Yup, OP should have done this to him.
My youngest brother has to be told to do something at least five times before he does what my mom asks of him. He gets away with so much shit just because my parents are old and tired, bleh.
You seem to be the authority on physical violence.
I mean, who the fuck else am I going to ask? Sovi3t? I’m not asking Sovi3t.
she sure does, cause she knows I won’t hit her. they all had some tough times growing up. none of them were perfect. 5 of her siblings have kids of their own and none of them beat their kids.
Nah man. That shit is dangerous! I mean, shooting a laptop on the ground in a big, wide, open field is dangerous to everyone around it! One of the bullets could’ve bounced off the laptop (since laptops are obviously made of adamantium and can deflect bullets!) and struck a random car driving by!
naa, your kid has to have that LITTLE bit of fear of his parents. Kids will always fuck around, and you can’t beat them for every discretion. But occasionally, they will cross the line, and grounding them will do nothing. I know a LOT of people who were never hit as a kid, and ended up fucking dominating their parents and being little shits
There is a difference between a discipline slap and public beatings
If you have no control over your kid besides physical abuse, your ass needs parenting classes
Do it the Tekken way.
That way you can have 4 generations of men trying to ruthlessly kill each other.
If you ignore the occasional devil possesion, you can see that they are all healthy, in perfect shape, wealthy, and they can build huge corporations like its nothing :lovin:
For minorities, it’s ok…if it’s one thing I learned when I was younger was that my pops wasn’t playing around when he said something lol
If you don’t hit your kids how will they fear you?
It’s pretty self explanitory.
And there is nothing wrong with spanking your kid but of course there has to be more to your parenting then just that, just like everything in life.
my mom use to make me kneel on uncooked rice while holding text books in both hands or she would make me take a shower and when i was done she would hit me with the belt.Damn straight beating your kids would set them straight.
Fuck a child service.
When i was growing up I got my ass whooped, curbed stomped, abused etc. My father established he was the parent and I was the child. Back then i hated being curb stomped but guess what it gave me tons of character and simple respect for other people.
Even tho i got beat down it was explained to me why i was getting a beat down so I learned to be smarter lol. The last beating i got i was 11 and it taught me a lot.
Now child abuse ok that i can draw the line but discipline, you have to do that with your child.
A whoppin or stiff slap follwed by telling your kid why whatever action is not right well help mold a child. That is MHO, now i’ve had friends who turned out decent and didnt get hit so obviously you can still get through w/o beating but for me Im a lost cause.
I have a kid or kids they are getting beat out of revenge!! I got beat with belts, fists, remotes, shoes, extention cordes etc. I cant do all that creative ass kicking but I will put the fear of GOD in my children when they step out of line.
I will rest well when the day comes that I hear my child tell their friends…
“Go to Stacy’s party? Hell no my dad is crazy!!”
“Nah man if my Dad founds out, Im catching a Hulk type ass whoppin”
Once my kids admit defeat to me–then i will rest good.
I read the thread title as “Is hitting on your kids ok?” and got very concerned for a moment there
Still concerned reading the responses, but … yeah.
I’m not coming from a bleeding heart point of view, I’d be all for smacking your kids if it worked, but there is so much evidence that in the long run it makes behavior worse. It will stop the behavior immediately but down the line the child becomes more aggressive and more out of control. I’m not saying let kids run all over you, kids definitely need discipline and need to respect their parents. It’s just there are ways to discipline a kid with out having negative effects down the road.
That might be your opinion but there is overwhelming evidence that it does more damage than good.
I wasn’t going to bother with another iteration of this thread but the part I quoted interests me. Please, go on. Tell us these ways you speak of that can discipline a kid without having negative effects down the road.
I’m only down with hitting bla–
Goddammit…
What? I can never roll with a bitch ass nig6a
That’s not where I’m going with that (not arguing with you) he’s says black kids. I was asking him to explain that caused it sounded racist. Trust me people have there opinions, I just wanted him to explain it. Black kids aint the only ones that needs a beating watch the news and see what other races are killing parents, and teachers. But ya know I don’t want to be part of this because this is going to go too much deeper than what it is.
For me I’d say it has to be an extreme situation. I definitely got hit and caned as a kid so I know the feeling.
I would hit my own kid but only on the buttocks and not like pants down or anything.