Sounds like someone’s trying to justify getting a handy after the fact…
Cheating is a fucking nebulous term. Here’s how you know it’s cheating - would your partner consider it cheating? Yes? Then it’s cheating. Some people don’t consider penetrative contact with another person cheating, others consider watching porn cheating. Ask your partner, you have your fucking answer.
BTW, try the “Well, according to a poll on a fighting game message board, I didn’t cheat” argument, see how valid it is.
Nah.
I knew a chick who was polyamorous. Her stance was “if i know and am okay with it it isnt cheating”.
So while i would consider it cheating i can see how some people wouldnt. I think if youre trying to justify it as not cheating so you dont have to tell your s/o because you know theyd be mad then its cheating.
So “cheating” and its definitions should be discussed in the confines of the relationship
Ok, let me pose this (in spite of how silly I think this topic is) - what if a dude rubs your girl to completion through her clothes? No penetration but she squirted to those fingers like your dick never could…did she cheat? Like she verbally let out a “Holy fuck, I’m cumming!” in the middle of a crowded club but those fingers never passed through her heavily moistened labia, is that cheating?
Sounds like someone needs to step their game up 
lol some of these replies are just packed with hostility.
Have some of your women banged dudes behind your backs or some shit?
I think we should make a cheating tier list of sorts:
Physical
Emotional
Mental
I dated a woman for a month who told me that if I tell another woman something, that’s emotional cheating. When I told her I have a lot of female friends who are really close to me and I talk to them about things I couldn’t with her, she lost it.
Temperamental artists are really hard to date.
Why you trying to use logic in a troll thread lol
Damn, did I post one of my fanfics to you? 
Emotional cheating? That’s a new one…
I’m finna throw these hands if some dude flicks my girl’s bean. However, my girl would never allow some lame ass muhfucka to do that in the first place. We own each other in every aspect of the relationship.
I love that this deserved a thread. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
It is not cheating if both parties know about it and are ok with it.
Guys, if your out to lunch with someone and they share a piece of their cheesecake with you, is that cheating? what if they feed it to you, just one bite?
im out this thread i can tell its only gonna get more dumb
I don’t really see how this is open for debate or a question. Granted, I’m the type who thinks that if a chick kisses another guy when she’s dating you it’s being unfaithful/cheating (and no I don’t mean it in the whole kisses grandma/grandpa/aunt on cheek at family reunions thing) because it just seems common sense to me, but still.
The way I see it, if you’re dating a girl and you get some other girl to start getting you off then of course it’s cheating. Hell, it’s like, the only person other than your gf that you can get a handjob from is yourself, and if you and your girl are doing stuff, then wtf would you even be jerking yourself off for anyway?
I remember hearing someone say that blowjobs were like a handshake or an autograph lol!
Still, if my chick gave some other dude a handjob or some dude was rubbing on her Id be pissed so I try to use that as a metric.
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