Mechanica: Hey, any chance I could get you to make me a Bob avatar?
I do. I was just rolling my eyes at the people that think it is absolute since I’m generally a relativist.
Elude me? How so?
I don’t me to come off as if that’s inapplicable or that I know everything, but there isn’t much to society that I wish to “grasp” given my current understanding of it.
It’s merely another necessary evil to me at this point.
Oh, I’m sure it’s fun in the heat of the moment, before all the shame and stuff sets in the afterglow–this is why I’ve never understood people always saying other need to get “laid” in attempt make that person feel better or try to clear their (upper) heads.
I’m rather equally sure that it will get boring after while, maybe not as much as the supposed Lebsian Bed Death I’ve heard about, but the same person can only be interesting for a finite period of time in my eyes. That said, “ironically”, the only thing I would want relationship-wise–monogamy–I know to be the single most queer thing about human sexuality (…outside of certain “fetishes” shiver).
But, yeah, for the amount of time spent acquiring it–another of the many problems with sex that I won’t go into–and attempting to acquire it, sex is a (boring) waste of time that you could be using to better yourself if you’re not having kids.
(And, no, I’m not someone that believes that people should only have sex to have kids. The planet has too many people as it is.)
Well, I’ve had the beginning of bitchtits for a while (which I plan to lose), so maybe to you’d think I was somewhat cute. But clothing-wise, I’m always covered up outside of my face and hands (most of the time) and even that might change soon, so I doubt you even tell.
Otherwise, that just sounds like you have “pitydar” or something.
I work in the kids area half of the time, so it’s kind of my job not to be attracted to people on the floor.
I seem to be cashiering more and more, but while up there, I just focus on looking half as surly as usual, making sure I ask everything, and not focusing on something embarassing as clevage or huge ass burn scars or women with mustaches (which has happened twice and was more disgusting than than burn scars, which didn’t even much phaze me :wasted: ).
It’s not as bad as “Hey, Goon A” and “Hey, Goon B”. I remember people’s faces, barely, but they really do look alike to me and when I’m up I’m thinking more about their money and how dirty is more than “hey, the goon’s cute”.
But that’s just me. Apparently.
Yeah, I’m sure that I would say the something contrary to that for a while after I lost my “virginity”, but that’s especially what worries.
Even without the whole “Pringles” attitude towards sex that (American) men are “supposed”, sex/porn takes up too much of my time as is. I can’t imagine much less focus on other things than now.
Since when is sex shameful?
-SH
I would have said “for me”, but I thought that was obvious.
It’s only shameful for the girl(or guy) when your juices are all up on their face.
unless they like that. then it’s all (man)gravy (
)
-SH
how many of yall wear glasses?
No beef sweetie. bearhugs I understand that you are commenting and that’s fine. I apologize if it seemed like i was trying to engage you in some albeit weak version of a battle.
Like i said. I don’t have to defend my actions I’m almost 30 this guy is about 46 grown folks buisness. Which shouldn’t suggest that older people make smarter decisions always. but it should suggest that I understand there are only 3 things that matter in life.
Choice.
Responsibility.
Consequence.
I appreciate that maybe the candor of my account made it sound like i looked haphazardly into just hooking up with the guy for the sake of doing so. But I know this guy. I like this guy and doing what we did was fun for us and it is what it is really.
bearhugs Your still my favorite emo srk’r, no worries. (waits for the “i’m not emo” posts)
I think he meant for him. (edit: I see he clarified)
way to change the topic.
I wear glasses sometimes. But i hate sunglasses. Hate them.
Blodia: I wear glasses. My eyes are too small for contacts. :looney:
I wear glasses. <3
Fuck dude, I leave for one day and this thread goes all wacky. I came to the conclusion since I’ve been fucking guys since I was 14 and am now at the 50+ rate, I know what I like, what I don’t like, and know what I’m doing. So I will not take advice of someone who is still a virgin to the subject <3 On the other hand, GTC, your advice is rather welcome.
GTC, how did it go with your boss?
The reason I didn’t post all day yesterday is because I spent the whole day with my co-worker. We hung out with this friends he was visiting out here, went to breakfast with them. We then went to the movies, then I took him to my house out here in Palm Springs and showed him the house. Went back then went in the jacuzzi for a good hour. We then got ready and went to a gay bar, then later dinner, then back to where he was staying. I don’t want to get into any details. I actually did write everything that happened and had like 6 paragraphs going, so I deleted them. But it was the most passionate night, probably of my life.
