. If a straight guy is calling you, or coming over just to hang out with you, 9 times out of 10 they want to fuck you. Otherwise we’d just go hang with guys because they are more fun.
And even if we are fucking you, if we have to hear one more time about how your boss is “jealous” and how Tina in HR is “fake”, we’re going to kill ourselves.
Kinda seems like the whole point of an ultimatum like that is as a turn off.
Dude with the sandwich was great!
“HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!! No. No way. Damn, this bitch made a good ass sandwich”
I was gonna start to argue, but then I realized…you’re right :eek:
IM NOT EVEN GOING TO LIE, THE OLD PROMO WAS GODLIKE
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I think there’s that, and the fact that if you have a group of attractive women with you you’ve already socially vetted yourself and proven that other girls find you interesting, and that you have met at least the minimum requirements of social competence and hygiene. I dunno any guy out there who doesn’t have female friends, the ones that don’t are kinda weird and awkward
IT EXISTS. And I have placed many bitches in the “friend zone”.
People who deny or question it have been hurt by it, LOL!
Your problem is that you aren’t threatening her position as Head Bitch. If she has no competition, she won’t do anything to cement her chances. Now if you were to put in another one or two women in the running, then the jealousy will kick in. Just make her jealous. Just don’t make it obvious.
Now that I think about it, why do guys get strung up on one woman? Women outnumber men 6-1 meaning every guy (that’s straight) generally has a choice between 6 women. If one doesn’t work, try one of the other 5.
^^^ THIS right here is the key to gentleman. If she doesn’t play ball, put on the bench and let her watch from the sidelines. Using their jealousy against them is key. Women want a challenge from a confident, dominate male. If they see that no other women want you, they usually don’t want you either. You have to get them to SEE that you’re a desirable male figure
Shiiiiiiit. This is why i must sleep witha girl before i marry her.
I can’t even argue with the jealousy and competitive statements.
Women are insanely competitive, even over silly little things. Like a girl will try and get her girlfriends to eat a piece of cake if she wants a piece of cake. That way she won’t exceed her friends in calorie intake. In a similar fashion, if one girl in a group eats something healthier than the others, the others will most likely feel obligated to eat something better too.
I’ve even seen girls purposely make unhealthy things for their friends to try and get them to gain weight.
The friend zone exist, because guys believe that you can win a woman based on what you do, and not who you are. A guy thinks if you put in enough hard work with a woman, you do the things she likes, she’ll eventually fall for you. Actually, in most cases the opposite end up happening. You could be a dickhead and start putting other women in her face, but that’s just drama, and turns out bad anyway. You can also just decide to leave, and cut off the friendship (the best).
The only issue I have, that if a woman knows the guy like them, they should be responsible and cut it off. I think when a woman knowingly knows the guy like them, but continues to interact with him, they’re leading him on. That’s a sign of ego.
Both men and women perpetuate the friend zone, a woman’s ego does it, and a guy’s lack of self-respect.
So to the guys who were friend zoned - were you salty that your feelings got hurt or because you didn’t get laid?