Everyone’s coming out about John Nelson in light of what is (and isn’t) happening at Revelations 2012. I’ll say two stories and be done with it.
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The night of Triple Threat, everything went to crap, as it was documented. The money, the Gootecks quote, etc. And I’m sitting there in the bleachers thinking WTF is up with all of this. I’m about to leave with no footage (the now-defunct UFragTV at the time was doing the stream), just one interview (Justin) and pretty much nothing else. It was already a chaotic time within my own ranks, and now I’m watching a shitty tournament happen … again!
Everyone was saying that it was the worst-run tournament ever. For me, it was No. 2. About a year earlier, there was a tournament in San Diego run by a guy named Dane, and it could not have gone any worst. That is the benchmark (LOL) for terrible tournaments. Triple Threat wasn’t lower than the San Diego tournament because it actually had an ending. Nobody in the venue knew about the San Diego tournament and how terrible it was, so they couldn’t compare it like I could.
So … Gootecks says his thing, the final match is played, and the tournament ends, and I’m about to leave and go home. Someone invites me to a post-tournament dinner (which will forever be one of my 3 regrets of being in SoCal, I can explain that later) and I go there instead. Then I go home and write a post-tourney report.
Two days later, John calls me and talks about how he fucked up and he’s asking me to understand where he’s coming from. All I did was listen to see how much was BS and how much was truth. And part of me is going back to last year, when Dane was pulling the same crap on me in a two-days-later interview. The more I remembered what Dane did, the more I didn’t care about what John was telling me. It was just more “I messed up, forgive me.”
So in the end of the conversation, John asks me if I’m going to write a story telling his side of what happened and how he’s remorseful, etc. I told him I would think about it, and I hung up.
The moment I hung up, I knew I wasn’t going to write a story. I did it last year when Dane screwed up in San Diego, and that didn’t get anywhere, although the only good thing about it is that I was able to tell people how they could get their money back; I think only the doubles players got their money, and the 2-day delay probably helped Dane find a way to get some money just in case any Brawl player wanted money (pure speculation).
I was just tired of all the crap. I think … had I not dealt with Dane and seen that tournament, I would have written the story for John. But both events (save the Triple Threat having an ending) seemed so similar. I was upset at myself for going to that event. And considering the chaos within my own ranks, this was not a great time for me.
Later in the year, I get an IM asking me if I had talked to John, and obviously no. This is was so left field that I thought it was a joke. It was months later and no I wasn’t going to write a story about John and no I wasn’t going to call him to do something. If he wanted to get in touch with me, he had my number (as was the case when he called me two days after Triple Threat). John never called.
I was told by several people outside of my team (at the time) that John was very upset I didn’t write a story that told his side. So I don’t put it past him that he wanted to find a way to take me down. Oh good job, because if you did, it worked. Good job, John. You took advantage of a guy who was a terrible leader of people and caught him at his weakest.
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The worst day of my life happens (on the day of my 30th birthday), and about a week later, John gives me a call. He wanted to patch things up. I was like … ok it’s been several months, why not? So we had a talk and he was telling me about this guy who wanted to run a Madden tournament. I’m like … ok let’s get this done. At this point, I’m on the brink at my job in the OC, and more bad personal stuff is happening by the day. Maybe this would help me get through things.
So I’m back at HAX (which is like, I thought the guys did John wrong here, and we’re HERE for a “big meeting?”). There were about 10 people in the meeting, all executives of some sort. And we start proposing the idea of this Madden tournament and how it was going to work.
I didn’t leave the meeting with positive thoughts and I had no faith in the event actually coming to life.
I’m going to keep the details of the meeting to myself since it didn’t get off the ground, but let me say this … there are more people out there who think video game players are lemmings. There are MORE PEOPLE out there, who have jobs that make them feel like they own something, who think that they can attract plenty of kids to a tournament and get their money and run away without having to face the consequences. You know how you watch an action show on TV and there’s a boss only to realize there’s a boss of the boss, and then there’s more bosses? That’s what that Madden meeting felt like. That’s what hearing about Revelations this past weekend felt like. Guys and girls, there’s MORE PEOPLE out there. The John stuff, that’s sad in itself. We have to make sure stuff like this doesn’t happen again. We have to be proactive in stopping people who are schemers and manipulators.
I applaud those people who are prominent in the community who took a stand by not going to the event.
And the TL twitter said there’s two sides to every story. I’m not sure we’re going to ever hear the other side.
There, I said part of my peace. Now I’m going to go work on my DDR pad. Here, enjoy a video of Wayne Brady dancing - gootecks gets kicked out of SCR by john nelson