Bars/Clubs

If you guys need confidence boost dancing w/ girls, I highly suggest you get intoxicated to the point where you just don’t care if you get rejected or not and hope the club plays your jam where you know the beat really well to dance with so that YOU are comfortable with. Remember guys, its all about CONFIDENCE and alcohol can help bring the inner beast out of you :cool:

Posting from a club right now. Yeah it’s weak right now. :frowning:

alcohol is liquid confidence. Sure, get wasted and dance, but 9/10 you ain’t dancing as hot as you think you are. Lol.

Well it’s 11:38 brah… you know brah nobody be really at the clubs brah until 12+ but i guess 11 can do it… depends on the day imo… i don’t have mad experience but i will soon enough…

Wish i could dance heh but i know the club songs n what not.

Blah… I never went to a club in atl because I heard horror stories. Teens from Clayco lighting other niggas up at the stop light for fun. Yeah, that was years ago when I was in high school though.

I prefer bars/lounges to clubs nowadays. I just don’t like places that are that crowded.

As for picking up girls in clubs, shit is easy if you got your game tight. I think it’s actually harder to be a good wingman - it’s like Marvel, baby… you got a lot of characters that aren’t too bad on point, but you are far more limited with good assists. If you get a girl for your homeboy and you get snapped out, he has a large chance of fucking that shit up if you aren’t around, since that dude needed a wingman in the first place.

haha word. i think wingman’ing only entails hopping on grenades and entertaining a chick’s friends. approaching a chick and then trying to cut & paste your homeboy in for you is pretty difficult (imo) unless the chick in question has friends that you can “naturally” turn your attention towards.

What used to work for me: I (or my friend, or whoever has the biggest house to themselves) setup a BARBECUE party. Not on the 4th of July but some other time in the Spring/Summer. Then step to any chick at the club, dance or talk, then just throw out you’re having a BBQ party next weekend. And tell them to get their friends to come. On to the next chick, repeat. Some might not call you back, some won’t invite their friends over. Either way, free BBQ in a big house is a hard deal to pass up, and it neutralizes a sausage party disaster.

I actually had my first club experience this past Sunday. I was surprised at how much fun I had. I honestly didn’t think I would like it. I have a hookup so I got in for free, so it wasn’t bad at all.
Only thing is I can’t dance (I’m white and have little to no rhythm, shutup lol ). But my friend is teaching me so it’s all good.

damn i just came from a club, everything was fucking off the hook until 2. I got free dances from 2 chicks both black omg i love that place. Such a small world i new them both and got there numbers omg ima open the gates of heaven upon dem hoes. So fucking good, dry humping in front of 100’s is soooo fucking hot.

“free dances”? were you at a strip club? i mean, nobody pays random broads to dance in a club.

naw dawg i was at a bar, not a strip bar. Shit was for free, so free i knew the bitches by coincidence then proceeded to get their numbers. But thats just it i didnt pay for shit expect the drinks i had hahaa. Shit at a strip cluib i woulda had to pay 90 bucks to fuck the chick and then get her number lolz. Crown and coke owns + a margarita (go ahead and hate) and some long island iced teas.

Btw i cant dance for shit, but my secret is to get as fucked up as possible then proceed to the dance floor, fuck if u dont know anything just free ball it and i guarantee youll get a bitch to grind u.

Lol was about to ask the same thing.

For those that can’t dance? Learn a two step and put that shit on repeat.

Theres nothing to dancing, just feel the beat and move your body da fuck is there to learn? Unless u wanna do some hollywood shit and corrigraph that shit then i dunno, but if u wanna get laid and not try i suggest getting a lil drunk and then proceeding to the floor.

Clubs around here start at 10 and some hit max capacity before 12.

Don’t like clubs much, love bars though.

Alright so tell me what are the wingmen(s) Dos and Don’ts?

Nobody can really “Dance” at a club but if your at a club where they play club songs learn the dances… swag surfin,soulja boy, lean with it… etc stanky legg lmao…

i loved clubs till i met my wife. now its why bother.

but yeah, i feel sorry for people that cant pick up at clubs.

first protip is DONT get drunk, rookie mistake.
second tip is have confidence. (yeah i know, obvious but its amazing how many guys fuck up by being shy)
3rd protip is DO NOT stare at a girl if you are planning on talking to her… lol. actually dont stare at all as a matter of fact. be in your own world of awesomeness and watch as chicks look at you with your PERIPHERAL vision… when you see a girl checking you out, make eye contact and engage, dont hesitate or you’ve already lost. and its always a numbers game so keep that in mind, rejection is apart of it, thick skin is required.
if you’ve got some homegirls as someone else mentioned BRING them, absolutley easy to pick up if you’ve got some hot or even ok female friends.
always be talking to people, dont ever be caught looking bored unless your talking to a girl, if you’re talking to guys try to seem as if you are directing the conversation and making everyone laugh or just listen.

once you get good at those things without looking ike you are trying, pussy comes to you.

but it takes alot of practice to get there if you just suck.

-dime