3+4 are good. 1+2 are just plain stupid. If you’ve ever even set foot in a club before 10:30 you will find yourself in an empty room. Unless, of course, you’re in an all-ages shithole. As for women not talking to you if you’re not holding something that is made of glass and contains liquid… well, that’s dumbassery on a whole new level.
Or…just go to thailand. No tips needed. You can have the least amount of game in the world and broads will still be all over you…and if they aren’t, well just pay one of them. best thing about it…the most the whole night is going to cost you is 40 bucks. unless you pay a girl…then maybe 60. once you party here you realize what a lame scene everywhere else is.
I recently started hitting up the clubs. It’s kinda rough with my schedule though with work but I go out once or twice a week at least now. It’s fun to just go out, have some drinks and let loose. I’m making more and more of an effort to get out of my comfort zones and explore. It’s pretty awesome going out, dancing, drinking and coming home to pass out.
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last year i hit madddd clubs and kinda played that shit out. This year I’m a bit toned down, they wear out fast.
I have never been to a club but I usually hangout in the local biker bars, like the one at the start of Terminator 2.
Sometimes for a more relaxing and friendly time, I go to a local pub that reminds me of Cheers, but it isnt in the basement sadly.
There are two main reasons why you would want to go to a club or a bar: To kick it with the homies or to pick up on chicks. Either way, you want to have fun. Of course, you might concentrate on one and the other will be a bonus. I’m in L…A., so there are a bunch of places to hit up. Crowds are important here because you can find down to Earth people at one spot and you will find the phonies who are caught up with the Hollywood image at another.
Drinks are expensive and it’s terrible for someone like myself who needs a bunch of drinks to catch a buzz, so I get some drinks at the homie’s pad or parking lot drinking and I’ll buy a drink inside if I need a little more, so spending $12 is better than spending $80. If you don’t want to hangout with a bunch of teenagers, then don’t go to 18 and over clubs. 21 and over clubs are better, but if you’re part of a mature/older crowd, bars are the best because you can actually have conversations at bars/lounges.
If you want to dance with a partner, Hip Hop/Top 40 clubs are really good. Either take someone you know or go out there and try to find someone on the dance floor. If you just want to dance by yourself, you can go to those places, too, but Electro clubs are ideal for that. I realized that you can dance however you want and you can be solo at an Electro club because everyone is just going wild and nobody cares. When it comes to Hip Hop clubs, you could do dance by yourself, too, but more like moving to the beat and calm, and you better be at a corner or holding up the wall.
The bar scene is better if you’re actually trying to talk to someone because it isn’t as loud as a club. If you’re trying to pick up on somebody there, you can do it with your rhetoric. At a club, it’s mainly superficial. Chicks dance with you not because of what you say to them, but because they like the way you look. You can still win someone over by talking to them, but it’s mainly all about looks at a club.
Not all clubs are the same, so move around and see which one best suits your needs. My friends and I have some spots where we like going to just chill and we have other spots where we like to pick up. If you don’t like paying a cover, get on the guest list if there is one. We’re in a recession, so having fun and saving money at the same time is probably the best way to go… unless you’re balling and you just don’t care. Kudos to you. I read the thread topic and what you guys wrote and I just felt I had to say what I just wrote. Whether you agree or not, it’s all good, but this is what I know. Peace.
I was about to write almost the same thing you did JC.
Clubs consists of drinking,dancing,and degenerates. Not interested in the slightest.
That’s pretty damn sad man. When you’re at some corner or against the wall it means you’re bored as hell. It’s funny how you say you can pick up chicks in a club. Please tell me how to do that when you can’t even fucking talk over the music.
Hey do you want to dance?
My name is…
- The End
missin out
you’re not suppose to be sober.
I heard they got them child prostitutes also.
salty
LOL whaaaat?? wow…
Seriously…srk is hopeless.
- huh?Goin to the club at 9-10 pm?? Where im from clubs don’t even open doors until like 11pm.
- Pregaming is obvious
- Friends im on the fence…it doesnt hurt…makes it more fun but I go solo sometimes.
- Yea im never bringing a broad to the club with me that isn’t a sister or one of my girls gfs.
My nigga.
Ummm have you ever tried closing in and talking into their ear?? Seriously it isnt hard at all.
Srk is full with over analyzing introverts which is why most of these guys hate or fail at the club.
Edit: And for the dude complaining about 7$ drinks…you have no idea how lucky you are. I would love 7$ drinks lol.
That’s because you and I know how the scene really is. 
