you think friendzone has just been coined in the last 10 years? I been hearing people say that since my mid teens.
Friend zone = having a friend thats loves doing all the boyfriend/girlfriend stuff with you (sometimes sex as well) but doesn’t want that title. Dudes be getting friendzoned and smashing sometimes too.
You don’t put kindness coins, you put money. That’s the thing. 
NO!
There is no “led on” for years. It is only YOU not opening your mouth for years! It is (and I don’t think it’s FAIR that it’s this way, but it IS) you as a man not making your intentions clear. You’re not led on unless you ALLOW yourself to be led on.
It’s so funny how people take things other people do the wrong way entirely. It happens often and easily. ****. Some guys will take the sound of a woman’s voice on the phone late at night as “she’s hot and horny, and has it for me”. Now multiply that by a million other little actions + not EVER expressing more than a friendship, and you have “led on for years!”
I said Internet Age, dark. Fact is, I wasn’t exposed to the term until I started message boarding beyond gaming forums… I’m 31, by the way.
Oh, so now friend zone includes sex? I don’t think I’ve EVER heard a guy who subscribes to that term complain that they are in that zone while getting ass! lol!
Good one. USUALLY it’s because they aren’t getting any, PLUS was not genuinely interested in friendship, that they’re subscribing to that silly term at all!
And the boss! That shit is insane! I always find myself out of rings.
I liked both posts but it seems you didn’t realize the guy you quoted was poking fun at a typical sentiment of those who tend to hide behind the term.
I loved his post. It reminded me of some things said when I encouraged guys to embrace FRIENDSHIP (I know I used “Friend Zone” (quotations included)) first and foremost. The discussion really got into guys who don’t even see value in being friends with women unless they’re getting some ass. This is the kind of sentiment that gives power to the term…
I dunno. I fucked a chick who I thought I could flip into a girlfriend, or I could at least fuck exclusively for awhile. Then I saw her riding around in different dude’s cars and I found out she was the neighborhood bicycle without her telling me. She still wanted to kick it at my house and slob my knob while watching Def Comedy Jam reruns, but I just quit calling her. I don’t know if that’s friendzone, or friend-with-benefits zone, or I just didn’t know a hoe when I saw one. Either way I felt pretty stupid after that.
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now that is one we’ve known long before the Internet age! 
I said I preferred “tart”…
It’s silly (and just plain incorrect) to say it doesn’t exist, imo… flip the situation around from what it usually is… say there’s a woman that really is a joy to be around… funny and all that jazz… she’s cool to hang out with since she’s just like one of the guys. (ah, to make the example even more plausible— let’s say these 2 happen to be childhood friends.) Now… imagine she happens to look like Gabrielle “Precious” Siddebe… or let’s say Camryn Manheim. Suddenly, she makes her move on ya one day. Like most other dudes, you’re fantasizing about women that look more like Salma Hayek, Stacy Keibler, 90s-era J.Lo, etc. whatever. Let’s also assume the dude in this hypothetical scenario doesn’t want to destroy her feelings for whatever reason, and does still like to occasionally talk/hang out/etc. Unless he starts ignoring her from that point on, forever… she’s now the one that has been “Friend-Zoned”…and she is stuck there forever because she’s obviously not anywhere near Stacy/Salma/Halle/etc.'s level…and there’s is also not enough plastic surgery in the world to transform Gabby Siddebe into that. (go ahead and look up her picture** if you dare.**)
That’s been my opinion on the subject as well.
Almost all of the relationships I’ve been in has been with women I’ve been friends with first. To me, it’s a great way to get to know someone before you decide if you want to take things to the next level; because if there is anything I have no patience for is drama in my personal life. Sure, this takes time, and some end up hooking up with other guys for long (and sometimes indefinite) periods of time, but if you have a big network of females in your circle, it’s not really a big deal. In fact, the only problem that I get in with this is the occasional insecure boyfriend.
Then again, I’ve had female friends that I’m not interested in that wanted me in a bad way…so are they in the friend zone?
All I know is that Honey Bunches of Oats: Just Bunches is the best cereal without milk.
Girls don’t get friend-zoned by guys. The ugly girl knows damn well he’ll fuck eventually or under the right conditions.
