haha…thanks…
My BF is only with me on weekends…my hot bear co worker (bowling partner) suggested I get a weekday BF…I really didn’t want to, but we’ll see how things turn with my other co worker (one I slept with). We’re supposed to join a cooking class soon. 
You guys are gay.
-SH
Sending you a PM.
GTC: Seriously? You guys made out? Holy hell that’s actually a fair bit hotter than what I thought would happen. =D
ok a friend and I bagan talking about this the other day…and I wonder do any of you know guy who purposely do the femenine thing? I understand some have gender confusion issue and thus do it but some really kinda just flaunt their gay to the world…
so do any of you do it? a friend in college my 1st year acted femenine but not enough to make it annoying…heh if anything he was a cool guy who got me into anime conventions…In regards to this thread, you can say I’m a fan 
Some people do it on purpose, for sure.
None of us do, though. We’re all mostly the type that could pass for straight.
Yet…like 90% of the people who meet me for the first time THINK I’m gay cause I act very feminine. I.E. use a lot of odd hang gestures, do really girly/ditzy things when I’m angry, say “like” and “cute” a lot. Get over excited about new clothes/outfits
And the whole thinking guys are attractive (no homo) thing.
oh, and slapping friends on the ass and saying “good game” after playing MvC2 or 3S at the arcade. Granted…we all know our rule “it isn’t homo if you say good game after words, even if you grab” but outsiders don’t know this. :bluu:
I’m sure the whole story of me and my friend Joshy spooning while watching “Chronicles of Riddick” didn’t help either.
And the fact the old DDR team I was on was “Team Ghey Seckz!”
Go figure.
-SH
Uhhh… 
uhhh…
Don’t ask. 
me n my friends are very weird. >\
-SH
just wondering…
why do you end your posts with -SH
We know who you are…it’s clearly labeled on the left hand side.
You’re not quoting yourself… so it’s not like
“Fags are gay!”
-SH
I don’t know…I just don’t get why people resign every post…we won’t forget who they are…:looney: You didn’t use to do that a few months back…
-iwst
I don’t even mean to do it now…
It’s just kinda force of habit now.
Plus most people in the prem and GD forums just know me or call me by SH.
So…it’s kind alike a trade mark. lol.
-SH (god dammit)
Fags, the lot of you.
-A
Mech: PM sent.
LOL Bob is funny. I’ll get on that when it’s not 5:30 in the morning…
My boyfriend’s way too light of a sleeper! :sad: I woke up with him on his couch and felt really bad. He insists it’s fine but I don’t think it is. I’m trying to get him in the habit of pointing it out and telling me to stop fidgeting and moving around, 'cause I do it just because I’ve been used to sleeping by myself for my entire life… even though I sleep way better with him I’m trying to learn to move around less. Agh. That’s the one thing we really differ in, I sleep like a rock and him like a feather.
On the whole open relationship topic, I kinda wish I could attempt that without feeling extreme guilt… I love him way too much for someone I don’t ever get to see. I almost cried thinking about how long it’ll probably be 'til I see him again when I left this morning… Kinda embarassing but true. I was thinking maybe it would help me not be so attached but I just can’t seem to do it. Ugh, and he leaves for France for a week next Monday then he’ll probably be so packed with stuff that we can’t even fucking hang out on the following Monday which is my birthday. He also said something over dinner about having to go live in France for a couple months if things don’t get better with them or something? That pretty much leaves me speechless, I’m seriously considering bombing Boeing. Stop taking my boyfriend away! Just because he doesn’t have a wife doesn’t mean he doesn’t have someone at home! :sad: sigh
Well um, now that I’m done venting about my hopeless love, what’s new with you queens? I finally got the final organizational things for my apartment - desk/chair, bed frame/boxspring, shower curtain, dresser, bookshelf… It’s awesome. Lonely though… and cold.
Anyway, what kind of effects has messing with other dudes had on your relationships (that is, something that’s okay with your partner, not weird shady stuff behind the back)?
Well, uh I can make my voice really high-pitched, and I do some of that type of stuff to fuck around, but no, not all the time. The funny voices? ALL THE TIME.
I used to do the “-name” thing too, lol. I got lazy.
Mech: I wanna see pics of the new arrangement later! :lovin:
-Khao!
I do not want to see pics.
-SRSLY
losers
-beats
you know what it’s definitely just as satisfying as if i had done that also. It’s weird. Although i still really want to seal the deal.
open relationship is definitely not for everyone. I heard someone say “it seems like all gay guys are open” Not true… and even the ones that are have there own rules for “open”
so it’s not like i could run around screwing anyone I want and think everything is gonna be peachy when i get home. In our relationship he can do what he wants and i do what i want but we have to let eachother know, and there is no “dating”.
I travel alot for work so when i’m away or even if not if he wants to hook up with someone he’ll call me and say look i met this guy from X he’s in town and wants to play with me. do you mind if i have him over?
typically i’ll say sure I don’t mind and that’s that. Or if i know something about someone that he wants I’ll just tell him no that’s no good and then that’s what it is.
theres no dating as in it’s one thing to hang out withsomeone you wanna play with it’s another thing entirely when you are “dating” that person. sometimes that difference is subtle sometimes not. but mostly you know when you are trying to go beyond hanging out with someone. were i in your stead mech I wouldnt introduce something so … left feild into a relationship that is definitely new. I mean my bf and I went into this knowing we wanted to be open and even then… those first few times… watching him make out with someone else the first time was rough… I almost tore the guy’s head off. Now i try to get him laid every where we go :lovin::wgrin:
We’ve had a few moments where there has been added tension because we are open… mainly … okay… I’ll share with you guys cause i love you all and we’re good like that.
Even though we are open we rarely ever hook up. On average he hooks up out side the relationship 5 to 6 times a year. I will probably do that maybe 2 or 3 times a year. Alot of people assume we do it more than that. but he usually hooks up He’ll meet a guy online and then the guy comes over and thats that. for some reason I always get the ‘I was in the back of the bus and this guy whipped it out, or the delivery boy came in to the house and wanted a knob job…’ you see.
Quality v Quantity. Btw the Bus story is real. And so is the delivery boy ( man). keep in mind when i tell you guys these things… they are typically Years apart. so it’s not like I’m knocking it down consistantly :sad::sad: although if I were :lovin::lovin::looney::looney:
no open relationships for me. if I saw my bf doing anything with anyone, let alone knew about it I would probably implode…
…and maybe try to kill the other guy with my mind
Your face is a homo.
GTC is right about the rules thing. The way my bf and I have it, I don’t mind if he does anything on his own (which he wont because he’s timid as fuck), but he’s not comfortable with me fucking around without him; so basically the compromise is that we only play together.
-A
rapes you
“none taken”