Here there are a lot of locals who are respected more than anything. There’s a drag queen who’s been around for the longest time. I think she’s kinda slow and isn’t all that in drag, but no one can deny how much she’s done for the SA community. She’s a San Antonio legend.
I recently ran into an online ad that had guy who was like 150lbs seeking guys in the weight range of 180-440. I was like WOW WTF?!! 440!?!?!
So my question to you bear lovers, is there a size that is too big for you? Would you date a guy over 400 lbs? If so, 500? how big would you go?
How is 400 lbs. or even 300 pounds sexy?
Personal preference. Not everyone thinks the same things are/aren’t sexy.
That’s more of a chub chaser thing than a bear thing specifically, but I guess they intermingle a lot anyway.
I don’t really have a set upper limit in the form of a set number of weight (although 300-350 is usually what I tend to like most), I have an upper limit in the form of physical limitations, mostly hassles I wouldn’t enjoy dealing with in a dating situation, but in a freak and beat or friends with benefits situation, it really just depends on the guy. Some people carry it well, some (most, I guess) really don’t.
Translation: I could probably hit someone at 400, but 450 is usually where it gets iffy.
it’s all in how they wear it. there are some sexy football players that are around 300lbs… but they look great. 400 lbs for me would be tough to date… but if they look good i’d hit it. It’s tough to date someone that heavy cause if they arent “solid” as in if 1/2 of that isn’t muscle or a large percentage of it isn’t than they have trouble with stamina, walking places, hula hooping, so on and so forth.
500lbs… I’ve been approached several times. I only did it once and man that was alot of work.
I’m more than 100 pounds heavier than the guy in the add but i hope he doesnt have the chub get on top of him that’s a crushed pelvis for sure.
Nick frost is sexy… he’s about 300lbs. I think you are thinking of the maury show versions of these 400lb 500lb people and not thinking of like … Ex bodybuilders who now have a belly and a litttle fat. Mmmmmm I love that look.
Whew, good thing I happened to be alone in this project room I’m in at work when I read this, because I literally laughed out loud at the hula hooping part.
Some guy called me a thug last night. I was serving him and joking around and his friend was like “Don’t bother he’s straight.” I tell them I’m not and he’s all, “Well I like those thug guys like you.” Ugh.
Some heavy guys do wear it well. But I like all body types. there are good things about each.
I do like a bit of a gut, it’s cute. but also ok is muscular, lean, hairy, shaved, younger(not too much) or older (not too much) whatever.
Not really into skinny…eww. BUT sometimes they are attractive as long as they have some meat on them. It all depends on if they wear it well, if they are comfortable with themselves, and of course they gotta be cute (like face-wise).
a lot more guys would be cuter if they didn’t fuck up their face with those god-awful tiny little skinny ass eyebrows…ugh! too many latinos do that…bleh
I don’t think I’d date a skinny guy though : / i’d fuck around with them but meh…
average body types are pretty nice
No homo.
lol … oh wait LOHOMOL <- much better
Average body type for ghey seems to vary. When i was in Beverly hills for a while there version of average was lagunabeach washboard abs and what i’d call a swimmers build.
there version of bear was the same as above just slap on a mustache and 10 lbs.
coincidentally there version of average woman is the same as my first description -10 lbs + boob job.
therefore the average bear in beverly hills is only 20 pounds and a boob job away from being an average woman in the same area.
Scary.
well they’re just weird then because that’s not average by most people standards I think.
swimmers build, not average build
I don’t know, hot is hot. Some big dudes are hot, some are not. Trust me, there’s some uglyass fit guys out there. The only thing I really can’t go for is skeletors.
Goldie Hawn? 
I guess that’s true. I’ve definitely seen some fit guys that are candidates for uglypeople.com
I’ve even seen thin guys that i am like wow… he’s really sexy.
hahahahaha!
More like Oldie Hawn.
And what the fuck is up with those baboon ass lips? Collegen for days.
I’m totally crushing on my boss.
So it’s pride time here in nyc. this past weekend i went out to the bars and lots of out of town hotties were there which is always nice. They had a Leather festival on sunday called Folsom Street East Which was nice because it’s a leather festival open to everyone that loves leather.
Which meant alot of gay guys in chaps and all that but there were also women in leather bikinis and straight couples that just enjoyed showing off there leather gear.
Personally I’m not so into the leather thing, My bf is … it’s just something about that look that doesn’t do it for me.
I think it’s cause everytime i see someone in leather you’ll typically see the whole slave and master thing not to far behind it … or the guys that are like “lick my boots” and I don’t play that shit at all. It’s just not a sexual fantasy for me to be chained up and whipped and shit… not cool for me.
Later that evening while at the bar a small gathering of people showed up with a megaphone to preach about jesus… at 2am outside a bear bar.
One told me "jesus loves me"
I replied “I’d always thought Jesus and i had a casual thing going on… Tell jesus I’m flattered really, but i think we should just stay friends.”
Yeah, I just found out you have to pay $30 to go on the pride march here… WTF. :wasted: I’m a broke ***, I just want to walk around and shit, not pay $30 to walk around and shit.
Gotta love em.
Pride like a mother fucker.
Some of my friends at pride.
My friends keeps asking me if I’m going to pride and I’m like “eh no” evo north is that weekend anyway. though I don’t think I’d go to pride even if it wasn’t.
evo north>pride