i’ve had no success with online dating but i wish the best of luck to u.I had some fun on POF tho just trying to hit up chicks and using pick up lines:
this one chick had cheetah pants on in her profile pic.I hit her up with a msg and said “damn girl those cheetah pants u rocking bring the animal out of a nigga” not even a full minute later I have a inbox msg saying hey boo,how ur doing lol does it?
I deactivated my shit after that lol
9x10 i didnt get a answer back even with “Hey How Ur Doing”(i stopped the joke approach after awhile found it wasnt me).This one chick hit me back,we talked for an half an hour on POF.Then we exchanged FB’s since I was going to deactivate my account again,so she accepted me.but then a min later I see she deleted me.Im like fuck this bitch.
but like i said man best of luck,if u live in a big city u may have better than luck than me,i live in a small city.
The only thing that I see on that is that white ppl need to go outside more, fill out surveys less. Things that are shown that everyone knows are that they are more worried about race but given the low ass numbers from non-white participants this might be untrue. What does this have to do with porn or the BBC? Man I love me some Top Gear.
with myspace. not even kidding. just dont get too comfortable. you should still expect to fail. dating is mostly trial and error. dont waste too much time online. keep things simple.
Depends on where you’re at. Friend of mine in the city signed up for OK Cupid, and he’s met, dated and fucked some BEAUTIFUL women off there. Totally free, so I said let me try that now, living in Buffalo at the time. Pure and utter SHIT. I got nowhere with that. So either way, it’s gonna be reflective of where you live. If you live in buttfuck nowhere like Western NY, you’re not gonna have as much luck with it as living in somewhere that’s worth a shit.
I have been using OKC for a while. Nothing serious came out of the last 5 years, but a few hookups, a bunch of dates, a couple of fuck-and-never-heard-from-agains, and about a dozen that I’ve become pretty good friends with.
I tried Plenty of Fish a couple years ago for a summer. Best I can say is that you should get ready for a ton of women that are decent, not bad looking but not that great either but they ALL put out on the first date. So it’s like a free brothel of clearanced women.
Though, I’ve definitely found girls are more social on this site… but as I said, there’s a lot of hipsters and ugly girls that will message you.
Though, sometimes I get this: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/mae-bee
And things are OK with me, because that’s my type to a tee… and our “match rating” is like 4% negative, 88% positive… So it’s accurate for the most part.
Lmfao I can honestly say I’ve never gotten anything that weird. Had some older women on there just tryin to be sociable and chat about whatever though, fuck that.
When I move out of Buffalo I’ll have to give plenty of fish a try. No sense signing up for it now, this is fucking Western NY.
I’ve always heard that the pay sites are little bit better, since you tend to get a more serious crowd(generally people that are looking to settle down or what not). Also, as most people have already stated, your profile picture matters A LOT. Nice little example for those of you who care or are actually interested in online dating:
A bunch of decent but nothing special broads, lots of acid casualty art school girls and random hipsters, a few weird redheads (one of whom was a freaky-looking model)
You do get a more serious crowd, but I’ve also heard you get a lot of “I’m not looking for a date, I’m looking for a husband” type of women, which isn’t my speed at the moment.
Oh, and above at the 6’ foot comment: I proudly state that I’m 5’7" with a body type of “a little extra” and I get messages from women who I wouldn’t have thought I had a chance with if I saw in a bar. That has nothing to do with it. Just make sure you don’t put up any Sanford-while-playing-Marvel-2 faces. Girls don’t find that attractive. Your profile picture and the first 3 sentences of your “Self-Summary” is what matters most. Biggest turn-off in Self-Summary would be “I don’t know what to put here.”
Tell them that you are a sensitive and kind soul who has lived a hollow, tortured existence. Once they’ve fallen for your (totally legit) story, you say…
