The "Rape Culture" Thread: Stories of jocks raping people and getting away with it

For me it happens because I drink a lot. Normally I can drink all day and be great. Barely beyond buzzed. Then sometimes I’ll have a really strong beer and the blackout just hits me out of nowhere.

Case in point, I was in Virginia Saturday tagging along my friends’ band’s tour and I grabbed a huge beer. I think it was like 32 oz. or something. So I downed it in about 30-40 minutes. Raging Bitch has an ABV of about 8.5% or something. Anyway, during the drinking of it I was great. Then I have no idea what happened for two hours of that day. Then I regained memory after we got to a karaoke bar.

It’s weird but it happens. My body is so used to it by now it functions normally during a blackout. There have been moments where I lost nights but I’ve always woken up in my own bed.

An observation: you sound like a catty bitch. I say this partially because I enjoy neither cattiness nor bitchiness, and partially because it’s ironic that a dude arguing so hard against a feminist talking point is such a catty bitch.

Anywho let’s skip the really fucking stupid part of your post about women not being lynched en masse for men’s supposed false rape accusations as if that’s even remotely worth anyone’s time and talk about what comes up a lot in these discussions: men, in prison, getting raped. Let’s say, for the sake of argument, that counting the prison population in North America pushes the number of male victims of rape above the female. We’ll found out in a moment that this means fuck all in the history of nothing, but again, sake of argument and whatnot.

There’s this problem we have in North America. Well, not just here, but it’s prevalent in the right-wing segments of our population. The problem is that people think longer jail terms reduce crime. Conservative politicians promise this all the time, because the voter base is really stupid in general and fails to realize just how ineffective longer jail sentences are compared to, say, addressing mental illness and poverty; the root causes of crime. Not just in the United States either; our illustrious Canadian ruling party, the Progressive Conservative Party of Canada, pedals this rhetoric, despite being actually progressive in a number of surprising ways for a party that gets to rule unchallenged for two more years.

This means we probably have waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay more people in jail than we should. And something men do in our jails is rape other men. Now, despite your whining (see: catty bitch, above) that I somehow feel these victims of rape don’t deserve justice or attention (putting words in my mouth, catty bitch style), I feel quite the opposite. No victim of rape should be ignored. Not a one.

However, this is what we call a complicated problem: outside prison, men are still doing most of the raping, but women become, by and far, the preferred target. If you have even a double digit IQ, you’re following along here: the prison population can’t be used as a model for how society outside jail is functioning. So when I argue that rape culture is a real thing, saying “more men get raped than women, if we count the prison population,” you’re really saying “I don’t understand what ‘culture’ means and think I can get away on a technicality by including a segment of the population that is removed from that culture, as if somehow, if we had less people in jail than we do, women getting raped wouldn’t be a problem.”

I hope this clears shit up because all I’m going to do if you respond with another eyesore of a moronic post is put you on Ignore, possibly post “I tried,” and go on with my life.

https://i.chzbgr.com/maxW500/5646386944/h5CAA273B/

Alcohol is too blame, not the parents. These kids are growing up watching naruto and bleach and other forms of mind bending bullshit, they cant be controled.

I’m suddenly realizing that there should be more fedoras in this thread.

When you are choosing to get drunk you are also taking responsibility for all the stupid things you’ll do while drunk and later regret, like drunk driving, or assault, for example. Both were minors, and no evidence of rape were found. End of story.

I tried.

So is this supposed to be a thread were we tell on ourselves lol?

This thread reminds of about two weeks ago at a buddy’s housewarming party. A girl I hooked up with in the past was there and later in the night I tried to hook up with her. She half-assed rebuked me and I was okay with it. Told her I want to hook up with her but if the feeling isn’t mutual anymore I won’t force it. So the party goes on for a few more hours. She gets shitfaced and was laid down next to me on my buddy’s bed as people are preparing to go to a bar. She starts kissing my neck and wants me to take her home. I just say no and get her up to take her to a cab. Her friend did everything short of calling me a date rapist and insisted on taking the girl home.

I was okay with that since they are co-workers and friends, but I know her, too. It’s not like I’d stick my dick in her in the state she was in and in the (shocking) state of sobriety I was in. Well, sobriety to a degree.

Tell that shit to a judge.

Not worth the risk. :coffee:

But males are frequent targets of rape, from childhood to adulthood. And it happens more frequently than, say, women who coerce males and females into performing sexual acts under threat of bodily harm (which I know takes place often), or women who commit statutory rape on minors. If you must quantify, female victims of rape outnumber male victims… but it’s still a horrific act that men personally, legitimately, fear of or at least emphathize with.

And male or female, it’s dumb and a gamble on your life to get drunk around people you don’t trust. Maybe you won’t get raped (like this young man I heard about who went to this bar near where I lived, and got roofied and trained by some Russians) but tons of other misfortunes could happen (like some other guy I knew who got wasted in a pub full of strangers, left the bar passed out during a hard winter, and died from exposure).

Not to steer the thread in another direction but I find it amusing that when anyone involved in hard, illegal drugs is a victim of a sexual act, a lot of people just play it off as “he/she was getting involved with the wrong crowd, it was bound to happen”, yet alcohol is treated as a casual thing

Lol that guy is black though, there’s another reason he was hung I’ll bet

tips Klan hood

Anyways, if there is such a thing as “Rape Culture” (a label of which I’m wary of using, along with phrases such as “The Patriarchy” which makes me think of a meeting of bald fat white men in a triangular building cackling with glee as they discuss how to oppress women today), it affects men as well as women. But it’s the same old shit - people wanting what they shouldn’t have and justifying it in shitty ways

This thread has been going on for two days and is marginally less stupid than most threads like it.

Good job I guess.

This entire thread is truly entertaining. People incited into a frenzy because horny teenagers got drunk and fucked each other. Girls get drunk, they lose inhibitions and fuck guys they might not otherwise fuck. Then regret it afterwards. This is normal, what’s not normal is girls being able to bring charges about this because they feel bad about it afterwards.

Has anyone even read the details on this case? The DA won’t comment because it’s now a sealed case, but the Sheriff and the defense attorney both stated the case was dropped because the girls kept flip flopping on whether or not they would cooperate, and changed their stories several times. A DA only brings cases he is reasonably sure he can win to court, this was not such a case.

Let’s give ourselves a hand, people.

Though you call it “good job”. I’ll call it “abject failure”.

Jessica Valenti is going in hard on this on Twitter today. She’s laughing at the notion that women getting drunk is why rape happens. I agree with her. Rape happens because the guy rapes the woman when she’s in no position to consent to sex. I can’t believe there are posters here that argue against that.

Well, I can believe it. I just wish this site wasn’t filled with pieces of shit.

SRK history, with help from ARIKA and Capcom

Balrog + Sports = “Batrog” Aka Cracker Jack.

He is pretty sick. First he can box. Then he has the home run swing. Then he has some field goal kick. Then he puts them all together!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSaDHDyUUcg

I don’t know what this has to do with chivalry. “one of these days, Bang, zoom, right to the moon” ? Barbie’s Husband Ken being the victim could be telling? Does Jack use rapeseed oils on his louisville slugger bat?

Coach was scared of the woman & the truth to make a threat like that.

& when sports has some of the most backwards, racist people in it, no Nickguy we will not be allowed to be a part of their communities. The Japan and Latin baseball leagues will be way better anyway though. Skillionaires. :smokin:

if you think that’s the bulk of the thread you should leave and not give your opinion on the way out. threads clearly over your head.