i don’t really see a problem with a nice weekend trip, but you should def try to confirm that you’re fucking…a good way to do that would be to make it clear that you’re only getting a room with one bed.
No true way to confirm even if you get a room with one bed. What happens if “time of the month” shows up? What happens if her mind changes cause she feels thats all he wants. What happens if you throw out a lil dough and suddenly you “learn” awkward shyt about her??
A nice weekend trip is once you established something with said chick… definitely a “i already tapped that ass i just wanna do it elsewhere” situation… a weekend away with unfamiliar territory can have horrible outcomes… horrible.
if ya tryin to tap handle that shyt on ya own time where all you have to do if shyt isn’t goin ya way is just leave. no packing… no room wasted… no awkward moment on teh drive back.
why cant you just get a room with one bed and let her know. if she still goes, get her drunk, and then make a move (just don’t make it an EMBLEM LORD move). if she doesnt sex you, you’ll probably at least get to 2nd or 3rd base.
New thread, new sub, let the bullshit continue!
Not to beat the dead horse to a bloody pulp, I would definitely suggest turning down the ski trip. If the only requirement (er, interest) in going is to put it in, you’ll likely wind up disappointed. There are a slew of variables that makes the outcome unpredictable. A weekend trip to is reserved for a more committed relationship that’s been managed long enough that there aren’t any doubts about what is going to happen.
Thats an idea, but if your only goal is to get pussy and you dont care about any other aspects of the relationship and your only way of getting laid is to get the girl piss drunk, then why do you need a ski trip + this specific girl to make that happen?
ps whats an emblem lord move??
Lord…poor EM
Sent using my Evo…not the 3D ish…eff 3D!
I lurk heavily, but I do remember the Emblemlord saga… That poem and the subsequent clowning from peeps like SRKev is legendary status. Looks like he was turning things around though, right?
Question for the ladies and my more ‘well-traveled’ bros… Is it just in woman’s nature to attempt to manipulate and deceive in order to get what they want? After my last relationship, I guess my eyes have been opened to the bs most females seem to revel in… It’s almost like Chris Rock says(paraphrasing), “Everything about a woman is a lie-- That’s not your face(makeup) You’re not that tall(heels). Your chest ain’t that big(pushup bra).” lol
I used to be one of those ‘sucka for love ass niggas’ and now that I realize where I was fucking up, I just want to go buck wild and smash every broad I see. Sorry for ranting, guess I’m just venting due to a lack of worthwhile ventures or something…
I am in your situation as well. The girl I was finally going to ask out ends up having a boyfriend. And she sits right by me in my hardest class. Its going to be a looonnnnggg year-_-
There’s 2 women in my life who I’ve known since September let’s call them A and B. I talk to A several times a week, we get along great, she’s everything any ,am could possibly want, and she would do anything for me. I’ve had no contact with B from November till new years eve except for 3 Facebook messages she sent me throughout December. B then called me at new years day 12:30AM saying how much she misses me, hasn’t even thought of any other guy, and all that other stuff.
For the record in the 2 month period she didn’t call she disconnected her phone, moved out twice, and was busy running her businesses so it’s not like she was leading me on or that I’m some passing fling to her.
A has been so good to me and I like her a lot she’s a rare catch for anyone but I like B more and am pretty sure there’s a future there so unfortunately I’m going to have to drop A sometime soon once B and I have “the talk”.
Life finds a way to keep things interesting.
I’m starting to think I am too cynical but the stuff underlined seem like lies told to satisfy your ego. Unless you questioned her I don’t really see why she would mention not thinking about other guys unless she was getting slammed by other guys and thought that it was something you would get offended by. If you were the only guy she thought about for 4 months she would have contacted more throughout November/December.
Women are capable of running game just as much as Men, you could end up with nothing or something worse. I suppose I’m the type of person who always orders the same steak at a restaurant so I cannot really comprehend dropping something you know and like for something you like but don’t know.