If you’re holding up the wall and dancing by yourself, it obviously means you didn’t find somebody to dance with. And, yes, that is sad if you want to dance with somebody and you can’t find anyone. I said you CAN dance by yourself, but that’s if you didn’t pick up and you just don’t care because you just want to dance because you’re buzzing and you just want to make the most of a shitty night.
How to pick up chicks at a club: Here are some ways how it’s done. Choose the one that best suits you. 
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Look at them straight in the eye from a distance. Through facial expressions, let them know you’re interested. You know, with smiles, seducing them with your eyes, and all that good stuff. If you get a positive response, you go up to them and ask them to dance.
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You could do what a bunch of people do over here. When they’re on the dance floor with another female friend, take a wing man with you and dance over to their direction. When you get to them, get behind one girl and have your friend get behind the other and start dancing with them. Again, this is a superficial place, so what’s going to happen is that they’re going to turn around and see if they like you or not. If they do, they’re going to allow you to dance with them. If not, they’re going to brush you off and say no. It’s messed up when one of the girls wants to dance, but the other one doesn’t. That’s a loss sometimes because the one who doesn’t want to dance will pull the one that does. Mother hen shit.
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You can always talk to somebody at the patio or a section of the club where there isn’t a lot of noise. That part of club gives it more of a bar feel, so you can actually try to have a conversation there. If everything works out, you could ask her to dance and she’ll go with you to the dance floor. This is good because she now knows things about you now and you’re not a complete stranger. Whenever she or you gets tired, or when the club closes, you can continue having a conversation, get the number, and you know you did well.
It sounds stupid to you that people can pick up at a club when they can’t even talk to each other, right? Well, welcome to the club life. It happens a lot. There are girls who hook up with guys at a club because they like the way they look. They don’t know anything about them, then the guy comes with his game, they hook up, and then the girl will see if this guy is really a cool dude or a player. You could be the coolest guy in the world, but without either good looks or game, you won’t be able to pick up. In the club scene, the former is the most important.
Oh, yeah. If you’re not interested in these type of women who have this type of mentality, then don’t go to the club. Plain and simple. I’m not saying every girl in the club is superficial, but the ones who care more about looks aren’t at the club to pick up, but to dance with their friends. Those are sometimes hard to get because, again, of the mother hen. The mother hen is the one who doesn’t let her girls get picked up by guys because she feels those guys have bad intentions. Best way to get around that is to have your crew and have each guy take each girl in her crew. Like that, no girl is left behind.
Eeeeh I’ll stick with bars. The Music tends to be more my thing and I honestly hate having to follow rules of etiquette and dress codes. The weird part is in the past I’d always hooked up with more girls from clubs than bars, but eventually I just stopped caring about that and wanted to be somewhere I didn’t feel like, required a checklist.
i keep thinking this thread is titled Bears/Cubs
The one thing my friends and I do before entering a club or bar is pre-drink. We all pitch in for some hard liquor and then drink in the parking lot. It’s ghetto as hell, but it saves a ton of money, and makes waiting in lines less excruciating (well, until you have to go to the bathroom).
It really depends on who I go with. Going to clubs with some people is a complete waste of time; when they don’t want to speak to any of the women at the club ‘‘She’s not my type’’ ‘‘I’m trying to get with X’’ etc. When they just want to sit down the whole night.
If I’m with people who don’t take themselves too seriously then it’s cool.
Pubs - something I can get with. Clubs are cool and all, but seeing 20 and up girls is like watching Jersey Shore to me now. Pubs just feel more relaxed and less pressured to do absolutely everything. If I want to chill, I can actually chill without someone hording me to buy the Don Perrion that I probably can’t afford or the test-tube crap that the bartender perceives to be a hit. A pub/bar doesn’t force its’ value system on me, but rather, allows me to kick back to a good beat, conversation, the Raps getting raped on ESPN - whatever. And I don’t need to check for fake ids
Clubs are good for birthdays and such, but mostly girls go doing this. Engagements tooo for some jackassed reason.
lol @ not being able to scoop a chick at a club. most broads are scooped from the club with minimal conversation.
- you dance with a chick if she’s like you usually that will progress to
- grinding for a song or 2
- break for drinks and kick it for a bit
- back to the dance floor
- get/give/recognize the look…
(insert small amt of making out here if you feel so inclined) - back to the crib
this works at parties as well, if you can’t get this shit to work then either you’re RIDICULOUSLY hideous or crazy awkward, most likely the latter bcuz i know way too many beyond busted ngigas that scoop pussy like they invented the shit, don draper style.
… girl strats?! Got FADC Wingman fake?