So i just got into a car accident and almost died

Never change, brother. Never change.

Thank you. I appreciate your perspective.

Bulldancer, you posted this in response to me. http://shoryuken.com/showthread.php?t=237031&p=8910336&viewfull=1#post8910336

Why do you think the world would be a better place without someone like me in it? Is it because the road to being a true human being is truly a difficult one and we as people have so many obstacles infront of us that it seems that true peace and compassion seems impossible? It isn’t, Bulldancer. I know it’s an extreme and I can respect your point of view but I want you to respect mine as well. Do not shun me. Engage me. Engage me in open dialogue. I want to feel your pain.

Yep very offended. I hate you and Gucci Mane is not a human, he is a thing. [media=youtube]oH1rOL5hB9s"]Everything is lies and not all “people are humans”. I’m aware of my prejudice and I find it quite sexy. Society is perfectly fine and I’m not mad, U mad. I’ll [URL=“http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S8n9ECqeYTg&feature=related”[/media] alright…

depends on the situation. i remember my Driver’s Ed teacher telling us if you start hydroplaning **carefully **pump your brakes many times until the weight of the car pushes the water out from under your wheels. don’t do one hard brake stomp because you’ll just keep sliding and have no control of your car.

Damn dawg, the way you paint this picture, it seems like I am afraid of my own shadow. So your telling me that if I follow your lead I can gain new understanding and awareness of the what it means to be human since I am obviously just some poor lost sheep in need of your helping hand? Thats nice and all but what makes you think you can save or that I need saving? What makes you believe that compassion is the answer to all life’s riddles? Unfortunately nothing you personally will ever do in your entire life will ever move a SINGLE person to act in the manner that you think is best because since everyone’s actions stem from their own understanding of this world and even if you could actually see through another persons eyes you still would perceive your surroundings like they do. When you realize that, then you can come to terms that you don’t really no shit about whats ultimately right and wrong.

You need to understand that just because YOU are afraid of that voice in your head that tells you to disregard your fellow man, to gain physical wealth through any means necessary, and to take advantage of anything and everyone, doesn’t mean someone else wasn’t brave enough to EMBRACE THAT. Explain to me how they would be wrong if they live their lives the as honestly as possible even if comes at the price of others? It is no different than any other species of animal that lives on this planet.

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You hate me because I pointed out that you truly are a person that is prejudice and society perceives prejudice as a negative trait but in reality, you probably aren’t prejudice-- you are AWARE of prejudice. That is why you probably feel that society is shunning you in particular. You feel that they are not the same subject and they really AREN’T. The fact that you used comedic views to try and shake me further shows me that you can look at the darker side of humanity and have a chuckle and that is what society is afraid of. Society is afraid of embracing the ugly side but we have to, as human beings, realize that there is a beautiful side and an ugly side to everything-- even humanity. I respect your views and I am doing my best to see the situation through your eyes. I am not attacking your perspective-- I am trying my best to understand it.

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So if I told you that I wanna help you understand thuggin would you embrace my cock? I promise that it’s a hellava lot prettier than society.

I am not saying you are afraid of your own shadow-- I am saying that you are afraid of your human side. You are afraid that you too can be someone as open as I am currently thinking. You don’t have to be afraid. I feel that if you read and realize that maybe I can be right and you can be right at the same time means that we can meet on a middle ground. Isn’t that what I’m doing to you right now? I am currently engaging you in conversation with a very real subject. A subject that you feel shouldn’t be so perceivably simple when in reality the road to get to that “simplicity” really is a difficult, treacherous and scary road. True compassion is what we humans makes us different from animals. We need to co-exist together as a HUMAN species than try to seperate and end up as a single dominant group. I am not afraid of the voice-- the fact that I’m here, openly debating about the subject just proves my point. I am not trying to attain wealth-- I am trying to achieve enlightenment. The fact is that we don’t want to admit but we have to face that there is not one single right OR wrong road-- that is what society has taught you and that is what you are afraid of. That everything you know is built on a lie.

Thank you, Bulldancer. 2Pac and Biggie’s deaths unfortunately contributed to the negative light that rap is currently perceived as. Just as they had chosen their own paths to success doesn’t make them wrong. People saw them as right. Humans need to understand that there are two sides to everything.

