So your ex, what type of girl is she? Its a bit odd 5 years later she decides to say the kid is yours. You fucked up by not telling your fiance about this situation. You fucked up more by marrying her without telling her…
Also, a question about your wife does she work?
This isn’t at all odd if you understand how neurotic some women can actually be. She probably thought that she found a S.I.M.P. and the soon to be ex wife sounds Daffy as hell.
California does not recognize common law marriage.
maybe this time te female really is fucking batshit crazy. Just this one time. It happens sometimes, not all the time, but sometimes. Dude is really lucky if what he says it’s true. He dodge a fucking nuke point blank.
and the dude said that he didn’t know, or alluded to that by saying,
suddenly she shows up with this kid and says it’s mine.
this entire thing is a clusterfuck if any of it is true. dude better not have lied about not knowing about the kid because then, LOL. You played yourself like an idiot.
That doesn’t mean it can’t happen:
Far as I know, verbal contracts are still enforceable in Cali so watch what you say you might be getting recorded.
You just wasted $111.
You don’t listen, do you? You’re in a hurry to get yourself deeper in trouble when all you have to do is get a lawyer and listen to them. Stop doing EVERYTHING until you talk to a lawyer.
For common law you also have to claim that person as your spouse and then get it certified. If you’re living as a married couple and its been that long, then you can just get common law married.
The one thing we can take away from the situation was that the dick wasn’t that good. Women tend to trip significantly less if you fuck’em like the world’s ending at least once every two weeks. Honeymoon must’ve been real sour for her to trip like that. So lawyer up and then go to the porn thread for some match videos. Your dick game needs to hit training mode homie.
This dude, if this is real, should just cut his losses. He’s still young (he says he’s in a Master’s program but he can barely write a sentence so I dunno what to believe) so it’s not like his life is over. Manx dropping truth bombs because his wife has her pink deep in his ass and he knows the games.
Where’s Parry? That’s a dude who learned REAL hard what can happen in a divorce if you try to be nice to the other person.
Too raw for him bruv.
Using s galaxy 3 to hit up this thread. So sorry that I’m not caring about grammar and punctuation. Orgasm given a plenty. We just didn’t get to have our honeymoon, school started 2 days before the wedding.
With That said, I’m on my way to a law office in the neighboring city. @Manx these test work and can be submitted to the courts as proof. But your advice is being used 100% thanks a lot.
I get the need to insult me, but 3/4th of you haven’t gone through this at all. So say what you will but I’m am being sincere and hope this happens to none of you.
Waiting to see the lawyer as we speak.
Actually dude, she waited till September before she told me but we ran into each other and I saw her with the kid and was like “Cool, you have a kid.” Months later SHE THEN tells me, “he is yours”.
Truthfully, I was totally irresponsible with the way this was handled. In all honesty all the dating and the tons of one night stands I have ever had none of them hit me up with pregnancy issues. Maybe another romp but never kid issues. @Gaijinblaze your advice is sound and I thank you.
Still waiting here.
lol I just found your sentences funny is all. I don’t want you to go through it but the way you wrote your first few posts had me breaking out my Fruity Pebbles Decoder Ring to see what you were trying to say.
I wanna see pictures of this broad.
I just find it funny that you guys are really quick to judge and literally pick apart everything about this guy when in reality although he made some big mistakes this kind of stuff happens ALL the time to people. That said you obviously made a massive mistake by seeing your ex without telling your Wife. Thats like no no numero uno. At the same time, it sounds like you had way more problems than just this if thats what it takes to have you guys divorce and it end up the way you are. I’m curious if you guys had some other major things going on before this happened? There must have been some other things that happened prior to this and it sounds like this is the icing on the cake right? Because otherwise it doesnt really sound like this chick is dedicated to the marriage but the more you hear about the story the more that does not seem surpising… lol
Unless of course there are other factors about the story which we dont know which is also possible.
If you pay child support to a broad, can you still hit?
You do that and you’re a fucking fool!
Alimony is a must she says? Sounds to me that she has been plotting against you long before she found out about this ex. Fact she even brought it up is scary.
Yep, and regular dudes end up and jail for missed child support payments that they can’t afford or committing suicide because they’ve lost everything probably daily. Men make the mistake of “trying to do the right thing,” and women take them for everything they’ve got because they didn’t protect themselves. When Robin Williams killed himself people went on and on about past drug abuse and health problems. They swept the real reason him killed himself under the rug. That being the millions of dollars of alimony he had to pay every year which forced him to keep making movies even though he couldn’t handle it.
Luckily for the OP his wife is leaving before he started making big money and they weren’t married very long so he’ll probably get off easy but this stuff is no joke.
If you haven’t heard Dave Foley’s story. Here is some good nightmare fuel for you: http://youtu.be/SaC-2lj6HNg
And this is why you never get married. Women are only good for pumping and dumping.
That chick with the kid that’s “your’s” only sees you as a human ATM. Tell that bitch to kick rocks.
Aren’t you suppose to only pay alimony for half of the time you been together? The OP been married less then a year, i really dont see him paying alimony for that long or if any at all. That’s why i ask if she is working. The cost of lawyers fees will be a killer, my bro went through this but he had a kid & was married over 5 years. Doesn’t have to pay alimony & wife has to pay for child support w/ joint custody.
The best thing to do is avoid any contact w/ your wife if its possible or at least have someone with you at all times. Women go even more batshit during divorce, even if they were in the wrong. They will try to get restraining orders for no reason but to make you look bad & put hurt on your reputation. Let the lawyers do the talking. Its probably going to cost you $5-$15,000 for the lawyer fees…This is the good news the bad news is if that kid turns out to be yours.
Finally done with the meeting. Well it’s a good chance I can get annulment but it depends on what she says as well or it could be a divorce
. Annulment is 2-4k. Not super bad. While divorce 6-12k. Some bright lights today at least.
A court ordered pregnancy test is going to happen for sure. I can’t sue her for slander but I sure as hell can kick her ass to the curb if it isn’t mine.
Lots of the post have helped out and I’m grateful.