I wonder if @rcaido really likes his wife or he’s just in it because she got $ and takes care of him.
Seriously.
There’s this Asian chick that’s stalking me and her family is ballin outrageous and very well connected. Most people find her to be very attractive but I just don’t find Asians attractive. Like, I should be attracted to her in theory, but there’s nothing.
She’s crazy, creepy, a stalker, doesn’t go away, annoying, too persistent, boring. She’s not smart but she managed to one up me several times. I would have went to the police and got a restraining order but I’m too scared.
I knew a girl like that. Too bad she belongs to community that’s fucked up and is warping/has warped her mind with pointless garbage. Yellow fever being exposed.
Of course i love my asian wife. Remember we were both broke ass when we meet. I actually did work, i even had 2 jobs while watching our first child so i can put her to school. She became a pharmacist, i became Mr. Mom haha!
Very interesting but also a very sad state Japan is in, and here I thought the reason for the low birthrate was because of genetics, turns out that it is far worse due to the fact that it is mostly psychological more than physical. It seems that misguided pride has taken over Japan’s people when it comes to relationships that they use their given talents to battle through adversity in a wrong way by not engaging with the opposite sex. The 3 probably main culprits of this fiasco that has already drilled in the mind of the people are the government’s stubbornness to provide married women with kids the support they need to balance out family and work, women’s ill thoughts of marriage is synonymous with death and men using fantasy to satisfy their sexual urges and treating their wives like insignificant human beings is mind boggling. And what is most troubling about this is that Japan is known to be a country of strict psychological ideals, when it comes to dedication to ones beliefs and activities, but know these traits are beginning to be their downfall, by being too cautious about sex, relationships, marriage and the negative results it will inflict on their future. Solving this problem has to be carefully planned by the government and no I don’t mean a law for people to go on a sex spree, but a collected effort to reintroduce to the nation the value of a stable Japanese family to a country’s future.
Shoutouts to Yuyushiki, Yahari Ore no Seishun Rabu Kome wa Machigatteiru, gotta give props to Hatsune Miku Project Mirai 2, real love for Date A Live, shoutouts to my real niggas in Hayate no Gotoku. Rock that Fate itasha homie.
Right now i think that japan’s own society and culture is causing this to happen. Its easy to look from a condescending point of view and call those otaku shut ins but the more i hear about the economy, societal pressures and expectations of japan, and the eventual 12-16 hour work cycle per day for the rest of your life. I think that these pressures create shut ins here in the states and other parts if the world too.
I was doing a lot of research on things like these for a paper i am writing and it changed my perspective. The issue is being approached all wrong and only reinforces them staying inside to escape.
Hikikomori (ひきこもり or 引き籠もり Hikikomori?, literally “pulling inward, being confined”, i.e., “acute social withdrawal”) is a Japanese term to refer to the phenomenon of reclusive adolescents or young adults who withdraw from social life, often seeking extreme degrees of isolation and confinement. The term hikikomori refers to both the sociological phenomenon in general as well as to people belonging to this societal group.
You are correct that those issues are at the heart of Japan’s declining birth rate. However, they are not a result of “misguided pride”. They are the result of hilariously outdated gender conventions that cannot exist in a culture where gender equality is supposed to be a fundamental expectation. Japan has never gone through the cultural upheavals typical of a Western state; they were not prepared to accept these ideas as a part of everyday life.
One cannot rely on government intervention to fix a problem that is closely tied to severe distrust of institutional authority. Many of the socioeconomic changes over the last 20 years have severely undermined trust in political parties and corporations.
Japan also has a problem where groups cute girls have to fight tooth and nail to impress generic guys. I mean, most of the time its 3-8 girls, but there are documented cases of 20+ girls fighting over a single, school aged boy. They’ll do anything, from cat ears and skimpy maid outfits to sneaking into the bath while he’s cleaning himself. What does a guy have to do for a simple, peaceful life!?
