This is the ultimate truth. Why are you so smart Nini?
I can actually vouch for what he says cause I just lived it. Honestly if you approach a girl and act like a bitch don’t be suprised when she isn’t attracted to you and treats you like a bitch. What ever she says doesn’t matter what she does matters. If she says how cool/special/how much she likes you and goes and fucks other guys then you aren’t her priority. If you are in this position all you have to do is cut her off and move on.
Gonna have to agree with this. You say it doesn’t exist, yet give one of the definitions of it, and the reasons why it came to pass.
The person isn’t attracted to you, for whatever reason, yet still sees you as a “friend.”
I have to agree with Nini, you’re either attractive to the girl or you’re not. I also hate dudes that give 100% to the girl in the first month of knowing eachother BEFORE dating her. Like srsly bro, don’t even give a girl a hint of mystery so she can actually have a reason to get to know your ass better? Chicks dig dudes with a hint of mystery. Shit, I had some of my friends ask me and guessed every day what my middle name was just because I never tell people it. I even had one of them ‘pinky swear’ to me on some middle school stuff. LOL.
But yeah man, the friend zone is real and it sucks. I’ve been played, most to all of us has been played once upon a time and it all comes down to the guy actually realizing that false hopes are exactly that, false hopes. As SOON as I get friend zoned (which I don’t take too long to get that answer) I simply move on and keep her as an acquaintance. Is it fair for her? No but too bad lol.
Don’t carry yourself like a bitch. I mean, really learn to understand exactly what that means. That’s the anti-friend zone. Hell, excusing yourself from being exploited under false pretenses is in itself the anti-friend zone.
And think about it. Maybe she’s doing you a favor by not getting involved with you in the first place.
I’m dating myself, but remember the lousy bitch from The Last American Virgin? She stomped that loser’s heart into tomato paste… but was she even a decent catch to begin with? That was the guy’s fault for lacking the self-esteem to distance himself from a horrible person (or, treat her like shit, like his alpha bro ‘friend’).
Friend zone is only a problem if the person uses you and exploits your emotions to get shit out of you. Clearly communicating that it’s probably not going to happen is a humanly nice thing to do and see no reason someone would bitch about it.
There is only one “zone” I believe in scrubs.
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Unless things started out platonic and gradually developed into interest, I don’t even keep as an acquaintance. Just move on and let it go.
Act 3 is the hardest level of the friend zone…
damn barrels…
Maybe people need to realize unrequited love is not that big of a problem? 
Seriously, since when people started wanting a relationship so badly? That’s how I see it nowadays.
I guess it’s all situational but I definitely agree. For me at least, a girl friend zoned me early last year but I took two classes with her during the week so it’s kinda hard to burn bridges when they’re sitting right behind me every time.
Of course as soon as you can get rid of the problem, do it. They will most probably come around looking for you while you’re flooded with female attention anyways.
It’s sad that niggas really needed to make this thread when that is the only thing they ever talk about in the relationship thread. No but seriously, try and contain your shit posting to one thread please. No one cares if you are having trouble getting your dick wet. Whenever you start concentrating on more important things in life that aren’t being a whiny FAGGOT on a video game forum then I am quite sure life will start to fart pots of gold and rainbows all over your ugly face.
Oh, stop complaining. No one asked you to come here.
People don’t ask me to come, they beg me.
Not that YOU would know, where I am coming from. Or on for that matter.
Since shit like MTV happened, that’s when.
Shit I wish nuclear engineering was this easy.
settle down ICEMAN.
There’s a friendzone?
I knew there was a “weak ass game” zone.
Like, if you like that person, and they say no, and you still like them, you’re just delusional.
If you like that person, and they say no, and you don’t like them like that anymore, then there is no zone, you’re just friends.
If you came at that person trying to be a friend WHILE TRYING TO FUCK THEM, that’s pretty messed up, considering she was expecting a friend and you were expecting pussy.
Let a girl know you’re interested, you don’t have to be a douche, just let them know you’re not here for that friend shit.
Why do people keep bringing this up? It does not exist. End of story.
Only weak minds believe in it.
Definition of friend zone from wiki:
In popular culture, the “friend zone” refers to a platonic relationship where one person wishes to enter into a relationship, while the other does not. It is generally considered to be an undesirable situation by the lovelorn person.[1] Once the friend zone is established, it is said to be difficult to move beyond that point in a relationship.
Unless you guys are saying that the above situation has never happened in the history of mankind, then the friend zone does exist. What are you guy’s definition of “friend zone” that makes you think it doesn’t exist?
whats wrong with female friends? i’ve lost most of mine since they were all christians and got married, and i stopped going to church years ago. the fact of the matter is its just a lot easier when you’re out on the prowl at night if you have girls in your group. you just look like a bunch of horny creepers if not. i mean it doesn’t stop me and my buddies from attacking large packs of females, i’m just saying its much more difficult if we’re all just dudes.
also, i always go shopping for clothes w a female becaues i’m clueless about that shit. you can also bang their friends too. so looking back, i always let my intentions get known up front, but i regret adopting the hardline “hey im not gonna be your friend if you dont suck my pee pee”. the trick really is if youre gonna be friends with a girl you wanna bang
I’ve developed feelings for friends before, it just sorta happens for me, there’s a big overlap between what I like in a friend and what I like in a girlfriend.
Both times I’ve done this and gotten a “no” response, I got over it and kept being friends with them because these were pretty cool gals. We’re still cool.
Do guys get led on by chicks that say no but get you to buy you shit as if you owe it to her for all the flirting? Yeah, it does. Not as often as the friend zone rhetoric gets thrown around and really it’s up to the guy to recognize that relationship is toxic and cut it off.
