The company might stop. That doesnāt mean the people in charge will stop.
Mofos donāt teach their kids properly, donāt talk to them, end up having to hit them to instill consequences.
Iām trying to figure out what situation would warrant me hitting my daughters and I canāt find one.
So what kinda dumbfuck are you that you canāt control your emotions and reason with a child? Because if you donāt know how to chill your anger demonstrate self control to your children, you sure as fuck canāt expect them to have it.
You have seen his post dude is an idiot
Who tries to reason with children?
Only tear a childās ass up if absolutely neccessary. There are other suitable non-violent punishments that show consequences & teach discipline
Recent studies show that spankings can have the reverse effect on children
And if overdone can traumatize them
Seems likely he has anger issues. I mean who confronts children.
People without kids always talk about you need to beat children
I say it depends on the child. Now old school whaling on your kids with belts, switches etc. Hell no, thatās done. That only instills absolute fear in your kid until they come of age. Then that fear turns into resentment and rebellion. Because you never earned their respect, only their fear which they longer have towards you.
However more rebellious and defiant kids. Tend to respond better to a lil bit of intimidation. So a good slap upside the head or swat on the behind or thigh to remind them thereās physical consequences for acting up. Isnāt bad, as long as an explanation for why they were punished follows.
Now more reserved or timid kids. They dont respond well to physical discipline. That can really hurt their self esteem and confidence. A stern talking to is enough for them. My nephew falls in this category. When he does something wrong like getting caught in a lie. Just me staring him down is enough to break him and make him realize he in trouble and feel bad about what he did.
Iāve never had to hit him to get my point across and teach him a lesson.
Some of yāall donāt have children and it shows.
Some of yāall also seem the type to blame teachers for the hellspawn your wack hot takes create.
Tell me how its my fault kids donāt learn when parents donāt have books at home?
Iām not afraid of whooping my grandkids ass if they act a damn fool.
I can remember how many times my parents punished Physically. Most the time it was I got x thing I was obsessed with at the time being taken away for z amount of time.
Talking before and after the event of why said item being taken away if I knew why I got in trouble and if I learned anything from being in trouble was enough.
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Iām not afraid to spank my daughter either.
The problem is: what would she have to do to warrant a spanking that isnāt resolved significantly better by talking to her like she isnāt an idiot and explaining things?
See people think that just because you donāt hit your kids that they get to live consequence free. Physical pain isnāt always the best consequence. hell, its actually a shitty one because eventually they just stop being afraid of it and you have to do more. So theyāll just test your hand.
My wife is pretty damn intimidating. I just want to raise my kid so they have all the tools to function
Punishment like that for me is like the absolute last thing Iāll do to them. Itās only used when everything else has failed, and even then; itās exceptionally rare that I administer it anyway.
When we were bad, my mom used to make me and my brothers go out to the willow tree and choose our own switch. Gave us time to let the reality sink in that we were about to get our ass whooped. And that was way worse than the ass whooping, which was always relatively mild compared to the impending doom. She never left welts or anything- donāt think it even really hurt that bad, but it was intimidating. Made us think about what we did wrong.
Oh, and sheād send us back to get another one if our switches were too small
I have no intention of having kids. I was spanked as a child along with the rest of my siblings. None of us see spanking as a good way to punish a child.
My auntie used to do this to us and her kids. It was super effectiveš
I think of spanking a child as hitting someone who is helpless.
If you canāt convince them of your reasons, perhaps your reasons arenāt good.
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