The internet has systematically destroyed my desire for any human contact or relationships.
This reminds me when I caught a few movements of āThe Doctorsā when they were talking about circumcision. The dark-skinned bitch doctor was so convinced that circumcision was vital to penis health that I almost yelled obscenities at the television. Nobody in SRK or IRL would request this cuntās opinion if you heard the conviction in her tone. Motherfuck that show.
What makes you think I want to at the moment? Iād rather sleep with someone Iām in a decent relationship with other than just some person.
It might also have something to do with confidence. The average human penis is like 5 1/2 to 6 inches, and those porn stars are far beyond that because of surgery and pills.
We know that repeated activities can influence the perception of norms. So if someone watched a lot of porn, huge breasts and penises become the norm. Not only will it be harder to be turned on by more realistically normal women, but it seems likely there might be an impact on a guyās self image.
I mean, it wouldnāt be the first time the media has grossly distorted someoneās perception of themselves.
There are all kinds of factors regarding my āindividual sex lifeā (porn, masturbation, my latest thoughts and feelings on sex/relationships, life situations unrelated to sex, etc.) that can affect my sex drive, but I will say this: now that I have plenty of experience with both porn and sex/relationships, porn definitely does not necessarily reduce my sex drive. It has at times increased it and enhanced my libido/sex life when used properly. In fact, thatās pretty much always been the case, except when Iāve watched crappy porn (this was when I was younger) that made me think less highly of human sexuality in general, and possibly when Iāve been in a bad relationship and I was only watching the porn because I wasnāt happy with my sex life.
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Definitely true, and there are a lot of other issues in that category that you didnāt explicitly mentionā¦ such as trying to equal the viagra/cocaine aided performances of male porn stars, assuming that men arenāt supposed to show any emotion/pleasure during sex (most mainstream porn doesnāt really portray the men as anything but machines with penises), all sorts of expectations about what sort of behavior is ānormal.ā
I watched a good bit of porn during puberty, and, realtalk, realizing that sex can be whatever my partner and I want it to be and breaking free of many of the expectations porn had led me to adopt was a really important thing for me. Not gonna get into all of that - everyoneās experiences are different, anyway - but thought Iād mention it because Iām sure there are at least a couple of people reading the thread who are somewhere in the that process and believe me, freeing your mind from all of those expectations (from porn and also from media/society generally, as you said) can be a life-changing positive experience.
Because you are biologically male. Thatās kind of how it works.
What theyāre trying to say is that people are such whores, itās expected that youād be one too. Itās like the whole āeveryone gets married and have kidsā thing. Itās so common that without knowing you, people automatically expect it.
No itās that you are lying to yourself if you say you donāt want to fuck women. Itās a sad defense mechanism that keeps you from trying and getting hurt from failure.
If you are biologically male and physically healthy, you WANT TO FUCK PUSSY. I know you silly Christians / Muslims etc want to think of sex as this icky forbidden thing but itās pretty fucking awesome.
As much as I hate to say it, ^THIS. THIS 1000 TIMES.
But he said heād rather smash a chick heās in a relationship with. Not some random slut. And I follow no religion. Actually I havenāt come across anyone on this site thatās absolutely against getting laid.
Wow you fucking godless heathen.
Iād rather not be a whore.
I never said it was gross. It was just never on my agenda. Itās not like I said having sex was a bad thing. My drive is kinda low, so Iām not in a hurry to go sleep with someone. Wouldnāt that make me look desperate?
Nigga everyone is desperate to get pussy to some degree or another. That is the entire point of our existence. You just canāt act like you are desperate. The best pick up artists make girls think they donāt even want their pussy.
I am more worried about my watching porn killing my hard drive
if it damages your sex drive, just go to your local computer shop and get it upgraded. duh.
It is still possible but Iād give it some thought about going through that. A lot of people think foreskin doesnāt have any function but its actually one of the most sensitive parts. After getting cut later in life many men say sex is less pleasurable. So yeah if youāre finding oral sex boring now then i doubt you will like it after a circumcision.
I would advise you to look up asexuality before continuing to propagate your opinion as a fact. There are some people who arenāt only motivated in life by the base desire for sex, shocking I know
Asexuality and homosexuality are technically chemical anomalies, though. The primary driving factor of most organic life is procreation ā most animals donāt give a hot damn about anything they donāt -have- to do and yet all creatures capable of it are compelled to reproduce. I know what youāre trying to say, and youāre right, but heās also technically right in that we only exist because our parents and their parents and their parents before them all had the chemical cue that demanded they seek to reproduce.
Most of our natural reactions to other people, outside of socially constructed mannerisms, are built around analyzing one anotherās viability as, and communicating interest in being, each others sexual partners for the purpose of forwarding the lifespan for human beings as a species.