A long time ago, one of my supervisors shared an apartment with a good friend of his, one of my work mates, who fell on hard times. Nice girl, cool to hang out with. Very, very homely. She looked like an iguana with a perm.
FOH. You’re drunk and been grinding all night but couldn’t close the deal at the bar/club, and she’s at home up late reading a book in pajamas. So anyway they’re married now.
peanut butter captcrunch is the best…only draw back is that you will eat so much that it will make the top of your mouth raw. kinda pleasure for pain trade for its greatness
You peeps just gotta be out, know that there are millions/billions of other women on the planet and a few are bound to connect with you.
As long as you keep that in mind you will never fall prey to FZ again, I mean unless you only want to be friends with women.
Once it clicks that you want said chick you can not for any reason find a work around to go after her.
You have to be direct with that, like hey I like you we need to go grab coffee etc what ever is your thing Do that. If you hear uhh idk or i have a bf but he treat me like shit etc **RUN. **
Have a plan of self respect. You know what type of person you are, you know what you can bring to the table. If you only trying to smash said chick then it is what it is but if you trying to make that woman your lady or your gf etc then SPARTAN THE HELL UP!! and smartan the hell up.
If she aint really feeling you like that so what move on, I know thats hard sometimes but why waste your time and effort on somebody who dont see you like that.
FZ Escape:
Now if you are trapped there then think to Dark Knight Rises. I tell peeps all the time that is the only way to escape is to become batman. Lol but basically just have to re claim your confidence and self respect. By climbing out of that hole and making the jump with no rope think about what the rope represents?
Fear. The fear of fuck I really like her and want to be with her…guess what to escape you must conquer that shit.
The plan is you find yourself caught in the middle of a convo with her telling you about her bf or some stupid shit wasting your free time. Then you start the climb out–you cut her off–Oh word listen I’ll talk to you later I got Jessica on the other line. No bye no nothing just hang up.
I know thats tough but so is batman lol, then even if you see this chick every day. At school at work etc. avoid her for awhile. Do not be available, the longer the better. To keep yourself busy try talking to new women.
Now you’ve gained ground a bit to reintroduce yourself. You’ve been ignoring her calls her etc this is good. Now when you talk to her dont fall into the same shit, keep those convos short and sweet. Any stupid shit you punish lemme go going out with tiffany etc.
Now the last part is sooner or later with authority you have to walk away completely. after telling her you want her and this is her last shot you dont have time for her games.
Then boom if you get her great if thats the end even better. You have climbed out and now you are going back to gotham city as the batman again.
You know your self worth, you know its her lost or any chicks lost that cant see how their life would be enhanced with you etc.
Some peeps say they believe in it and some say they dont. I only see things as problems and I am a above average problem solver. You dont wanna be in the “FZ” then avoid putting yourself there. If you are there then its sorta like BJJ you gotta know your escapes if you dont then you gotta tap out right?
I want all of you to watch this video. It’s only 3 minutes long, and it’s very enlightening.
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Where I thought Radiant and Nini had ended the thread, you have done once again sir.
Well, guess I did it wrong all those years ago. I should have maned up and told all them sluts something like, 'I like being your friend and all that but really I just like looking at your tits, can I fuck you?"
I watched it but honestly I’m not as mindblown or consider it something worth putting mind to.
Usually women ‘know’ they guy is into them, I mean why were they friends in the first place? The only time I’m ‘content’ with the girl being my friend is her having a boyfriend the first time I meet her, so it pretty much blocks me from all feelings.
Female friends are fine as long as you treat them like other friends. The problem with most guys is they get suckered into some type of substitute boyfriend role in which they console a girl like a boyfriend would, but get none of the physical rewards. I can assure you that keeping a few female friends to hang around will always translate into more women when you are out and about. A guy with a group of women is always seen as more desirable/approachable than a guy out with his boys. I believe it is because of woman’s competitive nature, they want to do all they can to get the attention of a guy that is desirable to other females/might be someone else’s man. Over the course of my life I have had a couple of female friends, but I was never in their friend zone. I even have gotten sex from a few of them when the conditions were right. You just gotta know when to play your hand and not act like a bitch.