I love how we compare grown women to children.
Not that there is any difference lol, sexism!!!
Fuck this guy.
Sure its not so bad, she probably just has a few red marks on her ass, she’s fine, there are tons of people who do shit way worse than this to each other just get a good nut. But psychologically this is just the worst parenting method ever. Do you think any of those times you black guys (not my words, black people seem to think because they’re black their parents hurt more or something. The color of your skin does not give you +10 strength guys…) got your ass whooped by your parents that it actually did anything other than make you pissed off for a while?
All that he accomplished was made sure that his daughter would never talk to him for the rest of her life (assuming he really kicked her out of the house and did all that shit he said he was going to). Had he just sat down with her, explained to her that what she was doing was wrong (I think she illegal downloaded a game or something), how she could end up paying a shit load of money in fines, and taken her computer away for a while I think that would have had a much greater effect on actually changing her outcomes. All hitting her does is make her hate you, so she then leaves, and doesn’t listen to any of the things you tried to teach her. When is the last time you actually listened to someone who you despise when they try to tell you what to do? FUCKING NEVER
EDIT: With that said, I don’t think it’s really abuse. Had it just been some random guy I’d say “What a shitty parent” but this guy can’t even punish his daughter in order to get her to stop doing something he says. Why should he be allowed to punish others? Isn’t that the entire point of legal punishment, to stop you from doing it again?
Generally, I find that many adults are childish in disturbing ways.
Just throwing that out there. It’s a short leap from “na na na boo boo” to flipping someone off in traffic.
Yo man I know what you sayin. I am black and my dad used to put in work with the physical discipline. But the issue with my household was that he would go overboard because I didn’t cut the grass fast enough, or stuff like that. All I know is that calling the authorities on him would have done me no good. Honestly I think if i would have called the cops on my dad then I would not be here typing this now.
But I think it is abuse because he continued with hitting her, and saying things that cut pretty deep. Honestly the dad clearly enjoyed “disciplining” her, and whether its physical abuse or not is only one part of it, because I am quite certain that she does have some emotional scarring.
Any reason why the girl had to wait 7 years to release this video? Also who the hell was recording it? Was she like “oh I’m gonna get in trouble so I’ll record my parents and if they abuse I’ll use it against them someday?”
LOL @ the mom tagging in
“Lemme in on this”
Thats some fine, well reasoned logic right there.
/sarcasm
She probably wanted to wait until she was away from her dad so that he couldn’t beat her ass again.
Also, she most likely did know what was about to happen (it sounded like this had happened a few times before) so she came prepared. Rather than option selecting a knife and stabbing her father (which happens all the time…) she option selected a camera and exposed her father. Which in my eyes is way worse than being stabbed and dying. This dude is now probably embarrassed as fuck and will never be able to work for any high profile job again. She’s clearly a smart girl and she got her dad good.
Trust me i feel the same about your view’s.
You think denying them a cookie is a form of punishment or that locking someone in a room for protracted punished is a better measure then your view of a developing psychology is sadly out of touch.
I will also try again.
You are asking ,i would remove myself from the situation.
You are asking me to make a judgment call if this behavior would be acceptable with another adult.
What i think you fail to view is the father might know exactly what she is doing and obviously did not want her doing it.
From the tone she had been warned multiple times and the attempts at reasoning had failed.
As a parent you have no obligation to explain the reasons for every one of your choices to said child because believe it or not i would say 80% of the time the parent’s reasoning is because your doing it in lieu of what you need to do to succeed.
I think the fact that he was so harsh on this is the fact that he is a judge. Probablly got some guilt, self-hatred, and a little bit of sadism mixed in there.
Of course the fact that mom got in on it shows that the kid has had gotten into shit with both of them and they are just tired of all the shit. I am more concerned at the fact that she probably told them what she did and acted out with the specific purpose of trying to capture it on video. Some entrapment shit right there.
Also, how many people arguing against this actually have kids, have had younger siblings or anything of that sort. Oh, let me guess, why would that matter right?!?! Lol fuck outta here.
I’m not asking if you would do it, I’m asking if you witnessed this same scene involving a spouse or the elderly if you would consider it abuse.
Yes I am asking you to make a judgement call because you have already made one.
Again i have said what i would do and what i believe anyone should do.
Why do you refuse to accept the response?
I am so sick of hearing this.
The peaceful parenting movement does not create better people and being unwilling to prevent your child from making stupid mistakes because they quite literally view none of their actions having a consequences until they hit the real world,and suddenly they are held accountable for their actions and are not equipped to deal with it because your failure as a parent to give them working knowledge that if you fuck up you pay for said fuck up makes you the worst possible parent conceivable.
HAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
Farther: “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!” “bend ova the bed!”
Lol, man, I really needed that. Today will be a good day.
Anyways, If your parent tell you not to do something you should obey your parents, no ifs, ands, or buts.
Holy shit this is amazing! So you’re trying to talk to a girl and she’s not having it and couldn’t be less interested, all you have to do is take your belt off and give her a few “Career Enablers” I’m going to call them, she becomes a prostitute, and presto you can now hook up with her.
I never asked what you would do.
Because your response has nothing to do with my question.
If you witnessed this same scene involving a spouse or the elderly would you consider it abuse.
Is the question you asked not if i witnessed it but if i personally was involved in it bro.
Not for nothing but you need to be clearer in what your asking.
Pretty brutal beating
oh wait i mean, OH YEAH WELL PARENTS IN CHINA DISCIPLINE THEIR KIDS LIKE THAT TOO!!!111
but china runs over its children with vans and leaves them dying on the street
F- judge deserves jail time
I won’t lie: I got a happy feeling between my legs when I watched that.
But the happy feeling went away when he said “lie, cheat and steal” and I remembered Eddie Guerrero ;_;
Still, regardless of how arousing it is, it’s hideously abusive parenting.
Here’s what you gotta understand:
People who are abused by loved ones make excuses for them; it’s easier for them to cope if they believe that they were the ones in the wrong or that the abuse never took place. Battered wives will usually say that they deserved it. People who were beaten by their parents will convince themselves that their parents did the right thing and that the abuse never did them any harm. So when people defend this kind of parenting, they’re defending their loved ones and trying to avoid the painful realisation that they were mistreated.
Or maybe they’re just internet tough guys.
Interesting point you bring up because if the reasons are to believed it was everyone’s unwillingness to be held responsible for the child’s welfare going forward.
This video displays the exact opposite and show’s what everyone is allway’s crying for.
Where is that kids parents?
Why is no one disciplining that child?
Were that my child it would not happen.
So on and so forth.
Disagreeing with his method’s are of course your choice but to call abuse for a sore ass(no pedo) is beyond ridiculous.
Then let’s be as clear as possible.
If you witnessed this exact same scene involving a spouse or the elderly in place of the 16 year old daughter would you consider it abuse?
Is that better?