who the fuck says trollop? nigga get off tumblrā¦those 20 yr old white sociology students got you fucked up. using words like your a 100 yr olds. black hipsters in our group.
Man, i fucking love how idiotic can be people sometimes, at the place where i work there is a new HRM, she comes to put more order and have better ways to handle the HR ate where i work which is great imo.
One of the new measures that she is implementing is that for the coming holidays they will give us the hole holy week so we donāt expend our vacation time on those days, but of course we will have to work extra time to compensate for the monday and tuesday, i have no problem with that, BUT deciding that we have to work on specific hours and/or days like if our only purpose on life is to give all of our time to the work is just stupid, thinking that they can dispose of our time like if we donāt have lifes outside this fucking place.
It fucks me because 1st, before they came with this new shit, i already asked for those 2 days with my vacation time, way long before they hired the new HRM, so i already have paid my tickets to travel to my home country and chaging the date is simply impossible, yet they expect me to go to work this saturday.
2nd I have shit to do, as a foreign person here i have limited life outside work, the few hours after work is the only thing that i have to dedicate to myself, which i can use to go to the fucking gym, mind you, this is a thing i do for my health, i have a fatty liver, so if i donāt want to depend on drugs or worse, get cirrhosis i have to lose weight not to mention eat healthy. This is something that i do because is part of my medical treatment, not to mention it helps me to cope with my level case of depression for being away of my family and friends, and my insomnia and adhd which btw the drugs that i use knock me so the window of time where i can dedicate to myself is quite limmited. Add that i have to prepare all the shit for the next day like food and all that shit.
So, since i canāt work on the hours/days they force us, my only option is to take an unpaid leave for those days, which i donāt really give a fuck anyway, i prefer that to let them handle me like if i was cattle, if the other people is so comformist to allow them to handle them as if they own them fine, but i wouldnāt allow it. Hell, is even part of my contract that as a foreigner i have 1 weekend (from friday to monday) per month to go to my home country, something that i usually donāt take because i take my work very seriously and it is actually important that i am here to solve any problem that happens.
I actually donāt have a problem to be here overnight or weekends if is an emergency, but allow them to dispose of my time like if they own it, no way.
Logic dictates that they can avoid any of this kind of trouble by allowing options for those who already have took their vacation time or have shit to do, there is a coworker who has classes for here master degree at 6PM but she now canāt go because it is mandatory to work this week until 7 PMā¦
Iāve tried living away from New York. Hell, for a little while in 2013 I lived in Jersey City and just traveled to NY to hang with friends. I wasnāt happy. Above all else, I value my happiness. If it costs this much Iāll pay for now, but Iāll start up a small grassroots movement in NY to get shit changed. In the city it isnāt hard since it has a lot of wanna-be Guevaras in it and shit.
If I asked my bosses to let me work remotely from anywhere else, they will be reluctant but in the end they will (probably) concede. Great, now I work in a state where my money goes farther but itās not the same as New York. It isnāt a city where at 2 a.m. in the morning I can go to a bar around the corner from me, have a craft beer and pick up $60 of coke. Or where I can meet women from, literally, every corner of the globe.
Those experiences, culture, and people are what I pay for. I just wish come tax season they didnāt skin the back of my ass for the pork they are trying to fill legislation with. itās a battle of my happiness and Iāll wage it because no man should give up what makes him happiest in life.