Yeah you do sound like you’re being too cynical lol I really don’t think she would lie to me, but you could be right I guess. She said she hasn’t talked to any other guy after I told her I’ve been talking to other women.
Could she be playing me? Sure just like how Koop could be the real life Patrick Bateman but either scenario is extremely unlikely IMO.
gunners might be onto something, but i don’t think it really matters. so what if she’s fucking other guys since you’re not together? that said, the smart move is to keep rocking with the shorty that’s already holding you down rather try and hope for the best with this broad that clearly has a lot of shit going that’s (evidently) more important than you. bush in hand is worth 2 birds…that’s how that saying goes, right?
Nah fam thats not all women, you just spartan up and if you believe a chick is playing you out then you can be the fuck out. Yes pople will test the limits but only if you let them. If you dont tell a person whoa this area over here is out of bounds they gonna keep on doing it. No need to take it out on every new chick because of only a few chicks you had a bad experience with.
step yo numbers up, you will find a better match if you increase your character select screen. MVC2 is Better than MVC3 because you have more players to choose from.
it sounds like he enjoys skiing and wants to go on a trip, so if he can get some happy fun time with a girl too why not?
an emblem lord move is to be in bed with a girl, and have her expose herself to you, and then promptly completely ignore her and NOT fuck the shit out of her because you are a gentleman who opens doors for women.
Am I the only one who thinks if she’s ok with boarding together for a weekend she’s ok with playing doctor?
Yes…you are also a dude though
Sent using my Evo…not the 3D ish…eff 3D!
Why you believe she is telling the truth is the reason lies break trust. Look at things this way, if you were trying to get in someone’s good books would you say ‘‘Yeah I’ve just been doing my own thing, had a few flings, got on with my work and all that’’ or would try and make out as though you were busy but had the person on your mind all the time.
I think it does matter, her fucking other guys is irrelevant but the affect her words have on his perception of how she feels about him is very relevant.
Her words give the impression that she has deep feelings for him, would be committed to him and what not but as you highlighted ‘she has a lot of shit going that’s evidently more important that him’.
Long story short…
Girl at work has a boyfriend of 5 yrs. I have caught her checking me out everytime we work nearby. We have made small talks and she laughed like a little kid at everything I said. Finally, I tell her to meet me at so and so place after work, she agreed. It’s 12 midnight, thats when we get out of work. She met me at so and so and I told her to come into my car, I wanna drive her around. She got in and I started driving to random places while getting to know her and make her laugh.
I told her my hands are cold, I grabbed her hand and held on to it. She said WHAT ARE YOU DOING, while smiling. I said my hands are cold, so i’m borrowing hers. She played along. Next, I started touching her thigh, neck, hair, and tickled her. She didn’t push me away. Asked her for her number, she gave it to me.
A week later, I told her to meet at so and so place again, and same old routine. She got in my car and I drove her around. This time, I got even more agressive, I tried to go in for the kiss on the cheek. She dodged it everytime. It was getting late, so I found a dark place to park my car, cuz i got tired of driving around. We sat there in my car while she showed me her family pictures. I used that as an excuse to put my face close to hers, her bikini pics happen to pop up, so I grabbed it and zoomed them in. She tried to grab the phone from me but I made it so she had to lean toward me if she wanted to get the phone, which she did. I managed to land a kiss on here. She wasn’t mad at all, but seem to enjoying it. As I dropped her off to her car, I asked her when she’s free next week, she said she has school Mond-Fri. She asked me why, and I said I wanna take her to this place she’ll love, but it opens at 10-12. I told her to skip one day and come with me. She said ok.
Sorry for the long post. What do you guys think? Is she interested or just teasing? Because during all those interactions and flirting, she said she still loves her boyfriend and not looking. I tried to play the “make the boyfriend looks like ass”, but I think I didn’t have any experience in that field, yet. She said if her boyfriend finds out about this, he’ll get mad. I said, he won’t. This is between us, no one is around… She only sees him just on sundays…
I think you are going to enjoy being interviewed by my boy Joey.