They need some “grown-up” hobbies. I shudder to think that their kids might grow up watching daddy hitting Chun-Li as Ryu. What does that teach the kid? That if you hit someone, you have to continue hitting them until their life is depleted? Sick, disgusting.
Everyday life very occasionally has violence as a result of poor decision making. it’s your job as a parent to prepare your kids for everything that life can throw at them.
Smacking a child isnt a last resort exactly, but it’s definitely not what I would ever open with. Much better to deprive the child of toys and attention, time outs naughty step etc before spanking their behinds. Open palm, fingers spread for maximum sting.
Smacking your kid won’t land them in jail or a lifetime of mediocrity. If the threat of being hit doesn’t succeed in preventing 99% of extra bad behaviour then hitting isn’t the solution and the parent needs to recognise that and find something that works.
Rcaido mentioned Asians being successful whilst still being beaten all the time quite brutally in some cases. Discipline is just one part of directing your child towards success, Asians install a fierce work ethic and their culture is very focused towards acquiring wealth.
Beat the shit out of them, its the way are grandparents were raised male or female and they were the last of the greatest generation, Now we breed baby man bitchs punkstyle, and its exceptable,
Some parents are too soft these days and kids are growing up and talking smack way too quickly these days. Honestly some kids needs to get a smack upside the head or spanked but I rather try to avoid that route but there are times that it needs to happen TBH. You also don’t want to get rolled over by you child and they turned out to be spoiled shitheads with no respect for others later down the line as well.
Also this thread reminds me of this video.
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That pretty much sums it all up. its not uncommon to see them at any store or eatery acting like this, the best is mexicans letting there 70 kids run around a restaurants screaming like it a playground and act like its normal
Yes, oh fucking lord yes. Have you seen those disrespectful little shits that can not, and will not listen no matter how much you tell them? Kids don’t just get it all the time. It’s random as hell and some kids need a good ass whooping.
My dad beat me when I was being a little brat and I feel like a better man because of it. No offense but you have no right to tell someone how to raise their child.
Only thing I read from that post is “spit in my face and left” sorry but I would’ve had to beat his ass down in front of his kid that’s just so disrespectful man. But yes it is ok to hit your kids as long as you’re explaining to them why they’re being beaten, you should only beat your kids when there’s a lesson to be learned from it if they step out of line smack their ass down. “Spare the rod spoild the child” is very true…
If they’re being massively disrespectful to you/others, completely out of line, then yeah, a slap or two is definitely necessary. I often wish more people had been brought up with the fear of a good slap in them.
As many threads on SRK in the past, this thread has taken the absolutely amazing opening page followed by pointless pages of flaming. The natural cycle has taken place.
Being the oldest of 2 in my family, I was beaten multiple of times by both my mother and father and I came out alright.
My younger brother is 12 turning 13 and he’s turning out to be an ignorant little shit, and that’s coming from his older brother. I always think because my mum and dad are afraid of actually beating him senseless. Its sad to say that I actually broke away from my family because of it and since my brother will later become an ignorant fuck and once that happens I will feel sorry when he gets into a shit-ton of trouble because of his ignorance.
What’s funny is that you and others don’t realize smacking a kid significantly increases the likelihood of such behavior. I’ve posted several research studies proving it. Hitting kids just stops the behavior immediately but increases aggressive behavior in the long run (along with many other negative outcomes).