Please help me understand thuggin’-- but do not be afraid if I actually understand it because believe it or not, I am actually pretty well informed with the negative perception of rap/hip-hop culture.

It can happen really easily. My car had good tires, but it handled like a big giant boat (ass-suck 2000 Mitsubishi Eclipse GS, so you don’t even get the extra weight of the V6 to weigh the front end down) I took the exact same on-ramp that I take every day coming from work, but I never realized that there is a little lip to go over that can create the perfect storm for an accident in bad weather. I was actually able to downshift and regain a bit of control to aim for the rail instead of another lane of traffic, but I still screwed up the driver side body. No frame damage and the bags didn’t deploy. And I didn’t cry. LOL but I wanted to after looking at what I just did to my car and my deductible.

Oh, about a year later my friend got an Evo and the same thing happened to him at the exact same spot. Anyone who knows about cars will tell you that Evo drivers can’t be trusted, though (he’s wrecked it three times now!!! But I believe the ramp one wasn’t his fault because it happened to me too). :clown:

As soon as that happened, I took the advice from the forums I go to and got better shocks and bigger tires (17x8s instead of 16x7.5) and that made a much better difference. I could no longer make the rear wheels slide out, which used to happen even in dry weather! The car feels great to drive, but the most important part is that it’s much safer. I guess my point is to upgrade your car if you have the money and it’s doing stuff that can be unsafe. :tup:

yeah, any car can hydroplane, they just have to be going at least 50 mph (i’m fairly certain).

Middle ground? Is that some kind of analogy for your taint? Your special educations teacher might have gotten away with telling you that there is no wrong answer in this world but I can assure you that is not the case. If my view is right and deep down inside you are nothing but an animal trying to justify your own intelligence and emotions by being benevolent and compassionate for those around you, instead of using it to your advantage, even going so far to aid those that might potentially do you some manner of harm, that to me just makes you an incompetent animal, like OP is an incompetent little girl of a driver.

You want me to be compassionate about your views while then saying that everything I know is a lie. Every word out of your mouth is just ex-lax scented bullshit man made to make people doubt themselves and goes against everything you think you are trying to convey do to the simple fact that at it’s core, it is simply wrong. You wanna see through my eyes than spend atleast a few minutes being an asshole and really live it, then see if you can go back to your rice cake eating ways my dear spineless friend.

Man, this thread exploded.

The fact that you are still trying to attack me is certainly true that I am striking a bad chord with you and I do apologize for coming off so hostile. Keep in mind, although I did say what you know are lies I mean to say that what I too, what I perceived as life, is a lie as well. I am not trying to justify intelligence. What makes you think I am intelligent? I am just someone who wants to know more about the world that what seems to be at the surface. You do not seem to know what I am talking about-- I say the entire human species needs to realize that it is not an animal because that simply isn’t the case. We can reason. We can love. We can feel true compassion. Compassion, as defined means a feeling of deep sympathy and sorrow for another who is stricken by misfortune, accompanied by a strong desire to alleviate the suffering. What I’m trying to convey to you is that I don’t have to grow up poor to know the pain that the poor go through-- because compassion-- true compassion-- that is what it is about. That is what being human is. I can admit to you that thinking like this is frightening and the fact that people need to stand up for what they believe in and get others to see the big picture is much more satisfying than living in fear.

If being truly human means that I have to be all la-la-happy-and-peace with all of the fuckwits and douchebags, then I’d rather be an asshole.

+rep to angelpalm

Care to answer my question on page 3?

Just so you know, ever post you start off with an apology automatically gets ignored by my superior beastial senses. I am simply gonna make you perfectly aware of the fact that every time you attempt through more compassion at me will only end up hurting your case because some people are just more in touch with nature and their own emotions than you are, and I happen to be one of them. You claim to want to understand someone but you refuse to adjust your methods because you confuse your methods and delivery with your personifaction of your “self”. All the means as that deep down you are an arrogant piece of crap that think too highly of themselves to give in and yell and bitch at someone when you think they are doing wrong which will also means that you are not only actually living your life but are also to cowardly to expose your ow vulnerabilities. Have fun being a coward that hides behind colorful prose you fucking coward, live life without even being capable of a showing shred of your own natural rage or having the least amount of diginity.

Nah, I’m cool man. You and angelpalm are the main event here.