You sure that wasn’t just pretending they’re in the WORLD WRESTLING FEDERATION
Screen door? That’s like a built in safety net. Real abuse is being thrown through a glass door and having your parents pour vinnegar on your wounds.
(I don’t know anyone this happened to; I’m white.)
Allow me to explain.
You are arguing that it isn’t abuse because he used something that wouldn’t kill her.
The kid I was talking about was white and his Dad was a cop.
My punishments ended up being a choice: Take this beating now or lose whatever for a week or 2.
I took the beating.
In 2011 I’m pretty sure the dominant form of showing someone they are wrong is via reasoning. Yes, you can reason with your children.
Also it’s not like she did something universally illegal. File sharing is still a grey area in the world.
So if you do this to your kid it isn’t abuse, but if you do this to your wife (unwillingly) or the elderly would it be abuse?
Based on the fact that he said that welts won’t kill you. Yeah, maybe it was based on, you know, the video.
Whether it is abuse is not up to a bunch of dumb asses on the internet, but a court of law. Whether it is the horriffic beating that niggas act like it is and if the things that her parents are telling her are actually mentally scarring can be up for debate and also laughed at for the sheer fact that she was so desperate to put this on youtube as opposed to calling the police.
I know abuse unlike alot of guys that were just whooped. My dad used to beat me like a rented mule, and I know he was wrong for it. But I have long since forgiven him for it. I did however turn his ass in back in the day. To the authorities. Didn’t press charges but I made the law aware of it. I guess I was mature enough to know he had a problem. Anyways whatever, put myself under the bus.
What does that have to do with someone assuming that every post that supports spankings or whatever are from black people? No where in my post did I ever say anything against file sharing or no using reason. Did you quote the wrong post or are you just one of those idiots that talks at people rather than having an actual discussion?
Both of your arguments boil down to “it is/isn’t abuse because I say so! and look who agrees with me!”
This is fundamentally wrong or all the child criminal law’s have to be retooled because under your logic a child is aware of their actions and should be punished legally for them just like any other reasoning being.
I do not have a legal obligation in regards to the behavior of my wife(within reason) or the elderly and as such and can simply walk away from either situation and let them learn by falling flat on their face because shockingly i am not their parent.
Call it as you will a social or moral obligation the difference between being right and wrong or being a good/bad parent it is subjective but not so in the eye’s of the law.
Are we agreeing that this is the rubric here?
**Is anybody assuming that?
This isn’t relevant to my question. I am asking if people would consider hitting their wife or elderly in this fashion abuse. How it comes down legally probably varies on local laws, but if this exact same action was taken on somebody else would it be abusive?
Lol yeah ok that was “disciplining”. That girls probably gonna stab her father while he’s sleeping and end up in jail.
If you need a belt to discipline your child from misbehaving, then you’re a shitty parent.
It is exactly relevant because under the eyes of the law(the major issue governing most behavior that is not a personal belief) and for the reasons i mentioned before it precluded that being needed.
Your asking if i did this to a spouse or elderly would it be abuse i am countering with they are not my child so it would never be my job or responsibility to be concerned with one way or the other.
At that point in their life the legal system can and would do much worse then hitting someone with a belt.
If you are afraid to reprimand a emotionally undeveloped being your a shitty parent.
You don’t need to hit a child to do it. And god I am sick of seeing the “That was nothing I got much worse as a kid”, that didnt make what happened to you right and it doesn’t make what happened in that video right.
I’ll try again.
I am asking you if you would consider this action against those who are not your child to be abusive. Not legally, but morally or philosophically.
I’m not asking if this incident is legally abusive because obviously that will vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction.
I basically completely ignored the race mentioning because it is of no merit for discussion. I guess you never really made a defense of that type of child rearing mentality, but I assumed it because of my ignoring of what, I guess, is the entire principle of that quote. Sorry for the misunderstanding, if you want to clarify your position, I’d like to know it.
You’re simplifying the situation too much. This is not a situation of legal matter, I was just trying to show that what she did is not wrong in principle. Also she was sixteen, not exactly an age where you are completely unaware of the impact of your actions. If she was stealing, maybe she deserved some type of punishment, but she wasn’t. It basically comes down to her father not understanding what she was doing and get really angry for no real reason. You seem to think that she is guilty of something other than being born to someone who is ignorant.
indeed, i used to have worst punishment when i was a child than what is on the video, and was on daily basics, of course i was a very problematic child 
I talk to myself and masturbate to the sound of my own voice.
Wow, I hope you never procreate.
Like I said, if you can’t reprimand your child without a beating, then you’re a shitty parent. Yeah that dad is real tough hitting a teenage GIRL, she’s totally learning a valuable lesson.
The whole point is that she did literally nothing to deserve the beating than downloading a ROM for a game that was probably not even commercially available. I accept spanking as a punishment if you actually have a reason to do it other than the fact that you get off on it.