You are pretty apprehensive bro. You know I was only kidding when I said I was a chick. I am genuinely curious and want to hear some actual personal tales instead of just random new postings about people no one has ever met lol.
My girls brother and my cousin really fucked themselves with child support but they are both in Texas. I am sure I told the story about my homeboy that got arrested for sleeping in his car outside his own house cause his wife was fucking him over and cheating on him. Actually I am sure I told people all that before. But I have probably never seen anything from any of the people that post in here which I find odd.
In regards to the paying child support thing, Hopefully none. I remember some who posted in here saying they were married. With luck, the trap will not close upon them, but it is most surely set.
1 kid and I understand I am extremely lucky in who I ended up with. Not everyone gets as fortunate as me, but there isnāt a single part of my life that she doesnāt make better.
If long term is six months or longer, then not many. As of right now, Iām saying no to kids. If enough things change in the future, then my answer will change too.
So in general would you say you had mostly positive or negative experiences with these short term relationships?
I swear I am flip flopping every other day between loving my gal and wanting to strangle her to death. That being said we are still working towards a common goal.
Speaking only for myself, Mine were mainly negative. Mostly nagging feeling in the back of my head that Iāve now come to understand. For what little help itāll be, think of a Steve Urkel level of naive guy in a military uniform who just happens to have more luck than he should. If I had turned it elsewhere, Iād almost certainly be rich by now. Yes, I felt like that more than a few days. Also, do not marry your girl before you Join the military, and ESPECIALLY the Navy. Justā¦DONāT. I swear. If we could weaponize cheating bitches, the world would be FUCKED!!!
EDIT: Mine were mainly negative because of me failing shit tests left and right. If a man doesnāt know what a shit test is, Stop now and listen.
I take 49% of my wages home between the man and my 2 kids having a go at my pockets. Iām not mad though I know that at the end of the day these 18 years are about to be up when Iām 35~ and will be in my financial and dating prime.
I suppose to add context for the thread my first child I was a kid practically she came when I was 20 her mom was a slut I played her proper I just āthought I was doing the right thingā by settling down giving her a chance
My second kids mom lied about being on birth control so thatās how that one played out
long story short leave them alone at the first sign of trouble and glove up no matter what.
look at the good side. You managed to get it done and over with early in life. at 35, youāre still more than able to save up some cash and invest it properly, thereby making your own DLC cheat code for this game called life. :tup: Do not forget the lessons youāve already learned, for they will happen again if you let them.