Wow lol. Ok, I have a question. What is it about females that gay men do not find attractive? Girly bits are the real deal in my straight opinion. The female body is beautiful in my mind. The male body…athleticaly I can appreciate it, no doubt. Sexually…just don’t see it bro.
hmmm…
It can be a lot of things really, I don’t think it just stems from gay men thinking women are ugly, that’s far from the case (or else why would we love to have them around all the time?). For me, I realized that I was attracted to women and men at a young age (as stated in my previous post). But as growing up I was attracted to women up until I actually lost my virginity to my fuck buddy. And I noticed that it was A LOT easier to get into a guys pants than it was to get in a girls pants. But to answer your question, I don’t find breats attractive at all, but I love a nice ass on a woman. Elias has been quoted to saying “Titties are fresh” but I don’t think he’s down for the vaj. It’s not that I don’t find woman attractive, I just find it easier to get what I want when I pursue men. I guess that makes me 85% gay?
now any 100 percent gay men who get pissed when you mention you are slightly attracted to females?
Let em get mad. Chances are they are along the lines of the flamboyant type, which doesn’t fit my fancy at all.
Keep the questions coming! Sorry that this hasn’t really turned out to be a funny thread like the white thread…
I suspected you were gay from the day I met you. Before you “came out” on SRK did you have a lot of people that said you were gay already? I don’t think most of us were all that surprised.
Also you say “gay” but when you came out you said something about still liking girls, but since then I have never heard you post anything about girls, only guys. Is this because you are finally comfortable talking about guys so it drowns out your attraction to women, or was acting bisexual easier to admit than being fullblown gay, or something, what’s the deal?
It must be HELLA hard growing up gay, just because all kids do is accuse each other of being gay as a putdown. I feel very lucky to not be gay, shit was hard enough growing up mixed and being hated on by every single race for not being the right one.
You mean “putting in work” INSIDE OF A GUY? That you asked this question qualifies you as gay in my book, but this isn’t my thread. And you have said some suspect ass shit to me before while drunk too. Just go ahead and come out, dawg. 
Haaaate tinydogs. :lol: Edmonds is like the tinydog capital of the world or something. Can’t even handle how many yappy tinydogs there are. If you have like a tiny scottish terrier or some chill dog that’s cool but man, the noises tinydogs make are the worst. The worst. I am also a cat person. On the subject of small dogs my friend has a corgi and it’s pretty fuckin’ adorable. Sort of a tinydog.
In a world where everyone assumes everyone is heterosexual, it’s pretty hard to figure it out for a lot of people. I became cultured into expecting to be heterosexual and quite confused growing up. My predicaments were due to factors other than being gay as well, though, but I didn’t quite have myself figured out 'til I was a teenager. Well, on the word choice, I had figured it out earlier but I hadn’t accepted it or admitted it to myself.
This is really a case-by-case thing, for either sexuality. I think my tastes are weird so I’ll change the subject.
Sexual tension has to be a 2 way thing for me. They have to give it away with the eye contact that they think I’m attractive before anything like that can happen.
My roommate is a hot lesbian and man, you would not believe how many guys still try. I’m glad girls don’t pursue me like that. 
I’ve been in the habit of saying them like when I was in middle school and it’s said so much that you adopt the language… so I understand it just being a habit. To be honest, all of it bothers me. Not in that I hear someone say it and I am offended by said person, it just makes me sad that that’s our go-to derogatory slang. We could be so much more creative. So when I hear people resort to gay/[cig]/[cigarette], it’s offensive because they are so much more capable of words that are more fitting and imaginative. Vocabulary is awesome, expand yours. 
Well, actually, if you drop the whole word [cigarette], there will be issues. Even just [cig] kinda makes my eye twitch. Come up with something better.
There’s always the Kinsey scale, where you’d be a 5 or a 4 or in between. I consider myself a 6. I can still recognize a beautiful woman (though I have my own tastes) but not a woman with sex appeal. I think good-looking Mediterranean women are really beautiful. If I had to pick a celebrity, Famke Jannsen. She’s a stone fox.
There’s xenophobia going all directions in the gay community. There’s gay’s that don’t respect bisexuals, or even gays of other body types (heard of terms like bears or twinks? )… Ageists, racists, you name it. I’m recently discovering just how clique-oriented (in the bad, dramatic way) the gay scene is. Perhaps why I exploded on this one for acting like that. :lol: I went to a new year’s eve celebration with these like… established, middle aged and older effeminate gay guys. At first I was greatly amused as sat around eating treats and drinking wine and crossing our legs but then I realized everyone was just pretentiously talking shit about other gays, basically. Like man we have enough drama to deal with as homosexuals can we stop introducing new shit in the form of selective cliquess? Queens, man.
Oh, and on the lisp/acting effeminate thing, I have recently understood the behavior behind the adopted lisp/girliness. Kinda like Frank’s example where it’s just to get it out there so you don’t have to deal with being under the assumption of heterosexuality. It just gets old where if you don’t act like a queen everyone assumes you’re straight. Heteros don’t have to come out, why should I? I mostly keep it to myself until it’s relevant. But lately, I’ve actually kinda wished I had it in me to act like a flamer because I’d like to just get it out of the way. Maybe I can get some fabulous accessories. I’ll have to think about this.
This is how the gay thread in GD started! You would not believe how many posts consisted of nothing but “yall niggas is gay.” I bet they all thought they were clever. Anyway I didn’t even mean to reply to this many things, but there’s some input. :lol:
fae has a question!!! for bi guys. what is your reaction to seeing a man that you are attracted to making out with a girl you were attracted to (IE alicia keys and the guy from dragon age for frank)? would you be jealous, turned on or turned off towards either one or both?
i answered that a guy will still jack off to porn with a hot girl even if he has to see ball slappin and the odd angles from under. they arent gay even if they look at that, cuz theyre just turned on by the girl. so im guessing that a bi guy would be turned on doubly???
