Rapper DaBaby was reportedly booed by his own audience in Florida on Saturday night after appearing to a hit a female fan in the face, leading to the cancellation of the concert before it even began.
Not my kind of music but I figured some may recognize him
Having kids rocks. People often have them at the wrong time.
But you legit need to get all (most) of your crazy out of your system before having kids. If you’re still wanting to sniff ketamine and spend all night at raves your either a) gonna resent being a parent or b) gonna be a shit parent.
Cant be as selfish as a good parent. Although relearning how to be a little selfish is healthy.
Yeah I’m still tryna smoke weed, go to concerts, and engage in other forms of paranormal blacktivity I don’t have time for that. I was just curious since people feel the need to tell me to avoid having kids without me even asking…
We went to our first concert since they were born (just me and wife) and saw Iggy Pop last year. We also took them to their first music festival last year.
Thats nearly 8 years in between.
The misses still partakes of an evening but i can’t because of work. You aint gotta be a monk. Just gotta hide that shit.
The worst parenting I’ve ever seen was my coworker pulling up to our job to hotbox in his car on break with me and another coworker. This dude pulls up with his 4/5 yo daughter smh.
So he has her stand outside while we blaze…but his daughter is standing outside alone while we blaze. So I say something “like bro what are you doing get your kid”?” So then he takes her in the car, but now this kids around weed smoke smh. After seeing it was basically a no win situation I left after taking a couple more hits because I didn’t want to be party to getting a child high lol
Because in order to be a parent you have to stop being self centered. Most people cant fathom that life can be great without constantly triggering small dopamine highs.
There’s more to it but thats the overall broad view gist of it.
If you got a kid, you gotta stop and rethink your life choices. You gotta understand that you can’t get absolutely shitfaced every weekend because there’s a kid at home that needs you.
It shouldn’t be that complicated to realize this, but god fucking dammit, I see people not understand this all the time.
Yeah pretty much what I’ve been hearing and thinking. I’ll probably get it done sometime this year if I don’t procrastinate too much lol. Don’t wanna rely on the pullout game plus birth control too much even though it’s worked perfectly lol (my daughter was in purpose matter of fact we had to try alot to have her).
@vhozite having kids doesn’t suck as long as you go about it the right way. You probably heard that from the same people who also talk about how miserable they are being married as well. But it ain’t all cake and rainbows either, it’s gotta be what you wanna do not something you do just because everyone else does.
I never wanted to be a parent, honestly thought I’d be awful at it. I get too absorbed in my own shit, my own work, my own studies, and honestly felt I’d be a bad parent, so I decided against kids.
Then my nephew arrived. His mum’s incapable of raising anything other than a fart (belch, maybe, on weekends), and then my brother had severe medical issues, which led to me becoming a parent of an angry and confused 10 year old.
The little shit’s 21 now, and I’m happier and prouder of how his life’s progressing more than anything else I’ve ever done.
Not surprised da baby has beat up several people at this point. He’s been in and out of trouble over it. He went viral for beating the shit out of some guy antagonizing him in the mall. Thing is if I had that much money I wouldn’t risk it fighting randos he’ll have another lawsuit or jail before 2021. Oh and he shot and killed a guy who tried to Rob him in Walmart that went viral too.
He always has a excuse lol. Promotor shorted him 10k so they beat him up. Hotel employee bc he was taking pictures etc etc. All his money gonna go to lawyers lol.