Eh, that wasnt really interesting or insightful at all. As soon as he started off calling himself cisgender, to which i dont even know what the fuck that is, so i googled it, and i still dont know what the fuck that is, I already knew i was in for a heavy dose of feminism and liberal tears. So his overall point was men needed to listen and stfu, and let women generalize us via twitter, many of tweets which are stupid as fuck. Because why again? I dont even understand the title of the hash tag anyways, because no, not all women tolerate sexism or misogyny, nor do they go through an outlandish amount of discrimination more then the many variations of males out here, but no one gives a fuck what a skinny white male goes through with bullying, name calling, discrimination, etc… because hes a guy, he should just work out, get over it, and get with the ball game, while women as they fight for equal rights, dont see themselves equal to men, and prefer to be catered to.
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Maybe im just insensitive to it as a black man in america. A lot of these tweets under that hashtag are fucking entitled nonsense, or facts gone wrong, aka, not facts at all, and a whole lot of fear mongering through victimizing themselves. Starting a hashtag like that after this incident in santa barbara is not only selfish, but it does nothing for feminism at all imo. 6 fucking people died in santa barabara a few days ago, 13 injured, and instead of a hashtag for the victims, or a hashtag for gun policy, prayer, etc… WE ARE ARGUING OVER A FUCKING HASHTAG ABOUT WHAT WOMEN GO THROUGH BECAUSE OF MEN. lol. Completely even ignoring the 3 FUCKING MEN THAT HE MURDERED IN HIS APARTMENT FIRST BY STABBING THEM TO DEATH, AND ANOTHER 1 HE SHOT TO DEATH. He actually killed more men then women.
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So someone says, but jimmy1200 this isnt about blaming all men, its just a hashtag movement for women to vent their frustrations and experiences with the bad guys out there who have belittled or dehumanized them before. To that i say, then why the fuck are 90 percent of the tweets saying “men”. If your male professor (looking at a tweet right now) asked you for sex as you turned in your final exam, you needed to report him. WHY THE FUCK DID YOU JUST WALK AWAY? So you could years later tell your story about your creepy professor who dehumanized you, and then be like, “god, men are so gross”. NOOOO, NOOOOO, he is gross, and HE needed to be reprimanded, but YOU didnt do shit about it. Now you are here to complain under a hashtag guised as some type of online feminist movement, when in actuality its borderline hate speech.
If a cop sexually harasses you when he pulls you over, then report him, dont hold that shit, and then internalize that shit to the point you start blaming all men. I know some women fear retribution from men who they report for their actions, or confront for their stupidity, but better men and women then many of these twitter complainers have survived more then losing a job, or having a guy curse you out in public and call you a whore for rejecting him, for standing up for what was right. If you want change, then stop walking away when confronted with sexism and misogyny like a coward, only to cry about it on twitter. You get fired for stepping to your boss about complimenting you every time you come to work, as if he has never seen a woman before, then there is a nice free lawsuit, and good for you, because put your integrity first.
I just dont see anything positive from this hashtag movement at all. Like some of these are really fucking stupid. #Yessallwomen because women fear getting raped walking alone at night more then men (this is one im looking at right now). WTF!? Quite frankly, you should. DURRRR. If you are 120 pounds at 5’5, you obviously need to be more cautious then a 5’10 170 pound male, and news flash, THE WORLD WILL NEVER CATER TO ANYONE NOT BEING WORRIED ABOUT RAPE. Sorry, the numbers are stacked against all of us when it comes to dealing with rapist. But you know how you deal with avoiding getting raped, you time what you do properly, you dont take certain roads where there is no one around in case you get attacked, travel in at least groups of two, dont take drinks from strangers, dont leave your drink unattended, WALK WITH QUICK ACCESS TO YOUR MACE, dont walk around at fucking night with your headphones on, dont walk around at night blabbing on your fucking cellphone. The list goes on. If you follow really basic rules of safety, you can likely avoid being the victim of that tiny percentage of men out there preying on women.
So when i see shit in this yesallwomen about shit like that, im like what does it do for the conversation. No shit youre scared of rape, the average male can easily over power you. NOW WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT THAT? Are you just going to sit around waiting for the rapist to disappear and you can walk freely anywhere you want without fear of getting raped, while going online to victimize yourself every chance you get, or are you going to find ways to better protect yourself from those predators, and share that information with your fellow people. Notice i said people, not just women, because equality is all about well, sharing things equally, and the small things help along that path.
A lot of these women on twitter are acting like every man wants to see them fail, or get raped. Then when that is brought to their attention, they reply back, “we know its not all men. way to miss the point”. Then why the fuck are you saying “men” in all your tweets, when you know for a fact this is a small portion of the male population that are “out to get you”, one way or another. Your average guy is not looking to offer sex to his students when they turn in their final exams, the average guy doesnt pull you over for speeding and say you can get out of it by showing your tits, the average guy doesnt want to fucking rape you, the average guy doesnt give a shit if you get a well deserved promotion over him.
Ugh, i just dont like this hashtag movement shit at all, and all these women gather together pretending as if they have no role in any social, and gender problems in america at all. Its just us men ruining shit, while they cower in the corner of an elevator hoping they dont get raped on the way up to their apartment. [/details]
I just loathe when people see a problem, and complain rather then work on fixing it. For women on this rape stuff, its an understandable fear, but what are you going to do about it. Are you going to hit the weights at the gym to build some muscle, and stop just always doing cardio? Are you going to take better precautions and get yourself some mace? Are you going to take some self defense classes and learn how to fight? Are you going to do anything about anything, or just cower in fear all the time and wait for the world to cater to you.