I am so used to fucking a guy usually the first time I meet them. I usually don’t want to talk to them afterwards, and the ones I do usually end up being douches, and are better for a lay than anything else. Well in this case, I’ve already known my co worker for a long time. We go to lunch almost everyday, well, me, him, and these other 2 girls in HR. We’ve hung out, gone to the movies, etc. We’re really good friends, and the whole time I’ve known him it’s been rather small flirting going on. I went from feeling nothing for him, and as time went on my feelings increased, but he never really made a move, and I wasn’t sure if he was into me…boy was I wrong. So taking all this into consideration, and 5 months of longing put together into one night…it was hot as fuck.
Although I like sex, foreplay, and everything leading to it is the hottest part for me…it’s hard to find guys that are into the same thing. TO MY LUCK, this was exactly what he loved to…so we had fun for hours…went to bed…woke up in the middle of the night and went again. And I said fun because when I finally came it was 6:30am…probably the biggest load I’ve ever shot. And there was no sucking of dicks, or fucking involved throughout all this…if you can believe that. He is a really passionate man, into kissing, and touching (which is really hard to find), and he was good at it too…he drove me wild.
So he had to leave early to go back to LA, he packed up, and everything was normal…it didn’t feel awkward or anything, which I thought it would. I asked him during the night if it felt weird sleeping with a co-worker, and one half is age for that. He said that he hadn’t slept with someone my age in 20 years, and he had told me before that he wouldn’t want to cause it would feel like being with a child, but he said with me it felt really comfortable and natural…which is how I felt about him.
Anyways, I need to stop now. But this was hot, and passionate, and I’m loving being 21 so far. Sorry for those who can’t understand the concept of sex/love, but maybe it’s not for everybody. Oh, and he is the HR Manager, the guy who hired me…how’s that for morals?
I wear glasses too.
-SH
I wear glasses. tried contacts once…but eh. Maybe I’ll try em sometime in the future
not as action filled as your story is.
but it was nice… and whats better is things werent awkward afterwards I’ll be damned 
Truth be told we didn’t do much but a makeout session and lots of groping is cool. We had to cut things short cause he got a called away to take care something but he left with. “We will definitely finish this next weekend.”
I was good with that.
Honestly you want to know the weird thing. I almost feel satisfied just knowing that he WANTS to play with me. But i definitely intend on sealing the deal. BV… I can be stealthy… but getting a cock pic out of the deal… that would definitely be a mission impossible.
“hey do you mind if i take a picture of that cock for my scrapbook”
yeah wouldn’t fly. but he does have a nice one. kinda fatter than it is long … in general he’s got a very top teir basket.
You don’t have a scrapbook of all of cocks you’ve encountered?
No reminescing over your scrapbook going “oooh august 95, that was a good one”?
thickness is def. better than length
Amen.
GTC: i was just curious ho many foureyed cubs we have. so that i dont feel like the only one. im lonely out here hahaha. oh and i dont really care for sunglasses too since i can never wear them with my glasses on. aww, interesting story. isnt it a fact most older, experienced guys (35+) dont care as much anymore about sexual orientation and are more willing to experiment? what if you ask nicely to the pic? anyway lookingforward to round 2.
iwist: you dog.
word.
I hate sunglasses because …
I guess this may sound silly to some but for me Eye shape and eyebrows are hotter than eye color.
Some people are blessed like Khaotika and have both.
I generally like to get a whole profile of someones face even if they are squinting at the sun sometimes its hot to see nice full eyebrows ( not unibrow) but full that’s one of the key features that is a turn on for me in a guy.
Ok. Well, I think I was just looking for more stuff like what that one story that guy put up about some dude named Garrett?, this straight guy who had him face down thrustin’ into him or w/e. I think I’m into random encounters like that, not so much from doin’ that w/ your bf (I’ve never had one but in theory, the thought sounds kinda boring compared to havin’ a different partner each time). And I especially like when they’re true stories.
Hit me up with some bob pictures and I can try, 'zag.
Uh thanks, I think. I didn’t know I possessed such an awesome quality. :wgrin:
I don’t wear glasses, though I probably should. My eyesight’s not what it used to be.
Yay for you getting a 2nd weekend out of your ex-boss. XD
iwst has such awesome stories. sits and listens