That is a hella good question and I would be interested in the answer…but I would think it would depend on the gay guy.
Me I am not interested in lesbianism, even if the two girls on their own are attractive, cus it’s just boring to me.
Not that many. I want to say Mandel didn’t see it coming. Randomly enough he was the hardest person for me to come out too.
As Elias said there’s that Kinsey scale that shows how gay you are. I would say that in general I’m more attracted to men than women, but there are some women that as I joking say “put the cease fire on the dick.” (Like Jean Grey, Utada, Amerie etc.), then there are the “Peace Bringers” where I’d probably give up dick for life if I were able to be with them (Alicia Keys, Gabriel Union, my old coworker down in Tacoma etc. etc.)
It’s only as hard as you make it out to be imo. And honestly the worst times for me was when I would really deny who I was (Cliche I know). When I came out to my mom she probably gave me the most surprised response out of anyone when I finally told them. She said “Frankie, that makes me very happy, because that means that you are truly comfortable and happy with yourself.” That shit still blows my mind.
Heeeeeeey Ms. Fae! To answer your question, If I were to see a guy that I’m attracted to and he’s making out with a girl that I’m also attracted to, the first thing that would come to mind would be being in a threesome. So yes I would be turned on. If I knew there was no chance in hell between both people, only then would I be pissed off. The idea of a threesome (MFM or MMM) is pretty fucking raw, and is something that I’d like to try out.
Just wait, you’ll end up with a poodle, like Dan Savage. 
We could go back to saying that things are ‘white?’
Glad to hear you say this, though. I’m always happy to jump on the ‘think b4 u speak’ bandwagon.
YESSS. There is nothing to think about! Let’s get some fabulous accessories.
Do gay guys pick males or females in MMORPG’s? (Everquest, World of Warcraft, Final Fantasy 11)
Well, I had a female undead mage, a male blood elf paladin, a male tauren druid, and a female undead warrior(only one character got to 80…no on else got past 40…I know hella weak) I don’t think being gay or not really determines whether you pick guys or girl on an mmorpg. And to be honest I see/hear more about straight guys trying to act like girls on the internet than gay men…
I think a lot of that is the idea that if you’re going to be staring at your character’s butt for 300 hours… well, if it’s a butt you find attractive, that can help.
There’s some tension between the idea of choosing a character that represents you as a player, and choosing one that represents what you like [in others].
Also, after making a female character in PS0, let me say that all the things people say about female characters receiving preferable treatment? It’s true. It’s preferential treatment from douchebag assholes, but still. Free items, woot?
I had both male and female characters.
Does my avatar seem gay to you? Reason i ask is i get a lot of “Dick pics please” through pm…
Speaking of attracting gay guys, hence my nickname baklakiller, im like a gaymagnet…Just curious why gay guys are always attracted to me, could it be that im showing gay traits…I mean how do you know someone is gay before you approach them…
This I can attest to. If Elias did not openly [admit to being/let people know he was] gay, I would honestly think he was straight.
I try not to think of gayness as certain traits or anything but there isn’t anything exclusively “Gay” about Elias to me other than his sexual preference.
But honestly, do you guys want to be treated as “Gay Guys” or as “Guys who happen to be Gay?” I somewhat feel like having gay people seperated into a different catagory like that is kinda offensive, but most people wouldn’t really be doing that to offend in the first place. I’m comfortable discussing just about any topic though, and I can understand why some dudes wouldn’t want to talk about “girly stuff” or whatever but I agree with the whole concept of “People are just People” and everyone should be left to decide what they like or don’t like. Accepting or Disliking certain things because they’re predominantly looked at as feminine or masculine just feels like ignorance, yet with a good reason behind it. Obviously you don’t want to give off signals that you’re something you’re not, but there are plenty of things I feel that straight guys could at least discuss (like say, fashion) without resorting to negativity (thinking yourself/someone else is gay or w/e). I think possibly it has to do with many people not attempting to figure out their sexuality. Many people are raised and taught certain things and feel like they don’t want to go against those teachings, or possibly many people are scared they’re really something that they’re not. Fear is often the motivator for contempt, and people should realize that and work against it. Seeking to understand is a more noble cause. It’s ultimately up to the individual on a per case basis but I hope one day we have more people comfortable with all facets of life.
I think that would depend on whether one ‘choice’ gets treated differently than the other. I like to say that I’m a guy who likes guys; to me it’s just a preference. Someone might like vanilla ice cream and hate chocolate and another might like chocolate and hate vanilla. Is there really a need to bring it up all the time? Not really, unless you work at ColdStone or something. Hah
I like being one of the guys. I don’t want people to treat me differently just because they found out I like guys. <-- THAT offends me. I don’t like special treatment for something that I don’t think is particularly special; it draws attention to the fact and it’s like why is it such a big deal? You (whoever) are straight; do I need to point it out to you? Haha, but with that aside, I really don’t mind if people ask serious, silly, random ass questions (like this thread) about gayness or my gayness or whatever. I actually think it’s kinda fun.
Francis I didn’t know you were gay! Did everyone else but me know? Weird, you are hella good at SFIV so that reinforces your signature.
Props to the LGBQT community cus you guys rock.
Seriously this thread is cool and I see a lot of dumb ass shit in here (NW section of SRK) .
I don’t have a question at the moment but give me a day and I will think of something.