Is hitting your kids ok?

Ok, so I was walking the other day and I saw this guy slap his kid for being a kid. I told the guy “don’t do that man” and then he started cursing at me, and I’m like “your kid is right there” and then he spits on my face and just leaves.

What are your thoughts on hitting your kids for discipline? cool or not cool?

Should I have done something to that mofo who spat on my face?

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i would have used my belt to kick your ass for trying to tell me how to punish my kids, tbh

Wait…

He spit on your face… and you just let him leave without beating his ass? That is a once in a lifetime chance you missed.

I would never hit my kids.

I’d slap the shit out of yours, though. Little fuckers.

You better have kicked his ass in front of his kid for spitting on your face

there are more effective means:
confiscate the mobile phone, take console or portable away, dont give pocket money etc.
except if the kid is strong enough to beat you.

that is why so many teenagers do stupid stuff in the usa
the parents are to pussy to hit them, no wonder you see a lot of fucked stuff these days

That is all

Proof?

Yes sometimes kids need to be hit.

I used to get hit all the time, I turned out ok.

On the other hand my friend was raised without consequences for shit and he has scurvy right now… yes scurvy that shit pirates get.

Bottom line if you love your kids you will hit them, that way they don’t end up with scurvy.

Yes.

hitting kids is ok
swearing in front of them is not

but in any case you probably should’ve minded your own goddamn business

Hey, Heihachi Mishima threw his own son down a mountain. Why? Because he was too weak. Then Kazuya came back and beat him down and took over the Mishima Zaibatsu. Tough love son.

Eh…I was raised under threat of a good slap. My sister did not. I have a degree and my sister is a kind of a jackass.

Sometimes your kid needs to know that you’ll slap the shit out of him/her if he/she steps out of line; this works for me because there is a lot of shame associated with getting slapped in the way I was raised. Beating your kids is not okay though; problem is too man parents don’t know the difference between a good slap and beating your child. Its whatever though you can raise your children more than fine without any type of corporal punishment.

hitting black kids is ok

OP was out of line trying to tell the father how to do his job. it sucks if he was beating the kid for no good reason but unless you see blood it’s none of your business

theres an old chinese saying that i believe “if you don’t beat ur kids, they won’t turn out right”

sounds like a typical single mother. most women suck at raising kids so i doubt child services could do much

I rarely listened to my my step father so whenever he caught me playing with matches or something, he’d beat the crap out of me (when there were witnesses the beating were amped up, like the time he put an injured crow down my pants) that taught me I had to watch my mouth or make sure I could escape quickly if I was going to be caught out on one of my lies. children respond to physical touch immediately unlike some praise/reward scheme you would try to use…on the children u never plan on having…

what are u, dickless?

Simple fact: Sometimes tough love is best love. Groundings, spankings, soap in mouth, wrist/forearm slapping, stuff like that.

But that’s being TOUGH love, not abuse. I’ve seen a lady literally YANK up by the arm 3-4 year old who was just looking at our toys. He simply wasn’t able to make up his mind on what to get (please note he might’ve been looking at our toys for maybe 2 minutes at most), and the whole store heard her say to him 'I’m not spending my whole fucking night here." She then pulls him by the same arm to the counter, then out the door after buying her cigarrettes. Afterwards I scanned through the phone book for child services.

Yeah! If we don’t hit our kids they’ll think it’s okay to do terrible stuff like make their forum signatures rape jokes!

Im surprise the guy didn’t whoop your nosy ass OP. I’m surprise you didn’t do shit after he spat on you. Kid will turn out to be a punk ass bitch because of you two bitch asses.