Because dumping your entire family/community seems nice on paper but in reality it’s very hard to do. At best you can hope to secretly communicate with some of them but in reality once you inter-marry they consider you dead. They have a funeral and everything (or they sit shivah, I don’t remember exactly), you’re literally dead to them.
LOOOL, if you lose your family and “community” because of who you date, they were useless in the first place. Man up you pussies. I’d dare someone in my family to give me an ultimatum over who i date. I’d happily never see them again. They already know that about me.
**Only a child cant speak up for himself, and stand alone when necessary. A man does what he wants, when he wants to fucking do it. **
So you think because the racism originates from family members or a religious code, it’s not racism? You are choosing to judge someone on group identity, rather than individual character, that is the textbook definition of racism. That’s like some white guy saying “well I really love this black girl, but my family will flip their shit if I get serious, so I’m done with her” yeah that’s not racist at all.
While I don’t agree about rejecting someone because of your religious family, I can imagine that it can be very tough to keep everyone happy. Social pressure and family pressure can be a fucking bitch, especially if you have a close connection to them. Since I don’t know people’s situation, we shouldn’t judge so fast.
IMO, if my family were to tell me I can’t date X girl because of X race or X religion. Then I would tell them to fuck off.
@pedoviejo: So when and how did you assume that I was even interested in this girl?
I’m obviously wasting my time replying to someone like you but surprisingly enough, this is the first case of blatant direct face to face racism that I’ve experienced.
Maybe I did brag a little bit as I was rather drunk but then again who gives a shit thats not the point. This whole situation pisses me off more than anything. And it’s been happening more and more, to the point that some people straight up leave Quebec.
Anyhow, that’s the last time I reply to your trolling ass.
(More like “now you know how everyone except a select group of white people feel”.)
I still say you dodged a bullet, Sacr3D, especially if this was legitimately your first racist incident and it was someone “merely” leaving your presence because of something so petty instead of more directly insulting you or attempting to physically do you harm. It sucks and it stings, but all things considered, it could have been way worse.
I also forgot to congratulate you on apparently being the most coherent drunk on SRK if you were actually a tipsy when you posted last night. If only all people remained that self-aware when drunk, then the world would be a slightly less shitty place.
Hmmm…noted.
proceeds to look at work-outs targeting only those areas
Not racist, but prejudice (a bias). Racism is systematic control where you act on your prejudice of another group of people by controlling them. The elite of the Caucasian culture have twisted that word to avoid looking like villains and not feel guilty. Truth gets pointed out and they can shift blame on others (why are you being racist?). It’s like blaming the rape victim for speaking up about being raped. When your culture has the power to go into the dictionary and change the definitions of words (like the word “fair”, which really means beautiful), then you’ll be able to be racist. When you’re able to make laws that affect specific people, then you’ll be able to be racist. She was just bias towards you, which is seriously messed up. (The media is one hell of a drug). My rants over lol!