Ok, so I was walking the other day and I saw this guy slap his kid for being a kid. I told the guy “don’t do that man” and then he started cursing at me, and I’m like “your kid is right there” and then he spits on my face and just leaves.
What are your thoughts on hitting your kids for discipline? cool or not cool?
Should I have done something to that mofo who spat on my face?
there are more effective means:
confiscate the mobile phone, take console or portable away, dont give pocket money etc.
except if the kid is strong enough to beat you.
Hey, Heihachi Mishima threw his own son down a mountain. Why? Because he was too weak. Then Kazuya came back and beat him down and took over the Mishima Zaibatsu. Tough love son.
Eh…I was raised under threat of a good slap. My sister did not. I have a degree and my sister is a kind of a jackass.
Sometimes your kid needs to know that you’ll slap the shit out of him/her if he/she steps out of line; this works for me because there is a lot of shame associated with getting slapped in the way I was raised. Beating your kids is not okay though; problem is too man parents don’t know the difference between a good slap and beating your child. Its whatever though you can raise your children more than fine without any type of corporal punishment.
OP was out of line trying to tell the father how to do his job. it sucks if he was beating the kid for no good reason but unless you see blood it’s none of your business
theres an old chinese saying that i believe “if you don’t beat ur kids, they won’t turn out right”
sounds like a typical single mother. most women suck at raising kids so i doubt child services could do much
I rarely listened to my my step father so whenever he caught me playing with matches or something, he’d beat the crap out of me (when there were witnesses the beating were amped up, like the time he put an injured crow down my pants) that taught me I had to watch my mouth or make sure I could escape quickly if I was going to be caught out on one of my lies. children respond to physical touch immediately unlike some praise/reward scheme you would try to use…on the children u never plan on having…
Simple fact: Sometimes tough love is best love. Groundings, spankings, soap in mouth, wrist/forearm slapping, stuff like that.
But that’s being TOUGH love, not abuse. I’ve seen a lady literally YANK up by the arm 3-4 year old who was just looking at our toys. He simply wasn’t able to make up his mind on what to get (please note he might’ve been looking at our toys for maybe 2 minutes at most), and the whole store heard her say to him 'I’m not spending my whole fucking night here." She then pulls him by the same arm to the counter, then out the door after buying her cigarrettes. Afterwards I scanned through the phone book for child services.
Im surprise the guy didn’t whoop your nosy ass OP. I’m surprise you didn’t do shit after he spat on you. Kid will turn out to be a punk ass bitch because of you two bitch asses.